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RE: Brat? - 5/7/2007 10:38:01 AM

IrishMist

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IrishMyst, it has nothing to do with trying to get attention. In fact the more i submit the more this side comes out. And why? becaue i like to challenge people. I want to be forced to submit on days i feel rebellious. I want to see..can i push the buttons? If i can, I can't completely submit.

I am sure that you noticed the wording of my post; paying special attention to the section that says MY, and the little disclaimer at the end?

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RE: Brat? - 5/7/2007 7:27:46 PM

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I'm flippant. I have a dry wit and a great appreciation for puns. When given an opening, I use them. As far as submission goes, I can only submit if I judge the dominant to be worth my submission which means that I judge his values and choices very carefully.

I'm bratty because I sass verbally in appropriate circumstances. I also chose a man who appreciates wit and flippant responses. He enjoys me talking back. He calls me a brat and will sometimes tickle me or spank me, but there is no pretense of punishment, just fun here.

I wouldn't work for most doms but honestly, I wouldn't give most of them the time of day. I'm not into total self abnegation nor kneeling in public or anything else that I judge to be designed to shore up a weak male ego. If he doesn't know his place in the relationship simply because of who he is, then my kowtowing won't teach it to him. I know my place because he knows his and because of who he is. And because we both know, deep down, where we both belong he isn't challenged by my getting the better of him in a witticism.

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RE: Brat? - 5/7/2007 7:38:18 PM

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I do not see the word brat as something negative as so many do. I see it simply as a word that describes playfullness, curiosity, humor, and coyness; all wrapped up into one neat little package.

Not to be confused with willfull disobedience; which is more negative and unwanted within a relationship.

Just my views on a single word

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RE: Brat? - 5/8/2007 4:01:28 PM

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Oh and I only brat when I feel secure and safe in a relationship with someone I love who loves me. I don't do it to get attention, but as a result of having enough attention. The less my needs are met, the more I withdraw.

And why can't we edit after the first hour or so? It would make adding additional thoughts so much easier.

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