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GADomCpl -> Menial Tasks for your subs (5/6/2007 7:04:44 PM)
Greetings Ladies, My hubby and I are starting to work on extended sessions (weekend and such) with him acting as my slave. The hardest part about it though that I find is that I feel like I have to constantly be coming up with ideas. I am looking for some of the stupid menial tasks that you have your subs do when you need to devote your attention to other things. I really appreciate any ideas that you might have. Liz

Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/6/2007 9:38:07 PM)
If he's completed tasks you've already assigned, and you don't want to be bothered, why not just tell him "I'm busy, go relax, or find something else to do". If you and he have been together for some time, he may already be aware of certain projects that you'd like completed, tell him to get to work on one of those. Perhaps tell him to entertain himself, if he's been particularly well-behaved, he may enjoy reading a book or watching a program on tv. It does not have to revolve around tasks if he has earned some down time, and you are not required to come up with ideas if you do not wish to be bothered by them at the moment. You can permit him to think for himself regardless of his position in your relationship. Giving him the freedom to think for himself allows him comfort in knowing that his mind is a valued asset.

undergroundsea -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/6/2007 9:49:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GADomCpl I really appreciate any ideas that you might have. As you go about your everyday routine, you might make note of menial things that need attention. If menial things can also be constructive (versus say digging a hole only to fill it back up), all the better. I think there are ways that can enhance or deflate motivation for service towards menial chores. Ideas for ways to spend idle time: 1) Read a BDSM book of interest and write a book report about it (or provide the summary for any other source or type of information) 2) Research safety aspects of a particular type of play 3) Make basic BDSM toys 4) Create an altar and kneel in front of it and say Om Shanti Liz ;-) Cheers, Sea

Joeconero -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/6/2007 11:42:14 PM)
Pick that up and put it in the trash, get me a drink, get my this or from here, look this up and tell me what it says, find the best price for this online, water the grass, see if I need more of this. There is always something that needs to be done and a good sub over time should be able to spot something that needs attention and know how to deal with it in an appropriate manner.

LadyEllen -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/7/2007 1:30:52 AM)
One of my favourites (subject to no knee problems!), is to hand him a pair of tweezers and have him clean the carpets.... takes forever. E

canupleaseme -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/7/2007 4:14:41 AM)
I find when I have run out of things for my boy to do for me and feel I need to give him something else to do or keep him out of my hair while I get on with my stuff, I either restrain him and tell him to be quiet and leave him bound for an hour, or turn him into a table lol and put magazines on him or whatever. Theres always something they can do though. Clean the grout on the tiles in the bathroom or kitchen with a tooth brush. Wash the wheelie bin. Weed the garden. Iron all my underwear including socks. Spill a bag of rice on the kitchen floor and make him pick the pieces up individually with tweezers and a butt plug in. Get him some plain paper and some felt tips and tell him to draw you his favourite scene. The list is endless. I have a list of jobs that I hate doing and put off all the time, if he looks bored I give it him. He is also encouraged to use his initiative and if he sees something he can do for me he can just get on and do it.[:D]

semasssub -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/7/2007 4:21:27 AM)
You can start a slut jar! That is as you go about your daily routines, and you notice something that needs to be done, you write in dorwn on a paper and put it in a jar. After awhile you will have many "jobs" in this jar. When your slave is not needed by you, make him reach into the jar and pick a random job. If he finishes, have him go for another! Of course you should keep a bell nearby you in case his services are needed by you while he is away doing his job! The other idea of just putting him in bondage works well also. Believe me after an hour or two you want to get untied and do anything for Mistress!

undergroundsea -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/7/2007 7:41:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: canupleaseme Good ideas! For the rice, replacing tweezers with chopsticks could be amusing ;-) Cheers, Sea

canupleaseme -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/7/2007 9:18:20 AM)
Sea what a wonderful idea [:)] I cant wait till saturday now to give him some "chores" yay I love your pic by the way [:D]

