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EvaLass -> Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/7/2007 4:41:28 PM)

I spent Saturday evening playing with a potential Dom. We had a great time, although I have realized now that we don't want the same kind of long-term relationship. He still wants to screw everybody in sight. We have not had "sex" (intercourse) so heck I'm keeping him as a playmate but not the Dom of my dreams. That's okay. In the course of the evening, though, he made me beg to pee and then wait until I had to go badly enough that I rated it on a scale of 8 out of 10. He followed me into the bathroom, waited for me to urinate,commented on how much pee came out, watched me wipe myself with tissue, observed my hand washing and then waited for me to dry my hands. He walked with me out of the bathroom. I understand that some people really love water sports. I told this Dom that I had allowed a man to pee on me in college, and he brought it up during the evening to say he would like to do the same thing. I don't understand it, but urine is sterile, and it doesn't bother me. It doesn't humiliate me, either.

However, I didn't get the potty routine at all. Does anybody have an idea of why a perfectly sane, georgeous and sexy 60-year old Dom, would want to watch a girl pee? I told him that I would remember fondly anyone that wanted to watch me urinate and complete the whole routine forever. It makes me want to giggle, really, but I didn't see him showing any sign that he thought it was funny.



slaveluci -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/7/2007 5:13:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EvaLass
Does anybody have an idea of why a perfectly sane, georgeous and sexy 60-year old Dom, would want to watch a girl pee?
i'm not sure but i'll ask my perfectly sane, gorgeous and sexy 60 year old Master why He loves it so much[:D]
luci



Lashra -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/7/2007 5:15:16 PM)

Its all about control, I'm sure. He was controlling your going to the bathroom and maybe trying to humilate you a bit. Many Dom/mes like to control their subs bathroom times, though I am not one of them. But as long as you guys are having fun, go for it [:)]

~Lashra



Sirandlittle1 -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/7/2007 5:29:25 PM)

We are taught from approx 2 yrs, that eliminating waste, is done on the toilet, in private etc.
Im shy of peeing in front of Him. He enjoys my discomfort, he enjoys the control of my basic need, to pee. Its about control.
It took me a sodding year, to learn how to pee in front of him. But that was always to be done, in a pyrex bowl, in the lounge. Letting go, of my control, of my sphincter to the bladder, and handing him that control took time. When i achieved this, i was very 'moved' in my submission to him and he was grinning like a chesire cat, i had pleased him immensley. This gave me a lot of satisfaction as his sub.

conversely, ive played with others in this fashion. I got sod all out of it. Absolutely jack. My point being, its 'how' its done that counts.
If you could pee, no hesitation on your first go. Id be upping the ante, getting you out of the normal area to pee, ie the bathroom, and asking you to do so in more imaginative ways. Like clothed in a pale pair of jeans, or into a bowl etc. Like i say, its how its done that counts.
little1



junecleaver -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/7/2007 6:27:39 PM)

I am extremely weird about it.  I like watersport in this sense of a man pissing on me.  I find the idea both humiliating and hot.  However, someone watching me use the bathroom?  That is so private for me that someone invading/watching would be so horrible.  I lock the bathroom when I go inside of it...at his house at my house in public.  It doesn't matter.  Sometimes I'll see a look in his eye that makes me think he'll push this subject some day.  Definitely not looking forward to it, but I can see how a Dominant might enjoy the control aspect of it.



EvaLass -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/7/2007 7:22:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: junecleaver

However, someone watching me use the bathroom?  That is so private for me that someone invading/watching would be so horrible.  I lock the bathroom when I go inside of it...at his house at my house in public. 


Hi, junecleaver, it didn't bother me in the least. This Dom kept asking me over and over if someone had ever watched me in the past. I didn't think so, but couldn't remember. I was raised in a liberal family. Nobody ever made me feel guilty about sex or any bodily functions. I swear, the whole thing struck me as funny rather than humiliating. I am not easy to humiliate or I guess it is harder to guess what might humiliate me. Getting pissed on, eh, it doesn't strike me as humiliating or hot. It is just a stream of urine pouring down.



