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The limits of cocksuckers - 5/10/2007 5:54:50 PM   
AAkasha


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Status: offline 		Many submissive men are willing to suck another man's cock, but how many are willing to kiss a man full on the mouth? As in -- making out.  I'd like to hear from subs who consider this a hard limit, but are willing to either:

* Suck a dildo/strap on and/or
* Suck a real cock

Do you think there are more submissive men with a limit of kissing the same sex on the mouth than female submissives?  Any female subs consider kissing another woman a hard limit, and why?

For both genders, if you are willing to do the act, does the physical appearance of the person you are made to kiss matter to you at all?  Are you more willing to do it if the person is considered attractive to you? If you were not able to choose the person or have input regarding their appearance, then what?

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/10/2007 6:44:29 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Yes- it's the difference between usage and intimacy.  I've known many women who were ok with hugs- but not kisses.  OK with breasts- but not pussy.  OK with pussy- but only going down on me. 

Same with men.

For a lot of people, they cannot separate the act from the emotion of closeness.  So if you don't want the one, then you can't also do the other.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/10/2007 7:40:55 PM   
imsuchabitch


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Status: offline 		kissing a guy = hard limit

giving or recieving anal = hard limit

Giving a real bj for the mistress = okay

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/10/2007 7:43:27 PM   
MissOchistic


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Status: offline 		Agreed with LA.

Kissing is so very intimate to me. Plain old fucking can be as distant as using a vibrator, but kissing i have never done without feeling something strong. Now i happen to loooooove **drools** a good woman, so as far as the homosexuality angle of this (if that's what you were going for) doesn't much apply to me.

But all in all, i can do a whole lot with a person i don't love, but i can't kiss full on the mouth unless i feel a connection.


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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/10/2007 7:47:56 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		Kissing a man is a Hard Limit of mine. Now for sucking his Penis, that doesn't seem as personal, and with a Condom, even less personal. Now as for kissing a female, I am not much of a kisser, and save that for my wife. So far she hasn't complained TOO MUCH !

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/10/2007 7:58:26 PM   
moki1984


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Status: offline 		i know a bisexual man who wont kiss men...but everything else

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/10/2007 11:12:31 PM   
liks2plzlf


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Status: offline 		For me, a hard limit. I get turned off just seeing two men kiss.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/10/2007 11:25:39 PM   
GADomCpl


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Status: offline 		Reminds me of "Pretty Woman" where Julia Roberts first gets to the hotel and is telling Richard Gere (spelling?) that he can do anything, but no kissing.  I think that for most people kissing is a very personal act.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/11/2007 4:55:50 AM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		for me my mistress likes to see guy on guy action ..she is a great director ..smile ...yes i have sucked guys cocks before and they both have fucked my ass to please her ..but never once did she say anything about us kissing each other ...i do swallow my own cum once she takes it from me but so far i havent swallowed another mans cum yet ..guess my training isnt complete ..smile.. the bi action seemed so natural with her there but i have not done anything bi since then without her direction ..gotta keep the lady happy right ? have to say having a real cock fucking my ass instead of her strapon did feel better but i LOVE  when she fists me ..big smile ..have fun ..mal ..will gladly bendover for her anytime she wants to take my ass ...so far this week she has fisted and fucked my 2 times ..gawd i love that feeling ...she says my next bi session is cuming soon ..she says she will surprise me with it one of these days ..gawd i love her surprises

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/20/2007 1:03:04 PM   
bisub4play


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Many submissive men are willing to suck another man's cock, but how many are willing to kiss a man full on the mouth? As in -- making out.  I'd like to hear from subs who consider this a hard limit, but are willing to either:

* Suck a dildo/strap on and/or
* Suck a real cock

Do you think there are more submissive men with a limit of kissing the same sex on the mouth than female submissives?  Any female subs consider kissing another woman a hard limit, and why?

