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Fawne -> RE: under the influence (5/31/2006 11:09:35 AM)

"I would sooner trust Jeffrey Dahmer to work in a morgue and not take home snacks"

---Do you picture pork rinds? LOL Bacon?  In front of the tube? Maybe watching a hocky game?
Hee.. ok, ok...

"Would you trust someone that has had a drink or two to shave you with a straight razor?"


-OH! - 1 light drink. I do believe it was a hunting knife, however. Best time of my life.

Sincerely, Fawne
PS I have full respect to all who wouldn't play with a person who had consumed any amount of any substance that may impair judgement.    I would not expect to be subject to a risky activity with a drunk. Only common sense.
  




Reflectivesoul -> RE: under the influence (5/31/2006 12:38:19 PM)

quote:

"I would sooner trust Jeffrey Dahmer to work in a morgue and not take home snacks"


ewwww ok now it is going to take all day to get that idea and mental pic out of my head.... someone please be so kind as to hand me some bleach and a scrubber... cause that thought has got to go.... *shudders*




Dustyn -> RE: under the influence (5/31/2006 4:08:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Fawne

"I would sooner trust Jeffrey Dahmer to work in a morgue and not take home snacks"

---Do you picture pork rinds? LOL Bacon?  In front of the tube? Maybe watching a hocky game?
Hee.. ok, ok...

"Would you trust someone that has had a drink or two to shave you with a straight razor?"


-OH! - 1 light drink. I do believe it was a hunting knife, however. Best time of my life.

Sincerely, Fawne
PS I have full respect to all who wouldn't play with a person who had consumed any amount of any substance that may impair judgement.    I would not expect to be subject to a risky activity with a drunk. Only common sense.
 


I know people that get drunk off of wine coolers, and that's basically a 200 gallon vat of kool aid with a couple shots of a hard liquor stirred in.

Too many inhibitions are lost with a single drink for me to trust anyone like that.  I wouldn't trust myself with a straight razor, but then again, I'm a cutter. *smirk*




Sinergy -> RE: under the influence (5/31/2006 4:19:19 PM)

Hello A/all,

I personally will not play under the influence of it.  I dont personally think it is safe, etc.  I dont, however, think my beliefs are (or even should be) considered universal.

On the other hand, BDSM is really about using various things to modify brain chemistry in both the Dominant and the submissive.  For me, I experience a high as a Dom, and my submissive experiences her own subspace.  Im not sure why people who are seeking these states would take a depressant substance like alcohol prior to indulging in their kink.

I gave up pot at 17, and never took anything harder, so I cannot speak to those substances.

Just me, could be wrong, etc.

Sinergy




Dustyn -> RE: under the influence (5/31/2006 4:54:02 PM)

Interesting point, Sinergy.  The altered brain chemistry is basically a drug-induced euphoria.  The only difference between a 'space' and a 'high' is the fact that it's an action creating the state instead of an illicit substance.  And speaking from personal experience, an illicitly obtained euphoria is not nearly as satisfying as an accomplished one. (READ: Drugs are bad, Beating is good.)

But it does raise the interesting question in my mind as to whether is it safe to play with someone that is in 'space', but that is prolly best saved for another thread to avoid hijacking this one.




keme -> RE: under the influence (5/31/2006 11:33:18 PM)

*perk* ice?




enigmabrat -> RE: under the influence (5/31/2006 11:46:43 PM)

Absalutly no way!!! You dont drive under the influance because you may hurt someone you dont play under the influance because tha Dom may loose controll or thesub might not be able to know when enough is enough




dogobedience -> RE: under the influence (6/1/2006 5:38:00 PM)

NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




RiotGirl -> RE: under the influence (6/1/2006 6:44:32 PM)

quote:

ok......my original post got denied.......so im modifying it a bit to coincide with the TOS....

how do you feel about the use of alcohol during BDSM play?
is it ok to play & be 'under the influence?'

personally i think its not the safest thing.....but is acceptable, in my mind, if it is done (as with all things) in moderation.



Master drinks, but is never under the influence.. and Master never does any sort of play if His slave is under the influence..   Granted Master rarely drinks.. and doesnt much allow His slave to drink so its not an issue..




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