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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/7/2007 5:55:40 PM   
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This is better than a friggin soap opera.


I'm seriously thinking about breaking out some Merlot. Ok and I really don't want to edit this stupid paper I'm working on.

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/7/2007 5:55:48 PM   
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You people are incredibly immature...The only acurate statement that could be said about the disabled is that "they smell a little funky."

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/7/2007 6:42:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

quote:

This is better than a friggin soap opera.


I'm seriously thinking about breaking out some Merlot. Ok and I really don't want to edit this stupid paper I'm working on.


I have some Yellow Tail here if you would like some, I can't drink it anyways (damn South Beach)

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/7/2007 7:13:29 PM   
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You became jaded, and it shows in how you react to others.
You have no right to judge me.

I get it -- you have the right to judge her and Aileen but they aren't allowed to reciprocate. Hypocrisy posing as moral indignation is amusing.








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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/7/2007 9:07:33 PM   
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You became jaded, and it shows in how you react to others.
You have no right to judge me.

I get it -- you have the right to judge her and Aileen but they aren't allowed to reciprocate. Hypocrisy posing as moral indignation is amusing.


You are right... My anger did get the better of me and my apologies. I should not have judged either of them as people, however I can judge them by their comments.
You cannot judge a person as a whole, only on what you know PERSONALLY. I can by statements made by them directly, and they can judge me in the same manner, but to judge me on the comments of others is hearsay and that is not acceptable. Nor for me to judge them on the statements of others.

As far as making an ass out of myself... Stef... that is not the first time I have been accused of that nor will it be the last, however, I still stand firm that for someone to judge another without knowing the whole circumstance behind it, especially when they are in the field that is supposed to be helping those people they are judging is assinine. For KatyLied to continue to harp on an incident that she only knows a small fraction of the circumstances and to say I was wrong about it without knowing evey detail involved even though that incident was over 3 months ago and it DOES NOT reflect on my character but on a situational incident is as assinine.

For her to then make the comments she did about the disabled... about how many are using the system to profit (basically) means she has no idea what it is like to be disabled and to have to fight to survive. To have so little money you have to eat an unhealthy diet because you cannot afford to buy the healthy foods to fix. To not be able to gt prescriptions you need. That even with insurance and Medicare, and my disability checks, that my Prescription costs this year will equal almost half of my total Social Security. Try to find a place to live and to feed yourself on the balance.
Most people do not make money on the system, most people barely survive on the system, and every year it becomes harder to survive and more become homeless because they cannot pay their rent or mortgage and their prescription drug costs and doctors' bills as well.
Disability is not something people want or seek to have, it is not something I wish I was. I hate it. I hate not being able to do the things I used to be able to do. Not being able to hike in the woods for hours. Not being able to go for long longs, not being able to even sit in the sun because many of the meds I take say avoid prolonged exposure to the sun.

I hate it, and there are many times I have thought if tomorrow is worth another round of fighting with the insurance companies, the doctors, the lawyers, the debt collectors etc... is it worth the physical pain I endure all the time...

So, I made myself enjoy three weeks of my life... I had a good time for the first time in 15 years, and because one bitch is caught up in a vendetta against me she had to try to spoil it... Well, she won't. Nor will the others that will not let a situation they do not understand rest. They can harp on it all they want... they can continue to belittle me all they want... I do not care... Fuck them...

I have my babygirl, and I am happy with her... She is my dream in more ways than I ever imagined. No things are not perfect, but if they were then I would be scared... lol...

SO, Krissi... this thread was disguised as a random rant, but it was not... you know it... I know it... those who think I made this about me you are wrong... All you had to do was to know the circumstances and to know how Krissi is and you would know that it was another of her attempts to humiliate me... but she went after a whole group of people while attacking me and I could not let all the disabled people think it was really a rant at them when it was really a rant at me. Nor could I let her attack the fact that I am disabled, for Krissi, it is true. You may want to think it is not because I was able to do some things once in a while that look like I am not disabled, but so do a lot of other disabled people. My babygirl and I had a great time, and we made love so many times I lost count... I finally ended my three year celebacy because I found the right person.

