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BKSir -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 12:11:45 AM)
v-shaped pants? HAHAHAHA! Wow, now there's an invention waiting to happen. ;)

LadyTeazer -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 1:38:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavemick63 An age old question,but does cock size really matter in bdsm? An age old answer - YES, it most certainly does. Whether it is in BDSM, or just 'nilla stuff, yes, size is important. No matter what it is used for - teasing, teasing and denial, CBT, or lots and lots and lots of hot sex. Absofragginlutely yes, size does matter. The phrase "it ain't the meat, it's the motion" has got to be the biggest load of hooey to ever come down the pike. All the motion in the world ain't gonna help you if you don't have enough meat to work with. I know that all women have different 'internal' dimensions, just as all males have different 'external' dimensions. So what works for some will not suffice for others. I am not a size queen, I just know what I like, and what I need. So, to all of you 'big boys' out there...c'mon up and see me sometime. [:D] An 11-incher?? And a 16-incher??????? Holy Shi-iitake mushroom!!!!!! Where are all of you magnificent boys hiding?? LadyTeazer -- proud and happy Owner of [saberwolf34] and still a WOW - Wonderful Older Woman

MRandme -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 2:10:53 AM)
To me the length is not as important as the girth. i like them thick so that i feel full. i agree with pompeii that by the time a guy gets intimate enough with me for me to see it, it doesn't matter. i've had many sizes and shapes, from pathetically small to about 9 inchs... i was always more interested in how they acted in bed and out than in what equipment they were born with.

allthatjaz -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 2:57:14 AM)
My X had the biggest I have ever seen but I have to say this. I never once orgasmed while having sex with him and normally I find it easy to orgasm. I think the reason was it just filled me up but could never get all the way in and so we couldn't meet at the base (grind) I also continually worried that he would stretch me/ruin me. The other thing was that a full blow job was just impossible and the width just gave me jaw ache. he also looked obscene in swim wear. Overly big cocks are only good for one thing in my opinion and thats porn movies.

RainydayNE -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 3:05:37 AM)
i dont think size is important, i imagine ginormous ones are just really uncomfortable a uterus can move around and vaginas can elongate but i figure you can only go so far i think cervix-hitting is great and all, but you know... gigantimous ones kind of gross me out, to be honest =p and as everyone has said, a gnarly guy is gnarly whether or not his body parts are of certain dimensions.

allthatjaz -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 3:14:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RainydayNE i dont think size is important, i imagine ginormous ones are just really uncomfortable a uterus can move around and vaginas can elongate but i figure you can only go so far i think cervix-hitting is great and all, but you know... gigantimous ones kind of gross me out, to be honest =p and as everyone has said, a gnarly guy is gnarly whether or not his body parts are of certain dimensions. Yep... you don't want to feel like your being fisted every time you have sex. Well I don't [&:]

RainydayNE -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 3:26:16 AM)
haha :)

mistoferin -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 3:31:01 AM)
It has been in my own personal experience that some of the absolutely worst sexual experiences of my life have been with men who are built larger because they are so proud of their size that they seem to be under the impression that all they have to do to be a good partner is be there. On the flip side of the coin, some of my most satisfying sexual experiences have been with men who are smaller, they tended to be amazingly resourceful. [;)] Size really only matters to me if a man is built very large as to be uncomfortable or so small you have to wonder if they are really "there". For me, middle of the road really is perfect.

bamagirl4u -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 3:44:40 AM)
Throws my vote in for 7 to 9...anything longer than that and well...errrrr....no room for it. I think it is more the man though than the size of his penis~~but with that said, I don't want any less than 6and a half! Yep...that would be my limit. [sm=agree.gif][sm=agree.gif][sm=agree.gif]

chamberqueen -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 7:57:03 AM)
If you are concerned with your own size, what I tell people is that it's not the pen but the penmanship. I am in a poly relationship where there are two men that are built very differently. One excels at some things while the smaller one is easier to give head to. You have very little control over the size of your penis so there is no sense in worrying about it. A Dom/me will be looking at other qualities first. (Women can get just as concerned over breast size, but that's much more public.)

Lockit -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 8:15:36 AM)
If he is there and you don't know it... it's a problem. Your's. If he is there and that is all you know... it's a problem. Your's. If all that fits into the mouth is the tip... it's his problem. You might miss it, but he misses it more. If it is so small that your tongue challanges it in size... it's a problem. Do you know how hard it is to suck a pencil? You start wishing for the eraser or just want to whittle it with your teeth... all gone... no problem. (Just call me Ms Packman) Size does matter day to day... long periods of time... size does matter! If it is all you've got, it matters! If I have a choice... between too small and too large... not because I am too greedy... just becasue I want to know it is there... I am picking too large. I won't love a man for his cock... and the brain/heart is more important... but I do not want to have to ask.. 'where's the beef'.