Sirandlittle1 -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/7/2007 7:52:48 PM)

Well, there you have it, why communication, trial and error, play such a huge part in what it is that we do. Humiliation is SUCH a personal issue. For me, it was peeing in front of him, for you, it could be having you wear you nasty period knickers to a hot date with him. Horses for courses. You will have humiliation buttons, but like you said, this was a new partner, early days love, early days[:D]
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ORIGINAL: EvaLass

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ORIGINAL: junecleaver

However, someone watching me use the bathroom?  That is so private for me that someone invading/watching would be so horrible.  I lock the bathroom when I go inside of it...at his house at my house in public. 


Hi, junecleaver, it didn't bother me in the least. This Dom kept asking me over and over if someone had ever watched me in the past. I didn't think so, but couldn't remember. I was raised in a liberal family. Nobody ever made me feel guilty about sex or any bodily functions. I swear, the whole thing struck me as funny rather than humiliating. I am not easy to humiliate or I guess it is harder to guess what might humiliate me. Getting pissed on, eh, it doesn't strike me as humiliating or hot. It is just a stream of urine pouring down.




EvaLass -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/7/2007 8:08:04 PM)

Naw, I have called it quits with this Dom. He is delightful and fun, but I don't need a man in my life who is screwing every woman who breathes within two feet. It is partly a health issue; I don't want constant exposure to other peoples STDs and other pathogens because I have an immune system disorder. Talk about what floats your boat: I am 52, and I had an unexpected menstrual period this weekend after we (Mr. Pee and I) had our play date. I told him about it, and he wanted to know if he could watch me clean myself out. So, there you go...some more exploration of hidden bodily functions. The part that makes me giggle is that he is a very elegant man with lovely deportment. If you saw him sitting behind his desk in his fabulous office, you would never guess that he was waiting for the chance to watch you wash away your menstrual blood. Okay, okay, whatever works for you. I am a sensual submissive, would rather massage a guy, and do some other sweet things to his anatomy and send him off into dreamland.



Quivver -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/8/2007 2:27:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: EvaLass

he is a very elegant man with lovely deportment. If you saw him sitting behind his desk in his fabulous office, you would never guess that he was waiting for the chance to watch you wash away your menstrual blood.



I guess I've worked with too many men in my life.  I assume that most have a similar thought process.  Fabulous office or not, he's male!  (sigh gotta love um)  [;)]




antigonie -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/8/2007 9:20:47 AM)

I don't like anything that has to do with bathroom control. I have to ask for permission from my Doms in order to pee when I'm in Their presence, or even if we're talking online. I don't like asking to do something my body does naturally and that I've never had to ask to do in my entire life. That's why They enjoy it though I suppose. It's very humbling to know that you can't even pee without Their permission, and They know that. I find though that He is more inclined to deny permission to pee while She just likes knowing that She controls that for me. It makes me wonder if men enjoy controling a sub's bathroom use more or if that's more a sadistic trait. 



Bearlee -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/8/2007 9:38:59 AM)

 
I dunno, I just think pee is fun.  Long before I discovered BDSM or D/s...I had a husband and then different boyfriends who have enjoyed peeing on me...or me on them.  Yes, the control comes with who's in charge and how it's done...but sometimes it's just warm, intimate play.
 
IMHO,
bearlee



littleone35 -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/8/2007 9:43:42 AM)

I have to ask for permission to go to the bathroom, but he does not make me wait.  He also does not watch me i would find that very uncomfortsable.

