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A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/4/2007 6:14:43 PM   
Iwillwork


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Status: offline 		Hello All,

I am looking for some help and some "creative" suggestions. I am super happy in the role I have found pleaseing a Dominant woman in a pure "Houseboy" role. I come over each weekend, clean, and work and serve.

Thi sis a wonderful relationship that we both very much enjoy...

However, I am looking for  alittle guidance and some suggestion (please)...

What I am looking for is a few ideas that will move my service from "great" to "wonderful" for instance, when I make her bed, I put a mint on the pillow. I leave her a few meals to enjoy pre-done for during the week. When I mow the lawn, each time I leave a new littel garden orniment...

I am basically looking for a few more idea's.... what is it that would move service from "good" to "great" for a Dominant woman :)

Thank You..
robby.
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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/4/2007 6:42:46 PM   
Action


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Status: offline 		Oh my! Where do I get one of you! Anyhow I guess this is just something I get to enjoy using my imagination for. But first I'd have to ask what sort of limits does she set.

I personaly love premade baths, proper bathoils and desolving petals and even some fun colored bath bubbles when I can find it, even a chocolate milk bath I found from an expensive favorite store of mine.

Getting linen spray for the bed sheets, and on that area of aroma fresh flowers to leave or buds you can have grow in the house for a burst of fresh growing flowers. Also crushing certain things like lavender or boiling fresh cin sticks for tea and it leaves an amazing smell over the house.

Perhaps leave notes of love and adoration, fluff the pillows, see to it any little sweet tooths she has are satisfied with a box of chocolates left for her to indulge in, even something very special like chocolate dipped strawberries or just anything you can find out she likes.

On the cleaning aspect, getting into those nooks and cranies that can be missed, really put your all into the cleaning. Get under every couch and table.

I hope this has helped, I could go on and on, I know I'd love to have such a lovely and devoted boy leaving me gifts and cleaning my house!

-Action


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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/4/2007 6:58:27 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		You're not kidding there!  Good male service submissives seem almost impossible to find.  As One who just spent the past week "Srping Cleaning", I've certainly missed having a good houseboy!
 
To answer the question, though, I can't tell you what would improve the service being provided.  I'm sure you are doing wonderful work, but to excell, the chores have to be tailored to your Mistress' needs and wants.  Knowing what pleases HER is the key to excellence.  What are the things that prove to Her that She is in your thoughts with every task?  Arranging Her closet, putting Her favorite outfits in the most convenient reach is a good idea.  Are Her favorite sheets on the bed?  Did you plant Her favorite flower outside Her front door?  What comforts does She like?  What chores does She hate, and therefore please Her when you do them?
 
And......   Just in case you ever move to GA.......   *wink and a smile*

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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/4/2007 7:23:17 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		Clean her car, gas it, ensure the fluids are all filled, tires are aired. 

When you vacuum carpets in the house, vacuum around the baseboards and the couches and chairs too.

When you windex windows, do the fronts of appliances, the tv and clock/photo glass too.

Offer to organize things like photos, cabinets and closets

On a side note about the wonderful smells...I personally get migraines from certain scents, so check with her first to be sure she likes the scent. 

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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/5/2007 7:21:31 AM   
PairOfDimes


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Status: offline 		Yes, you're wonderful, I want one. :)

But I wouldn't want someone to spontaneously do more than I had asked for. I've had a few unpleasant incidents with well-meaning people who "organized" my desk so I couldn't find anything. I would advise you to propose your ideas to the woman receiving your service. "Wonderful" service is in the eye of the beholder, after all, as LadyPact wrote.

I'm all for noticing ways you could improve and asking about them--and gracefully accepting "no" if that's the answer. Have you noticed, when tidying her kitchen, that she's nearly out of milk? Don't run to the store--perhaps she doesn't actually drink much milk, and she bought that for a special recipe or for a guest, so more milk would go to waste. Instead, at a convenient time, remark that you noticed that she was nearly out of milk and ask if you might fetch her some more.

I would echo Action's point--do the tasks you are assigned with great attention and precision. If you're asked to vacuum, move the furniture, (and put it back!) and get into all the corners.

Monica

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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/5/2007 9:28:08 AM   
Iwillwork


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Status: offline 		Thank You all....

