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BOUNTYHUNTER -> invincibility (5/5/2007 11:23:53 AM)
There are times I think I can catch a speeding bullet or hold back a speeding freight train however as I explained to mine,as a MASTER approaches a certain age he expects his to step up and take more responsibility's.AT 35 working up 80 stories skipping along a 4 in beam I was superman or thought so ,now at 60 it hurts like hell just getting on a horse.So I guess the point of all this rambling is this,as a mature master will you or do you extend more responsibility's to yours.I would like some responses from the older masters..bounty

Kinkypupper -> RE: invincibility (5/5/2007 6:55:47 PM)
Well I am only 52 so my answer may not count, However in the last 20 yrs I have had Cancer, A broken neck and a stroke so I do think I can provide a good answer. Responsibility- no More requirements and tasks - YES More self initiative and awareness of what I may require - most definately. To have a "it" as a slave who requires micromanagement, they would be lost if their Master was not able to manage their every moment. I am thankfully fully functional, however when I started my search I knew I did not want a "it" but someone who was intelligent and could manage my requirements if something did occur in the future. When I did have my stroke last year, my slave was here and did have issues about control, about my stubbornness and that line between what is good for me and what I wanted. She did what was required of her, regardless of how it effected the "lack of control" that I was not working with her on. She felt it as wrong and not right when I wanted something, or to do something and she had to put her foot down and say "no" But she did it in my best interest and therefore was still serving my needs.

aldompdx -> RE: invincibility (5/5/2007 8:02:52 PM)
In my experience, Mastery is not as much about conquering the outer world, but about gaining deeper awareness to conquer the inner world. Who is the greater master, the strong or the wise? Or like in baseball, good pitching always beats good hitting.

MagiksSlave -> RE: invincibility (5/5/2007 10:09:21 PM)
I have a question.. if you are ageing and haveing problems with things doesnt that mean that your slave is ageing and will be haveing problems with the same things as you, so how is giveing her the things you cant do going to do anyone any good if she cant do it eather??? just a thought Magik's slave

slaveluci -> RE: invincibility (5/6/2007 6:39:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave I have a question.. if you are ageing and haveing problems with things doesnt that mean that your slave is ageing and will be haveing problems with the same things as you, so how is giveing her the things you cant do going to do anyone any good if she cant do it eather??? just a thought Magik's slave Actually, my Master asked the same thing until i reminded Him that - just as in O/our situation - perhaps the slave is quite a bit younger[;)]. Master is the same age as Bounty and i'm not quite 35. If He began to have physical problems, which after a long day at work which does require a bit of physical labor He sometimes does, would He be willing to have me take on a "greater load" of the work at home? He's still thinking about that but He sure is willing to have me rub those tired feet, legs, back and neck[:)].....luci

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: invincibility (5/6/2007 3:49:10 PM)
Thats why we have slaves to take on the work load and make thing smooth for us.When I used the word"responsibilities "I was referring to a larger work load then normal ...what is having property if you can't put them to good use.I have a bad hip the need a replacement and they shall take on my work load around here until I have rehabed..ty for the responses..bounty

MagiksSlave -> RE: invincibility (5/6/2007 9:12:57 PM)
Thats not what I asked I mean... the slave already has a great deal to do beeing the slave, she is getting older to (me and Master are very close in age though we are both very young) but seeing as we will age together and both be haveing problems when we reach your age most likely how would it be possible for the slave to take on more then she has already when she may be faceing the same health problems?? Is your feeling that she is the slave so she must be the one that does all the suffering through life?? If it is then I guess you and me greatly disagree. Magik's slave

Celeste43 -> RE: invincibility (5/8/2007 12:46:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER Thats why we have slaves to take on the work load and make thing smooth for us.When I used the word"responsibilities "I was referring to a larger work load then normal ...what is having property if you can't put them to good use.I have a bad hip the need a replacement and they shall take on my work load around here until I have rehabed..ty for the responses..bounty What if she has her own health issues? Are you still going to make her carry your load even though it will cause her difficulties? Instead of hiring help who can do the work?

