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ORIGINAL: EvaLass

Like most women, I had no idea until two years ago that the anus is part of the sexual system. The pelvic girdle includes the ass along with the genitals, and sexual pleasure can be enhanced through careful ass play. I say careful because anything violent that creates a tear in the anal tissue can cause a life-threatening infection that could spread quickly. I don't know the official definition of "ass play" - I don't know if it includes anal sex - but for me it involves stimulating the anal area for the purpose of enhancing sexual sensation. I was floored in discussing this topic with a Dom when I found out he knew nothing about it. He thus has no access to the tremendous pleasure that comes with this play. Someone introduced me to this form of sensory stimulation by telling me how to do it and then giving me instructions. It was really my own individual exploration and willingness to stick with what appeared to be an unpleasant assignment that led to my discovery of the exquisite possibilities of the ass in creating pleasure.

Now, getting to the point. Has anyone on the slave/submissive side introduced his/her Dom(me) to this kind of play as a form of service? This friend of mine wanted to know if a person would use gloves and so on. I said that in my opinion it would be a good idea to use gloves and that a Dominant who was the subject of ass play might even want to take an enema and shower beforehand. I know that my friend and I were talking about the health benefits of prostate massage which is a related area. I believe this is an element of Tantric sex and a also good practice, or form of service, to share if one knows how to do it.

Anybody have any experiences here to share?