Dusty15 -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/7/2007 2:31:45 PM)
I know for me as a slave and the Mistress I was serving she enjoyed reading and have nothing on she would make me read or take a nap and I was not to say anything or she would have sit on the floor next to her and would to serve when needed

undergroundsea -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/7/2007 9:06:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: canupleaseme I love your pic by the way [:D] Thank you for the compliment and I extend one in turn on your photo. I love black and whites. The classic look to it reminds me of a past thread about a vintage look and a question about where to obtain items for a vintage look. With the permission now obtained, I can talk about a website of a friend that provides such outfits for women and crossdressers. ladyrefined.com Cheers, Sea

canupleaseme -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/7/2007 10:17:30 PM)
Wow thats great thanks for the info [:D][:D]

earthycouple -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/7/2007 11:13:57 PM)
Vacuum around baseboards, dust for cobwebs, clean the upholstery, iron the draperies, defrost the freezer, take everything out of each drawer, wipe out the drawer, replace the items in the drawer. (or cabinets, etc). Pressure wash the outside of the house, clean the gutters, wash the car, sweep the driveway and porches. Change furnace filters, vacuum out floor mounted air ducts, sweep/clean the garage and or basement. Wash windows...from the outside. I love the idea of the jar....and many jobs can be done over and over..so as the job comes out of the jar...it goes right into a second one...when the first is empty start over on the second.

AlvinFaulkner -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/7/2007 11:22:38 PM)
I'd like to ask the Dommes: Would you prefer that the sub simply know that he ought to be taking care of such menial tasks and perform them responsibly, or do prefer giving the orders for each task? I know I have heard many women complain that they should not have to point out when chores need to be done.

canupleaseme -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/7/2007 11:40:49 PM)
I don't think personally in our relationship I could expect him to know everything he can do for me because I havent shown him everything yet. He gets brownie points for using his initiative and getting on with tasks he can see need doing without prompting, and I hope in the future when we have had more time in training and him getting to know how my home is run that he will take care of tasks that are obvious. But I do like telling him to do things too so I like a good balance. If everytime he came over I had a sink full of pots or some ironing to be done or whatever and he never bothered to do it or ask if he could help then I would be annoyed with him but its never happened. I see that as general service though and not menial tasks. If he spilt a bag of rice on the floor himseflf without instruction and went about with the chopsticks I would wonder what was going on !! I see that as menial tasking and I provide the orders for that.[:)]

MaamJay -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/8/2007 2:11:11 AM)
Ah, don't forget the garden ... there are always more weeds to pull! To the OP, welcome to the world of the Dom/me ... decisions, ideas and decisions! I tend not to give orders to do a task in anything less than the most efficient way (I don't want him getting into bad habits and timewasting!), and really, the vacuum is the most efficient way to clean the floor! (That said, some of those ideas were wicked LOL!) However, there's almost always plenty to do, in a land where dust and insects are always making invasion attempts on the house! And also, it has to be done MY way ... so what if I like matching coloured clothes pegs on each item pegged on the line! And DON'T put red pegs on an orange top LOL! And I do thorough inspections also ... I move the furniture that he supposedly vacuumed under grin and if it's not up to scratch, he does it all again. Have fun! Maam Jay

MistressNoName -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/8/2007 9:13:05 AM)
I had a boy once who actually enjoyed corner time! It helped him relax and focus and feel owned. He would get it as a reward for good behavior...I know that's a twist on what it's usually used for (punishment). The point here being, why not reward him for completing all assigned tasks? (Assuming, of course all was done to your satisfaction.) Give time off, allow him to participate in activities he enjoys, go out with a friend or two...whatever. MNN

AAkasha -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/8/2007 9:22:32 AM)
I'll toss something out there that might not be what you're thinking, but if you really want him out of your hair so you can do alone time, make him go exercise. Make him go jogging, go to the gym, work out, or play pick up basketball, etc. This is great on so many levels. For one, it keeps him fit and healthy, and also helps to relieve any pent up stress or frustration. You can also feel good about what he's doing, rather than feel like you gave him a time wasting activity to just keep him out of your way. On a personal level, I get great satisfaction when my man returns from a work out, run or physical activity. I really like the sweaty man stuff, and when he's physically tired, it adds a new flavor to domination. YUM!! Akasha

canupleaseme -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/8/2007 10:53:00 AM)
Ohh I have to agree Akasha I love it when my boy is sweaty pheromones are great[:D]

AlvinFaulkner -> RE: Menial Tasks for your subs (5/8/2007 11:17:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: canupleaseme I see that as general service though and not menial tasks. If he spilt a bag of rice on the floor himseflf without instruction and went about with the chopsticks I would wonder what was going on !! I see that as menial tasking and I provide the orders for that.[:)] That's a sensible distinction. Thanks for your answer!

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