Now... I am truly going to be an ASS!!!!!!!
She is an award winning dancer, having won 300 First and Second place awards for dance in all styles.
She is a beauty queen. 14 Contest awards, and 5 Queen Crowns in her state.
She is petite, standing only 5'-0 and weighing 98 pounds.
She was an exotic dancer for 8 years making as much as $2000 a night, more than any other at every club she worked at.
She wants NOTHING from me except me. I want nothing from her except her.
She found me.
Her painted portrait is going to appear as part of the cover of one of the next books I am working on.
She is absolutely the most beautiful, sexy, and erotic woman I have ever met and we talked, laughed, joked, watched movies, danced, slept, ate, and everything else together for 24/7 for 16 days.
She has even asked me to consider marrying her when my divorce is finalized.
And yes... she has submitted as my slave in a 100% TPE. No Limits except those I have and allow.

She is the woman I have dreamed about since I was first thinking of this lifestyle, and she found me. She is my everything. My slave, my lover, my woman, my slut, and someday I do pray she will be my wife.

We have had a couple of fights but they never had raised voices, and they were short and ended lovingly. The way I had always thought that fights between lovers should be.

I would not have returned to New York had I not had to. I have to get my house ready to sell, and then get the soon to be ex in a place in Indiana so I can file the quick divorce papers instead of having to wait the one year I will have to if I stay in New York. Once the house is sold I am moving near my babygirl and she will be moving in with me, that is already planned.

So.... get over the sour grapes... I found my dream... I am moving on... I moved on... To the rest that will not let the past go either... PFFFTTT

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/7/2007 9:18:21 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

quote:

This is better than a friggin soap opera.


I'm seriously thinking about breaking out some Merlot. Ok and I really don't want to edit this stupid paper I'm working on.


I have some Yellow Tail here if you would like some, I can't drink it anyways (damn South Beach)


Oh heck yes! I was editing the paper (again) but it looks like the saga is continuing. Anyone want some stuffed mushrooms? There isn't any bread ingredients in them Julia, you can have some too.

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/7/2007 9:37:26 PM   
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This is a bit of a hijack, but before climbing on any high horses, we may want to remember that almost all of us (Americans, anyway) get some form of "public assistance."

Owning a home, for example, would be much harder without the ability to deduct mortgage interest from one's taxes. Many of us went to public schools and financed our college educations with Pell grants and/or federally guaranteed loans. Some of us may also have gone to state universities. Those us us with elderly parents know that Social Security and Medicare have hugely lightened the load that families once bore. Countless Americans owe their jobs to government agencies or contractors. And we all drive on publically built and maintained roads.

The idea that folks getting help from the government are other, lesser beings may have a certain appeal. But I'm not sure it stands honest scrutiny.

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/7/2007 9:48:57 PM   
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lol you and me both...how about the person trying to sue McDonalds for making their kid fat Noone told them to feed their kid at McDonalds all the damn time...my kids are NOT permitted to eat fast food more than once a month.....period.


what about the lady that sued (i think it was) McDonald's because she burned herself on hot coffee one morning. Anyone who drinks coffee knows the shit is HOT...besides, if you can feel the heat through the container...shouldn't that tip you off that it's HOT?




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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/7/2007 10:33:48 PM   
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I started to go into everything that was wrong with me...but found myself getting very angry about it, so I changed my mind.

Truth is, yes...there are many people bulking the system. Wether it be welfare, medicaid/medicare, disabilty..whatever....there always have been and always will be people who rip off the system. But, to be honest...I don't believe there are as many bulkers as there honest people in the system.

I was one who lived off welfare, not because I wanted to...but actually had no choice. Lack of education and being forced into disability. I have tried since 1980 to get a job, but being in the condition my body was at the time, and continually getting worst....I have only accepted in the past year there would never be a job for me.

To the judgmental people....don't be so judgemental. Looks can be very diceiving. Just to look at me either standing or sitting, you would not think I am disabled. There is no outward appearance of it. I have all my limbs. But if you could see inside, you would see a very screwed up body. To look at my eyes, you would not be able to tell I am blind in one eye as it is the same color as the other. To look at my ears, you would not tell I am deaf in one and borderline in the other. They look fine.

Try to be a little more caring of those who may be in the system as they may really need it.


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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/8/2007 2:48:35 AM   
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She is an award winning dancer, having won 300 First and Second place awards for dance in all styles.
She is a beauty queen. 14 Contest awards, and 5 Queen Crowns in her state.
She is petite, standing only 5'-0 and weighing 98 pounds.
She was an exotic dancer for 8 years making as much as $2000 a night, more than any other at every club she worked at.
She wants NOTHING from me except me. I want nothing from her except her.
She found me.



i wonder if being delusional is a disability?

