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ORIGINAL: MissOchistic

I got some random femdom the other day demand my webcam address and yahoo info.

When i refused, she replied telling me that since i didn't want to cam for her, she would gladly let everyone else here know that i was really a man pretending to be a female.

**rolls eyes**

i check out her profile, and she's going on about demanding tributes from random subs to make them prove they are real "or else", how wonderful she is and any sub WORTH her time will respond to her with information and a tribute of shoes immediately before she will decide whether to speak to them at all past the first "hello".

When i pointed out that was not the right way to handle my rejection, she just repeated her intentions to slander me publicly. After that i just played gamed with her of how many times she would respond with 'ok dude' and eventually Master jumped in as well.

They're annoying, but silly vain Doms are easily taken care of with a quick block if you're not in the mood to play with them.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Actually, I didn't realize so many were opposed to cam until reading this thread.  I am still a bit confused to the opposition to a g-rated face shot.  After all, once people have made a decent on-line connection, doesn't it make sense to want to know what they look like?  It can be a time saver in seeing if the physical attraction is there prior to setting up a meeting for coffe or a drink.  Requests for cam or more of a convenience, since both parties are already on the computer.  Not like having to make a time investment (however minimal) to meet someone who you're not attracted to in a physical sense.
 
My profile doesn't have a lot on it, but if that is a consideration factor, it's easily understandable.  Of course, I would wonder why a person was 'wasting time' talking with Me before the cam idea would come up. 

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Not My forum, but I thought I would add My own two cents.  I am a great advocate of cam.  Before anyone gets bent out of shape, I'll repeat what I've said on other posts about the subject.  I'm not talking about anything x-rated.  I'm talking about a g-rated face shot, so that I can see the person on the other side.  Good way to verify that they look like the picture they post, really are the age, gender, etc. that they say they are.  Also, I'd like to point out that it isn't a command.  It is generally a request.  Most people can understand why it is asked, since so many on the net aren't exactly completely honest about their appearance.  I personally have no problem proving who I say I am, so I don't see why it is an issue.