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The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles you to... - 5/5/2005 5:46:49 PM

FelinePersuasion

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It's kind of funny in apathetic way really, but what ever possesses some of these so called dominants to think that because they title them self Dom they need to know about the state of your vagina or your breast size.

I kept getting one asking If I shave or am I bare and so I told him it was none of hisb uisness an so he says now now behave. to which I say I am behaving I don't know you answer to you or submit to you. The state of my privates are just that private.

So he tried another sneakier aproach by complimenting how cute my mate and I are and he bets I don't shave one little hair on my pussy.

I told him again it was none of his buisness and he says and I am asking again. It's important to me.

I state It's not your buisness you ask again and I am going to block you. You're being rude.

He tries to play all dumb and say what? Complimenting your picture is rude?

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/5/2005 5:57:12 PM

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Oh.. I have gotten this so many times. It's not only from Doms tho.. it has been from males all thru my life. Sad, pathetic behavior as far as I am concerned. I am sure the psychologists would have a name for it.

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/5/2005 6:16:19 PM

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My guess is that they are so desperate to run around showing off their cock, they can't understand why a woman doesn't feel the same. I found it amazing, the number of guys who used to mail me, asking me intimate details, then asking if I wanted to see a photo of their dick.

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/5/2005 6:49:03 PM

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I found it amazing, the number of guys who used to mail me, asking me intimate details, then asking if I wanted to see a photo of their dick.

You mean they asked you first? I used to open up the emails and being the trusting fool i was (am) WHAMO naked cock pic of some guy I haven't even talked ot yet. Then comes the IM..inevitably along the lines of "what are you wearing sexy?". So I used to answer back red thong, wanna see. I'll give you three guesses what the answer was. So I'd send them a pic of a 500 lb woman in a red thong.

Suprisingly I never got responses after that.

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/5/2005 8:38:35 PM

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hehe there was a picture my firned sent titled choking the chicken, low an behold you open it up an he's choking a rubber chicken:))

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/5/2005 8:48:02 PM

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I have sometimes given this description when asked what I look like: I am wider than I am tall, I have only one eye. Still interested?

Would be interested in the picture of the lady in the red thong tho.. where'd you find it?

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/5/2005 10:57:06 PM

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Right. Women NEVER ask questions that are none of their business.

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/6/2005 12:08:08 AM

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I don't go up to complete strangers and demand to know about their pussies or cocks. or for naked pictures or to know about your bf and your sex lfe
Like most men go up an demand to know about woman
LAM

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/6/2005 3:55:39 AM

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Right. Women NEVER ask questions that are none of their business.

*grins* well, I do.... but never about anything so personal!! I was amazed meeting one dom on here asking me such intimate details from the word go, not only about me, but about other men I'd been with!

I guess I'm lucky that I always got asked first if I wanted to see the cock picture, hehe... only one man ever asked me what I was wearing though, and that was my Master taking the mick (before he was my Master). I think I told him I was wearing oversize teddy bear pyjamas and pink fluffy piggy slippers... and we're together now, so I guess honesty really does pay off!

Minx
(regrettably not running around in her oh-so-sexy pig slippers today)

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/6/2005 5:44:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tangwystal

I have sometimes given this description when asked what I look like: I am wider than I am tall, I have only one eye. Still interested?

Would be interested in the picture of the lady in the red thong tho.. where'd you find it?

That's all over the internet. lol. I think I still have it. If I can find it amongst this pile of junk on My computer I'll send you a message and send it to you.

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/6/2005 5:51:01 AM

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i would say u were the one being rude, u could have ask why he wanted to know, if u want a dom or domme u are have a lot to learn ull never get one that way i wish u all the luck in the world

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/6/2005 6:14:35 AM

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I must disagree with you subcharmedlilone. FelinePersuassion states very clearly in her profile that she doesn't talk about personal information such as sex life and breat size. She also refused to answer his question twice (more politely then I would have, I might add) and told him that information was private. He insisted asking again and then played dumb. Personally, I would have blocked him after he asked the second time (or played with him, but I get bored with people like that easily).

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/6/2005 8:05:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subcharmedlilone

i would say u were the one being rude, u could have ask why he wanted to know, if u want a dom or domme u are have a lot to learn ull never get one that way i wish u all the luck in the world

<giggling> I don't think she wants one bad enough to settle for that nonsense. She isn't desperate.

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/6/2005 3:26:50 PM

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subcharmed one I'm not interested in being dominated by the first man who comes along. Maybe you are but I have standards.
He doesn't need to know how my vagina looks to be Speak to me or ever be my dom. Infact with those questions attitudes he'd never even get to the consideration faze. If he thinks he does he can go find some cyber pussy to play with.

Once someone says none of your buisness it's sexual harrasement. Same as it's sexual assult once someone says no and a person continues. Not your buisness means just that. So does not.

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/6/2005 11:41:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subcharmedlilone

i would say u were the one being rude, u could have ask why he wanted to know, if u want a dom or domme u are have a lot to learn ull never get one that way i wish u all the luck in the world

It doesn't matter why he wanted to know. If she doesn't want to tell every "Dom," "Lord," and "Master" things like that until after she has been speaking to them for awhile, that is perfectly within her rights, and honestly, is a good idea, as the ones who insist upon having that knowledge right away are typically the HNGs of the "Dom"ly world. Besides that, a good Dominant will respect the wishes of someone that they are supposedly considering collaring.

We would never consider asking for personal information like that right off the bat - and when personal, intimate information is asked for, we give the reason with the question (for example, I have some size issues, so someone who is all proud of their 9" dick isn't going to be good for me and my poor abused cervix - so if we're to the point that we might be meeting with someone, and possibly starting up a serious relationship, I ask about their size then and only then).

As for her wanting a Dominant and "having a lot to learn" and "she'll never get one that way" ... you must have missed that she already HAS one.

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/7/2005 10:20:50 AM

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Those are about as obnoxious as when someone sends you an email the size of a novel and then wants to know what you'd do next.

I typically respond with "Extreme CBT wherein the end result is selling your naughty bits on eBay." Only one of them has tried to push onward after that.

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/7/2005 10:24:34 AM

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Grins at MadameDahlia

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/8/2005 12:26:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: MadameDahlia

Those are about as obnoxious as when someone sends you an email the size of a novel and then wants to know what you'd do next.

I typically respond with "Extreme CBT wherein the end result is selling your naughty bits on eBay." Only one of them has tried to push onward after that.

LOL that is great :)

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/8/2005 3:02:45 PM

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-takes a little bow-

You're welcome FelinePersuasion and MzRounder.

Always delightful to bring a smile to another's face...

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RE: The opnion that being a "dom" Intitles yo... - 5/9/2005 1:51:26 PM

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I just hate to jump in the middle of a perfectly good male-bashing party, but I can't help myself. While you are busily comparing notes on how to deal with ignorant males, maybe you can come up with some ideas on dealing with rude females. I can't count the amount of purely obnoxious profiles I've read here. Rather than simply setting their email filters, or a polite notice of their desires, they insist on using large font and going into great detail about how unwanted men are in their world. I have seen some of the rudest profiles I have encountered on the net on this site, including obscene gestures. While the majority don't act like this, there are far too many on this site compared to other BD/SM sites. I am wondering what is causing this lack of civility?

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