littlesarbonn
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Joined: 12/3/2005 From: Stockton, California Status: offline
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I'm going to add one more comment to this thread because I think it is a little more centered in reality that somewhat makes some sense. Years ago, I was doing sessions with a professional dominant who eventually became my owner (and me her live-in). But before any of that happened, I saw her probably once every two weeks, even more frequent if I could somehow muster up the cash. There was another woman working at the establishment who was a really, really hot Asian dominatrix who used to constantly tease me whenever she ran into me at the house (cause I was there a lot, I was not really sequestered from the women, but sometimes allowed to hang out with them in the worker break area...no, don't ask me why because I never figured out why they let me when every other client had to wait in a small room for the mistress who was running his session). Anyway, my mistress was extremely popular and constantly booked so I was having more and more trouble actually booking sessions with her. This was even with enough notice (she had gotten to know me well, so I think she became comfortable canceling our sessions if something else came up, which was probably not a wise thing, but it wasn't enough to push me over the edge and stop seeing her). After a number of weeks where I could never get a chance to see her, I finally started fantasizing about seeing the other woman I was talking about and decided that if my mistress of choice didn't have time for me, then no one would mind if I saw someone else. I was talking to the Asian dominatrix on the phone, and I told her what was going on and asked if it would be a problem if I saw her, even though I was seeing the woman who owned the establishment as a regular. She said it was okay, that clients did it all the time, and that my normal mistress wasn't even going to be working that week due to deciding to take that week off. So I booked that session with her instead. When I arrived for the session, she met me at the door, and I was kind of nervous about seeing someone new, but she brought me to the room where clients had to wait, and I sat there for a few minutes before my previous mistress came in and stated, "I decided to take this session. I hope you don't mind." Well, I didn't, and it was a great session. When it was over, she began discussing the possibility of us moving our sessions to real time, rather than paid sessions. About a year later, she collared me and moved me into her place. The moral of the story is that I believe that when she realized I was about to jump ship, she did the wisest thing she could do; she recaptured all lost ground. Had she not done so, I probably would have discontinued having sessions with her right about then, so her timing, as usual, was impeccable.
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