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/8/2007 2:52:57 AM   
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I am not harping, you said she was manipulative, I'm pointing out that the description fits you as well.  You used your illness (do I dare say disability) "I need medication and can't pay for it" as a way to manipulate her. 

If the things I've said struck a nerve with you there must be a reason for that.

< Message edited by KatyLied -- 5/8/2007 2:54:10 AM >


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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/8/2007 3:49:10 AM   
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I had a good time for the first time in 15 years, and because one bitch is caught up in a vendetta against me she had to try to spoil it... Well, she won't. Nor will the others that will not let a situation they do not understand rest. They can harp on it all they want... they can continue to belittle me all they want... I do not care... Fuck them...


You do realize that, had you never responded to this thread, no one would have ever even mentioned you.  Unlike you, our lives do not revolve around your drama and Krissi.  But you won't be able to read any of this because you've blocked me.  Have a nice, dysfunctional day. 

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/8/2007 3:54:49 AM   
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Just wanted to add...It goes without saying that there are people that are put into situations where they need assistance.  Those are not who Katy, or anyone else is referring to.  To sit back and say that there aren't people who manipulate the system is ridiculous and unrealistic.
Katy most certainly doesn't need anyone to defend her words, but it's pretty obvious that she wasn't referring to people like Julia who used the aid for it's intended purpose.

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/8/2007 4:13:47 AM   
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Katy most certainly doesn't need anyone to defend her words, but it's pretty obvious that she wasn't referring to people like Julia who used the aid for it's intended purpose.


I thought it was obvious, but you may be the only person who gets me.  My problem is with people who abuse the system.  I saw a lot of that and I'm surprised that people seem to approve of the misuse.  At any rate, it's another hot button for many people.





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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/8/2007 6:15:05 AM   
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         My last comment on this topic is...I grew up in a town with probably 6 housing projects- very low income- and I do know that there are alot of hard working people who need assistence because it is so difficult to make it in this world without a good education. Also, there are alot of people who have mental and physical handicaps that need help to survive- I want to appologize to anyone that I offended by starting this thread- sincerely, I am sorry and realize that there are many out there with disabilities. I was having a bad day and was venting my frustrations and for that, I appologize.

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/8/2007 8:42:43 AM   
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For those who think I am delusional, and who still have access to my profile I will be adding some photos of my babygirl and some of her awards to my profile. I had planned to add some of her anyway...

No, I am not delusional. I am blessed.

Be well...

Aileen... again you are wrong, there are many that would have known. For those that would not have, as I stated, I did not want those with disabilities to think that Krissi was attacking them when she was actually attacking me. What you see as me making this thread about me is me seeing it as taking the responsibility to stand up and say "No!, Krissi is not attacking everyone... She is NOT like that... She is angry at me... and this is an attack at me and I will accept it and take anything anyone has to say about it."

To you it looks like I was being a drama seeker. To me, I was accepting the fact that I was the one the thread was aimed at and did not want anyone to think it was aimed at them when it was not. To me it was being courageous enough to admit it and face what had to be said. Yet, as far as some are concerned, they have chosen a viewpoint of me that is narrow-minded and lumps me in with many that are players or jerks when that is not where the truth lies. They only know half the story, or only have heard or listened to half and closed their minds to the other half to think that there might really have been a need at one time.

Believe me, I have learned from this too, but truth is it is nothing I did not already know deep down inside and that is that in general people SUCK! There are very few people that are truly good people and the rest are self-centered and narrow-minded. Unless you are within someone's personal group of friends you are usually the enemy and they will not give you one iota of leeway to make a mistake. The only real mistake I made with Krissi was believeing that she truly meant that we could be friends and nothing more. She wanted more and unless she got her chance at that there was no chance of a friendship.

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/8/2007 9:40:44 AM   
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Even if you block people on here, if they post you can still see them.  You just block them from personal contact with you.

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/8/2007 10:11:50 AM   
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Actually if you see the little hand under their Icon, with the word BLOCK beside it. If you click on that you no longer see their posts unless someone quotes them.

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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/8/2007 10:42:47 AM   
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RE: I'm Sick Of Hearing "I Am Disabled!" - 5/8/2007 11:00:22 AM   
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She is petite, standing only 5'-0 and weighing 98 pounds.
She was an exotic dancer


careful! i worked with her. she's physco! remember, the cute ones are always crazy.

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