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LadyAngelika -> RE: How do I get my Master's attention? (5/6/2005 5:17:45 PM)
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My question is...how do I turn his attentions back to me...we've been together for 15 years now, and I dont know or want anything else but him...am I too late, or is there something else I can do that I havent thought of yet?
I have to say, what everyone here has said about Internet addiction is true. I'm not as bad as I used to be but it comes and goes. I actually go through phases... But I can say that I've never turned down a social invite for the Internet. I understand some people do. Ultimately, we make our own choices in life.
But getting back to your dilemma, here is an idea. It may or may not work depending on the dynamic in your relationship and your personal interests. But it might just work ;)
Ask him if you could look at some of the sites with him. He might say no at first, and if so, mention something like "well if you ever change your mind... it might excite me too". Try a few times. In my experience, men can be a little shy at first when it comes to watching porn with women, but once they see you are getting aroused too, it becomes a turn on for them. You can turn this into a form of foreplay.
Of course, the danger is that this could become your routine form of foreplay. But there are ways around this if you can work on compromises, like for example if one night you propose another type of foreplay. Or say you want to re-enact a scene you saw on one of these sites.
Creative solutions, though not a guaranteed fix, tends to get people out of ruts.
- LA
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