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this thread does not belong in General BDSM discussion... - 5/6/2005 3:31:38 PM   
LadyAngelika


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Status: offline 		... and yet I'm going to put it here anyways!

Why not? Everyone else seems to be putting non-BDSM relevant posts about gender issues, spelling, and a ton of other non-BDSM relevant posts here.

The moderators unfortunately cannot devote as much of their volunteer time these days. Just as we need to not feed the trolls, we need to learn to use judgement in which forum we start threads.

There are threads for rants, humour and off-topic discussions. There are threads for health & safety. There are threads for requests for new features... use them!

Of course you'll get a bigger audience for your little circus here, but really, we need to start self-monitoring more. We are all adults and this is our joint community.

- LA

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RE: this thread does not belong in General BDSM discuss... - 5/6/2005 4:49:50 PM   
MaitresseEden


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Status: offline 		I think it happen because the majority of people seem to only read/post/ be active in only a few forums, and people what more responses to their posts. Personally, I think there are way too many forums to chose from. However, I do get your point. I think a forum called.. Bitching and moaning would be helpful. So far I have a seen several suggestions for better organization of the forums but not much action, so I think in the meantime, people just do what they are allowed to get away with. Of course, we all know that isn't the best thing to do.. but regardless, it happens.

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RE: this thread does not belong in General BDSM discuss... - 5/6/2005 4:59:14 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden
I think it happen because the majority of people seem to only read/post/ be active in only a few forums, and people what more responses to their posts. Personally, I think there are way too many forums to chose from. However, I do get your point.


True. I don't understand how Mistresses and Masters get their separate advice column and boy & girl subs & slaves have to share. Then again, everyone answers for everyone in everything. Regardless, there is a basic structure. However, there is a significant difference between a kink related topic and casual banter/rant.

quote:

I think a forum called.. Bitching and moaning would be helpful.


Yes! So it could all happen there and I could avoid it!

And I am fully aware that this thread could be perceived as bitching & moaning. But from my perspective, I'm reminding.

- LA

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RE: this thread does not belong in General BDSM discuss... - 5/6/2005 5:35:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika



True. I don't understand how Mistresses and Masters get their separate advice column and boy & girl subs & slaves have to share.

- LA


Maybe because in our glorious English language we don't have masculine and feminine endings for a lot of words. When 'Subs' and 'Subettes' becomes the common usage, twin fora will seem natural. If we start using 'Mastress' (Heaven forfend), we'll get just one forum for tops.



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RE: this thread does not belong in General BDSM discuss... - 5/6/2005 6:35:10 PM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CitizenCane
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
True. I don't understand how Mistresses and Masters get their separate advice column and boy & girl subs & slaves have to share.

- LA


Maybe because in our glorious English language we don't have masculine and feminine endings for a lot of words. When 'Subs' and 'Subettes' becomes the common usage, twin fora will seem natural. If we start using 'Mastress' (Heaven forfend), we'll get just one forum for tops.


You think this is the rationale? Hmm... I differentiate them as girls & boys or then again le soumis et la soumise ;)

- LA


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RE: this thread does not belong in General BDSM discuss... - 5/7/2005 1:43:05 AM   
GentleLady


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quote:

If we start using 'Mastress' (Heaven forfend), we'll get just one forum for tops.
I think I need to clean My glasses....CitizenCane, I thought You said Mattresses at first

*rubs My eyes and pours some coffee*
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RE: Popular plaits and mass tresses - 5/7/2005 2:28:24 PM   
sissymaidlola


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GentleLady

quote:

If we start using 'Mastress' (Heaven forfend), we'll get just one forum for tops.
I think I need to clean My glasses....CitizenCane, I thought You said Mattresses at first

*rubs My eyes and pours some coffee*
Gentle Lady


Maybe there should be a forum for hard Mattresses and a separate one for soft Mattresses, GentleLady ? Yeah, that's the ticket ...

Respectfrilly Yours,

sissy maid lola




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RE: this thread does not belong in General BDSM discuss... - 5/7/2005 2:37:49 PM   
sissymaidlola


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quote:

And I am fully aware that this thread could be perceived as bitching & moaning. But from my perspective, I'm reminding.

Maybe all the other members that post rants in this forum are, from their own perspectives, simply reminding us what their opinions are, too ?

sissy maid lola




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