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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 5:32:44 PM   
dcnovice


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Perhaps. But I also think it's rooted in deep pain. Severe depression is agonizingly lonely, moreover, so a hunger for human attention isn't entirely surprising


I'll give you that but you have also been around the boards long enough to see this same theme repeated over and over again by the OP.



True. But then it seems like the most sensible thing to do is to roll one's eyes and move on to another thread. I don't see what's achieved by kicking someone who's down (outside of a scene, that is). Folks also seem to overlook the possibility that other depressed folk might read a thread and that their ability to find and draw strength from helpful responses is impeded by having to wade through all that snarkiness.

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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 5:36:00 PM   
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my oldest UM has been having similar thoughts lately about cutting herself ...not to commit suicide but to feel the pain because of the bullying and pressure she feels at school and unfortunately from me.  i understand my role in pressuring her to do better in math so she can graduate into high school however i didn't know about peer pressure she's getting from her school.  this was a total shock to me when her doctor told me what's really going on and why she "appears" happy yet she's not. i'm learning it's wrong for a parent to place such demands on her and to back away letting her do things herself.

my oldest UM has been through plenty the last 7 years after being hit by a train  ...i've been there for her every step of the way and i shall continue to do so as well as my family and friends. she knows we (meaning all of us who are part of her life including Daddy) are not going to give up on her.  with the help and support she'll get from Daddy (He's a psychiatrist and expert with teens/adults like her) and her doctors ...of course being surrounded by the love from me and family, she'll get better.


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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 5:36:47 PM   
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lol

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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 5:39:01 PM   
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Oooh are we having a foursome... SDFemDom4cuck, can you wear that bustier and Earthycouple... please wear that very outfit in your avatar.. and Domi... just bring yourself, doll!


lol


Oh yes, but I'm totally binding Domi to a chair. If he behaves I'll even let him watch. Otherwise, he just gets to listen! Not to worry ladies, I'll untie him when I've completely enjoyed the two of you.

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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 5:41:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hrm...so how does a foursome with three chicks work anyway?  Seeing as how you are both Dommes, can I have most of the cock?

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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 5:44:19 PM   
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Well well well...it's good to see you feeling better, jen!  :)
 
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I'm jealous of the flowers, though...  It's still early here in da mtns.

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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 5:45:44 PM   
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Hrm...so how does a foursome with three chicks work anyway?  Seeing as how you are both Dommes, can I have most of the cock?


3 chicks, 2 Dommes with strap ons and the Domidong. Sounds like it will be fun to work out the logistics while I'm out to dinner. I'm afraid (given My dry spell of late) I'll have to fight you for who gets the most cock. LOL

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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 5:47:51 PM   
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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 5:49:04 PM   
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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 5:51:19 PM   
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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 6:00:47 PM   
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can I have most of the cock?


Just don't put in in your mouth.

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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 6:04:11 PM   
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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 6:05:36 PM   
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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 6:06:08 PM   
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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 6:07:20 PM   
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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 6:07:46 PM   
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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 6:09:13 PM   
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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 6:10:20 PM   
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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 6:11:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		like i said before, if anyone else had posed this forum...regardless of how it was worded...they would have had been given a little more respect than anyone has ever given me. too many of my forums have been hijacked and taken away...regardless of the subject.

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RE: When to let go. - 5/10/2007 6:11:56 PM   
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Promise me you are coming to Kink-Fest in Naples?


Hadn't heard of it, actually.

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