Amaros -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 8:15:47 AM)
I think it's a bit shallow to obsess over it, nature is indiscriminate in that department, for both sexes in my experience although with women it has a lot to do with muscle tone (toy alert!), men can't do a whole lot about it. As I say every time this subject comes up, lesbians manage nicely without any cock at all - there's more than one way to skin a cat, and if you're that needy, I'll find something to fill you up. I'll allow that part of it is psychological, and a lot of kinksters are into straight sex, but it seems to me that this whole thing is about finding new and interesting ways to explore our sexuality. As a disclaimer, I'm average, 6" or so (half a foot sounds better) and never had any complaints, in fact most women tell me this "just the right size" for oral and/or anal. When it comes to pussy, I actually prefer it a little looser; I found it a bit disconcerting when I was younger, as most women tend to loosen up after the second or third orgasm, but I have found I am sometimes prone to painful chafing on the tight ones.

pompeii -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 8:41:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BKSir v-shaped pants? HAHAHAHA! Wow, now there's an invention waiting to happen. ;) I wish. I really do wish that women would, for once, look at us as purely sex objects so that we could get women stopping by to talk to us while we walk down the streets, all of us parading our v-shaped fly with all but the head of our cock showing down the leg. Women would turn their heads to look, in this alternate world, and each guy would be sized up for size instantly, the bigger and fuller, the better. Heck, we'd even compete with each other on those formal nights out by adding padded pushups to make our cocks seem bigger and fuller than they already are. And, when it's warm (instead of when it's cold), our heads would stick out like women's nipples do when it's cold ... just to add some erotic excitement to the other half around the workplace like they deliciously torture us with everyday with their nipples. Of course, we'd wear frilly underpants, with little strings to hold our cocks out to view in just the right ways so women would avert their gaze when talking to us and we'd say "look us in the eyes please" but they couldn't help it, diving down with their eyes to our luscious cocks that they just dream of slapping around and their brain can only think of licking and sucking us while we're talking to them about something mundane like our personal feelings ... just like we do with their tits every day. Ah ... if only ... if only ...

CatdeMedici -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 9:53:30 AM)
Not again! D people not know how to use the search capability on here??

bamagirl4u -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 10:11:28 AM)
I wanted to add to my post that there is someone for everyone, no matter the size...I hope my post did not sound horrible. I don't men should obsess over penis size any more than women should over breast size. We are what we are and make the best of what we are dealt with. Okay...that is it for me...[:D]

thefallenfruit -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 11:46:31 AM)
Yes.. it matters. I've seen too small, and been with too small...and when I mean small, I mean less than 5.. and I can't feel it..which sucks. I'm happy with average, I really am. And I'm probably not going near anything bigger than 9 inches...and even that is stretching it (no pun intended). And I'm totally down with the whole v-shaped pants thing. I love looking at a bulge, I can't help it. You know how some men are 'breast' or ass men? I'd definitely be a bulge girl. Bulge cleavage...creepy or sexy? LOL

TazDevil -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 1:35:21 PM)
not here but on other bords, I have sayed that 4 ich is the aviger sice, most say something like "I naver seen a man with less then 12 ich and THAT small" so my short of it is yep it do's

loveandlight87 -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 1:44:39 PM)
I guess I would agree with the general thrust of most of the posts so far. I know there's too small and too large for me personally. Since I only orgasm (or at least to date have only had orgasms) from fingers and/or mouth, the size of the cock is only relevant for me insofar as it either causes pain and discomfort or I just plain can't feel it. There are plenty of ways to get that full feeling in all the available orifices other than by cock. And as someone pointed out, lesbians do quite nicely without it altogether. love

HalloweenWhite -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 1:48:15 PM)
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Opalescence -> RE: Does size matter? (1/12/2009 2:30:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pompeii quote: ORIGINAL: BKSir v-shaped pants? HAHAHAHA! Wow, now there's an invention waiting to happen. ;) I wish. I really do wish that women would, for once, look at us as purely sex objects so that we could get women stopping by to talk to us while we walk down the streets, all of us parading our v-shaped fly with all but the head of our cock showing down the leg. Women would turn their heads to look, in this alternate world, and each guy would be sized up for size instantly, the bigger and fuller, the better. Heck, we'd even compete with each other on those formal nights out by adding padded pushups to make our cocks seem bigger and fuller than they already are. And, when it's warm (instead of when it's cold), our heads would stick out like women's nipples do when it's cold ... just to add some erotic excitement to the other half around the workplace like they deliciously torture us with everyday with their nipples. Of course, we'd wear frilly underpants, with little strings to hold our cocks out to view in just the right ways so women would avert their gaze when talking to us and we'd say "look us in the eyes please" but they couldn't help it, diving down with their eyes to our luscious cocks that they just dream of slapping around and their brain can only think of licking and sucking us while we're talking to them about something mundane like our personal feelings ... just like we do with their tits every day. Ah ... if only ... if only ... [sm=LMAO.gif]That....was the most brilliant thing I've read in a long time. LOL. Bravo![sm=LMAO.gif]

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