MagiksSlave -> RE: invincibility (5/8/2007 2:58:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Celeste43 quote: ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER Thats why we have slaves to take on the work load and make thing smooth for us.When I used the word"responsibilities "I was referring to a larger work load then normal ...what is having property if you can't put them to good use.I have a bad hip the need a replacement and they shall take on my work load around here until I have rehabed..ty for the responses..bounty What if she has her own health issues? Are you still going to make her carry your load even though it will cause her difficulties? Instead of hiring help who can do the work? this is exactly what I was asking!! Magik's slave

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: invincibility (5/8/2007 3:11:24 PM)
NO mine are young and healthy,I expect more from mine then most I expect..They are well taken care of and their future is secure,what more can a slave ask for?I guess I should have been more clear on this subject oh well ..bounty

Celeste43 -> RE: invincibility (5/8/2007 3:55:36 PM)
So what you are saying is that you only look for women much younger than you and you rule out anyone with any health issues. I'm a mite curious as to where in the talking stage you mention this. Do you ask first thing if they are in less than perfect health or do you leave it till later on, and how do you handle the rejection due to the fact that they aren't perfect?

eyesopened -> RE: invincibility (5/9/2007 2:59:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Celeste43 So what you are saying is that you only look for women much younger than you and you rule out anyone with any health issues. I'm a mite curious as to where in the talking stage you mention this. Do you ask first thing if they are in less than perfect health or do you leave it till later on, and how do you handle the rejection due to the fact that they aren't perfect? Celeste, i am laughing because i often have people ask me why i am not taken and let's face it, at my age i am hardly worth the trouble because i myself may need help in the future and since i'm not poly.... But that's not what this thread is about.

MsKatHouston -> RE: invincibility (5/9/2007 7:35:15 AM)
You state you have younger, healthier slaves. They are well taken care of and their future secure. I would assume if they were unhappy with their situation they are free to leave. A slave is there to help make your life easier. I don't see anything wrong with giving them more responsibilities as you need or want to in order to accomplish that goal. Although not of that age yet, I could make the comparison of being ill and making my slave pick up the slack to compensate for any work I was unable to do personally. I really don't see what the big deal is. If I was in your position, the answer would be yes, of course I would. I also think it is everyone's right to choose a dominant or submissive based on whatever criteria is important to them. I think some assumptions are being made as to your motivations which may not be completely accurate but even so, it's your prerogative. You've worked hard to establish a secure home for your family. Enjoy it.

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: invincibility (5/9/2007 7:46:58 AM)
TY KAT,many younger girls are taking this the wrong way after all this is the real world,A slave is here to make ones life more comfortable,they are here because they want to be here,if they didn't want to be here then the door is open for them to leave..Just one of the problems of an older master with younger slaves,one day hopefully in the distance future I"LL be gone and I hope I have put them in position to be able to resume their lives by educating them and making sure their future is bright.Since this have been a negative feed back from most let this thread die a peaceful death smiles..bounty

MagiksSlave -> RE: invincibility (5/9/2007 4:38:54 PM)
Yes everyone chooses the slave or Master they want and if the slave is younger and able to pick up the slack I see nothing wrong with that you just werent clear on that in your op. My problem was if they are close in age with you then I dont see it right to put even more on them seeing as they are most likely experiancing simaler ageing indused problems as you and it seemed uncareing and unloveing to have them do the things like lets say heavy lifting lets say of a box if both of you have bad backs why should the slave suffer? at that point I would think someone that cared for their slaves would have to compramise and each take a half of the heavy box and not just say "tuff your the slave so you suffer through it while I go lie down" Just my opinion. Magik's slave

Celeste43 -> RE: invincibility (5/9/2007 8:17:54 PM)
Bounty, I don't qualify as young, unlike others, but I wonder if you feel insulted when one of those much younger subs you chase rejects you because of your age, when you reject those who are anywhere close to you.

dawntreader -> RE: invincibility (5/9/2007 8:34:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Celeste43 So what you are saying is that you only look for women much younger than you and you rule out anyone with any health issues. I'm a mite curious as to where in the talking stage you mention this. Do you ask first thing if they are in less than perfect health or do you leave it till later on, and how do you handle the rejection due to the fact that they aren't perfect? i am slightly confused here Celeste - if this is Bounty preference in slaves, why should it be judged any differently than the miriad of other preferences Masters use?