Matt's littleone



EvaLass -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/8/2007 11:40:30 AM)

I just can't take it too seriously. This man and I, we are done. It has nothing to do with the pee or the menstrual blood. Every day of my life, I learn new and surprising things. As I wrote to him, I found his being in the bathroom with me rather domestic and endearing. Maybe I should put in my profile that I need a Pee Daddy. Although our later discussion did spark a memory of girlhood menstruation that was rather humiliating. I don't think I will tell it here, because it would provide awful torture for some Dom(me) whose submissive is still having periods. In any case, I've asked this Dom to stay in my life as a friend. He makes me laugh and feel good. He's just not one for the long-haul but he certainly comes through in the potty break department. Anyway, I am a writer. Maybe I will write the definitive book on erotic humiliation - one designed to be read by submissives AND their masters. I belonged to this site a few years ago under another name. I attempted to explore that topic then, but nobody had much to say. This time, I've gotten some fun insights and a great reading list from somebody who responded to my post on bukkaka and other forms of humiliation. Sorry, sister submissive, I need to give you credit for that terrific reading list. When I find your username, I will provide it here.



subboi3382 -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/8/2007 3:01:21 PM)

well part of the scenario u discribed is about control, for example my master makes me pee sitting down. The other part is that guys just like to see girls pee, I'm not really into water sports, i'll do it becuase my master likes to, but i really do like to see a girl pee, i dont know why lol



princess4Sir -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (5/8/2007 3:35:42 PM)

a previous Dom required me to pee standing up - i had to lift the seat, straddle the bowl, and then pee - i was to pee that way all the time, whether we were together or not so i began inept doing it - it actually became fun - but the first time that i attempted to do it in front of him, i think i stood there at least 30 minutes and still could not pee - W/we tried concentrating, being quiet, whatever - but ultimately we laughed and laughed - makes for a cute memory



sirsprincess -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (7/21/2007 7:59:50 AM)

I too have to ask permission to pee, politely of course.  If I email him at work and he is not available, I wait for a bit and then go without permission, but then I have to call his voicemail and pee on that.  that is hard to do, but I'm getting better at it.  We do not live together and so if he is available first thing in the morning, I will call and pee for him over the phone and I love when he tells me I'm a good girl when he hears my pee.  I will say that it is humiliating as this is such a non-sexual, mundane thing for me, but it is also a huge turn on.  I have to drink lots of water during the day for health reasons and so I have to pee quite a bit and it's to the point where I get aroused when my bladder is full.  I would love to pee for him in person, haven't done that yet.  Although I think it would be harder than I'm imagining. 





slaverosebeauty -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (7/21/2007 9:55:21 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: EvaLass
 Does anybody have an idea of why a perfectly sane, georgeous and sexy 60-year old Dom, would want to watch a girl pee?


I've done it before, no big deal. Its a control thing, or part of micro-management or training. MJ an I have talked about that as part of a HP [high protocol] weekend or time together, it doesn't bother me for the most part, not like He can see what I'm doing.
 
I have peed while on the phone with my bestfriend [she didn't care], heck, we carry on full conversations while one of us pees {lol}. We all have to go 'potty' audiance or no. Do your business, wipe, flush, wash your hands and go. I know one girl friend who slips in ear plugs when she is with her Dom before she goes in so she doesn't have to hear his comentary, 3 years later, he is none the wiser and its NOT my place to tell him, lol.



Grlwithboy -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (7/21/2007 2:38:39 PM)

I avoid vanilla porn (snore), but my husband was telling me about getting roped into watching some very mainstream porn with buddies of his once, wholesome looking cuties who were "totally SHAVED" doing solo. stuff.  Except a LOT of the solo stuff apparently ended with the girl peeing in her outdoor spot. They were Hustler titles or something - he was pretty surprised to see pee mixing with "shaved" genre.

Point being apparently LOTS of really basic vanilla dudes of all ages apparently like to watch girls pee, let alone attractive 60 yo kinked ones.



michelleryder -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (7/22/2007 2:54:59 AM)

My master doesnt allow me to use the toilet no matter what i might need to use it for. Any toilet stuff  i do is done into a bowl even the expeling of enemas. It's just a bit of a kink for him. and another branch of humiliation and control.



NefertariReborn -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (7/22/2007 10:51:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: michelleryder

My master doesnt allow me to use the toilet no matter what i might need to use it for. Any toilet stuff  i do is done into a bowl even the expeling of enemas. It's just a bit of a kink for him. and another branch of humiliation and control.


*stumbles* sorry it's the whole bm thing ....does things to My balance.  Who moves that shit (no pun intended) when you're done? 



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