These are excactly the helpful sort of suggestions that I was hoping for... I appreciate it...

robby.

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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/5/2007 12:25:06 PM   
draba


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Status: offline 		Your Mistress is lucky to have you. I am my Mistress's gardener and she is always having trouble getting good house boys. Most just want to come and dance around naked while cleaning and then have a session. She is always complaining about it. We have tried to get me some help outside in the yard to no avail also. You are unique as most subs/slaves really just want to play.

But keep up the good work. She will reward you more and more as times goes on. I know. During the winter season, I get to see my Mistress every week free of charge for doing such a good job during the growing season.

Oh, she refuses to have me house clean for her. she prefers me to be gardening.

draba

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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/7/2007 5:07:47 AM   
petdave


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Status: offline 		One thing you might look into is presentation of meals- garnishes, arrangement, sauces, etc., so that they are aesthetically pleasing as well as tasty. Artistic napkin folding tends to go over well. Organization can be helpful, but as mentioned is something you'd want to discuss in advance. Some things depend on Her personality... is She very formal, or does She like silly things? i'm good with silly... when i used to make my wife sandwiches for work every day, i'd draw a smiley face somewhere on the bag each day, i sometimes set up little scenes with her stuffed animals, etc.



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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/7/2007 5:15:33 AM   
phoenixinchains


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   my Mate got these huge thick glass mugs for His ice tea, so recently i started putting a little water in the bottom and then sticking them in the freezer. now He gets the luxary of a  frosted mug when ever He wants it.
(you never saw me...)

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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/8/2007 2:47:16 AM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		Oh My OP! Planning to visit Australia at all? Or have they legalised cloning yet LOL?

Seriously, there's been some great advice here. Do find out if Mistress has any allergies to scents, plants, chemicals etc. Best to ask if She needs things rather than buy them etc, She should be pleased that you noticed and respected Her leadership enough to ask! But the little things you are doing are wonderful. What about leaving little notes somewhere She will definitely find them ... Mistress, it is my privilege to work for You ... thank You for allowing me to serve You etc. Warm fuzzies are always good to find!

Maam Jay

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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/8/2007 8:07:33 AM   
YesMistressIrish


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Status: offline 		I just moved and have a huge yard that needs a ton of work, so I am surrounded by shin-shavers (boxes) and I too wish we could clone you! My garden is huge and needs plenty of work to turn it into the haven of my dreams.

I have had plenty of offers to help, however finding someone to actually show up and serve, well there's the rub. I am a newbie to CM and am sifting through a ton of emails. Any tips from the Ladies would be welcome!

After reading all the posts on this thread I can only say 1 thing: Finding out what truly pleases her by observing, listening well, and occasionally asking questions and then doing it is very satisfying for the Mistress and slave/sub alike. 

I am having so much fun reading these forums. Thanks to all for your input,

Miss Irish

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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/8/2007 3:12:03 PM   
Wickad


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If she's not already, try introducing her bed (and her) to high quality, high thread count, 100% cotton sheets (I personally have found the 'sateen' weave to be the most to my liking).  As well, press all her bed linens after laundering them.  I do not have any type of scent allergy and I really enjoy things that smell great.  There are sprays designed to be used on sheets when you iron them that leave them smelling fresh and wonderful. 

It's the little things that count the most.

Wickad

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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/8/2007 3:56:05 PM   
VeryMercurial


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Status: offline 		robby, you sound wonderful, very few around here like you.

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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/8/2007 4:06:25 PM   
VeryMercurial


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Status: offline 		Action, we can share him.  So many service submissives needed, so few around.

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RE: A little thing... goes a long way... - 5/8/2007 5:03:33 PM   
Iwillwork


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Status: offline 		Thanks again... For all the wonderful ideas and suggestions :) I very much appreciate it....

My goal was simple... in the original question... I have gotten (I think) super good at serving and cleaning and taking care of my owner.. Hopefully so she can have more time to relax and enjoy....

I suppose I was just thinking after, cleaning the bathrrom to a spotless shine. Maybe I could also do a bit more... (Like make sure the she has all her toiletries) or be sure her soap dispenser is full of her favorite scented soap... or maybe as suggested a few notes left strategically to "Thank her" for letting me serve...

Thanks to everyone...
robby.

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