ownedgirlie -> RE: invincibility (5/9/2007 8:50:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER TY KAT,many younger girls are taking this the wrong way after all this is the real world,A slave is here to make ones life more comfortable,they are here because they want to be here,if they didn't want to be here then the door is open for them to leave..Just one of the problems of an older master with younger slaves,one day hopefully in the distance future I"LL be gone and I hope I have put them in position to be able to resume their lives by educating them and making sure their future is bright.Since this have been a negative feed back from most let this thread die a peaceful death smiles..bounty Hi Bounty, I am 17 years younger than my Master. Like you, he is preparing me for when he leaves this earth, by educating me and teaching me some very valuable lessons in life. In turn, I am happy and willing to give him anything, and if this means I have more to do as he ages, then it is my pleasure to do so, as long as I am able. What you are talking about makes perfect sense to me. It is my privilege to do as much as I can for my Master, and the more the better.

Totalmaster4you -> RE: invincibility (5/10/2007 1:21:05 AM)
Bounty before we let this die I'd like to say something to Magik's slave and Celeste. Somehow in reading their comments they have an attitude like a femininist. By definition a slave is owned property to do whatever their owner wants. It really comes down to what the parameters of the relationship are. If it is D/s it's possible to have what you are suggesting, however if it's M/s it's what I said. Can an owner become fond or more than fond of a slave maybe even love her. Yes. But when push comes to shove she is still slave and owned, to do whatever her owner wants. Bounty I'm 59 and without boring you with the details I'm going through what you asked. Yes I would increase her burden if she'd been able to handle the burden she already has. The solution is to add an additional slave to pick up the slack if your reduction in ability is going to be long term. Alan

julietsierra -> RE: invincibility (5/10/2007 2:51:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave Thats not what I asked I mean... the slave already has a great deal to do beeing the slave, she is getting older to (me and Master are very close in age though we are both very young) but seeing as we will age together and both be haveing problems when we reach your age most likely how would it be possible for the slave to take on more then she has already when she may be faceing the same health problems?? Is your feeling that she is the slave so she must be the one that does all the suffering through life?? If it is then I guess you and me greatly disagree. Magik's slave Oh for goodness sake! My mother is 71. She has the beginnings of glaucoma. She has assorted other aches and pains associated with being 71. My father is 73. He had polio as a child and is now suffering the reality of post polio syndrome. He walks heavily on two canes. And he suffers from the indignity of not being able to do everything he used to be able to do. He was a very active man. He and my mother built their own house - not had it built, but nailed every single nail in the place into place. He hunted and fished and swam and he was the most able disabled person I ever met. On the day of his marriage, my mother was asked what leg he limped on and she couldn't remember. It was never something she thought about. It's something she has to be concerned about now. She has all the jobs she ever used to have. In addition, whenever he calls her - which is often - she runs to do what he can't. She does so without complaint. All she cares about is that he stay as active as he can for as long as he can. To that end, she carries 2x4s and his tools and has learned how to do more than she ever thought she would want to learn or have to learn. Going to the hardware store for a bolt is a challenge. They've found a way to cope. He gives her the kind of bolt he needs, drives her there, waits in the car for her with a cup of coffee. She takes the bolt in, goes to the counter, says "I need 3 just like this" and the guy behind the counter gets it for her. She purchases it, takes it to the car and makes sure it's the right one. If it isn't, she goes back with further instructions. This and a myriad of other things is what she does - on top of all the jobs she has to do in a given day - and they both have a LOT to do. In return, (but not as payment) he takes her to the Farmer's Market every Saturday so she can buy flowers and mulch and vegetables and all the things she loves. She can't lift the mulch, but she seems to find a way every time. For goodness sake! It's not about what she has to do! It's about what he can't do, and she's going to make life as full as possible for him for as long as possible. And they're VANILLA. Now if a husband and wife, married for 49 years this July can live like this, why is there such a damn concern over the amount of work the poor little submissive girl will have to do?! - boo hoo. If my Master can't and I can, I do. It's as simple as that. I do because it needs to get done and I'm not afraid of hard work. I do because he's my Master. I do because he's told me to. I do because it'll make his life easier. I do because I can. And I do because I love him. What other reasons does anyone really need? Oh yea...and I guess just to keep the record straight, I'm 9 years younger than my Master, but it wouldn't matter if I was 6 months younger. No, we're not married and no, we don't live together, but we're in this life together. Thats why it'd get done. juliet

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