For both genders, if you are willing to do the act, does the physical appearance of the person you are made to kiss matter to you at all?  Are you more willing to do it if the person is considered attractive to you? If you were not able to choose the person or have input regarding their appearance, then what?

Akasha



Ms. Akasha,

              I have served a few Dommes who required this of me. One was my ex-wife and she would make me and the other sub kneel facing each other and kiss and touch each other for long periods of time before we actually were directed to do oral. She also made us lick each others nipples and rub our cocks together. Guess it was like foreplay she wanted to see before the main event...

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/20/2007 3:16:47 PM   
aidan


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Status: offline 		Oddly enough, I think I'd have a harder time going down on a man than kissing him.

Now, I don't WANT to go down on a man. Never been a fantasy of mine, never liked the idea. I don't like the idea of being intimate with a man in anyway, but in some weird circumstance where I had to choose between cocksucking or kissing, I'd go with kissing. At least then, I can try and trick myself into thinkng it's not a man. With a cock, that'd be a bit harder.

I love the idea of going down on a dildo, but that's because it's an inanimate object or something that's being used as an extension of a Lady. In my mind that's an entirely different matter.


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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/20/2007 3:25:49 PM   
LightHeartedMaam


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Status: offline 		I'd rather be loved than tolerated.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/20/2007 7:46:43 PM   
PairOfDimes


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Status: offline 		Good question. I've intimately known men and women who won't kiss a given gender (either same-sex or opposite-sex--whatever isn't their generally preferred gender) but who will do genital play with that gender, and I've intimately known men and women who will kiss and cuddle the unpreferred gender but who won't do genital touching. As I think about my past experiences, I'm not coming up with a clear sense that preferring the bottom half is more widespread than preferring the top half, though.

For statistics and exhibitionism, I'm a dominant woman, and while it's pretty unusual for me to fellate or manually pleasure the penis of a man who is submitting to me, it's extremely rare for me to kiss a man who is submitting to me.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/20/2007 8:11:04 PM   
desertdancer


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Status: offline 		I don't kiss much at all, though I'd love to.  My husband has the most sensual lips, just ripe for kissing, but I don't kiss him much.  I don't kiss because when I do I get an intense physical reaction.  Kissing him turns me on so much that I get lightning hot shooting pain through my head.  The kissing head aches can be so bad that I feel like I am going to throw up or pass out.  Being sick is a quick love making killer, so we avoid kissing.  How sad is that?

I know that was a tiny bit off topic as we're opposit genders.  I was just giving a reason for not kissing.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/20/2007 8:33:13 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Aakasha, another good one!
 
Someone actually asked Me this question the other day.  My boys have done some of the activities that you mentioned in your post, but all of them have been hard limit on male to male kissing.  While I do enjoy the visual stimulation, the submission of having boys engage in what might be considered encouraged bi activities, having them kiss each other has never really had an appeal to Me.  Might have to do with the intimacy factor that was mentioned before. 

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/20/2007 8:46:50 PM   
asubmissiveheart


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Status: offline 		Sucking another man's cock?
That is a hard limit for me.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/20/2007 8:50:23 PM   
ToysAndTies


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Status: offline 		I think if you can find a way to harness that lightening, you'd never want to stop kissing him.  That sounds intense.  Getting sick though? Have to say, that's the first time I've heard of that.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/20/2007 11:46:05 PM   
WhiplashSmile


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Status: offline 		If for some strange twisted act of god I was held at gun point and forced to choose, my options would be...

A.  Get shot in head
B.  Kiss guy on lips
C.  Suck Cock
D.  Act Crazier then Bat shit, hope to avoid getting shot in head.
E.  Nobody is home right now, so if you leave your name number and a brief message somebody might get back to you.  

OK enough of the smartass response. To be honest

I would go for kissing a dude over sucking cock any day of the week.
Hell, I'd french kiss another guy over sucking cock.

 

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/21/2007 12:47:23 AM   
chiaThePet


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Status: offline 		The Limits of cocksuckers?

Ohhhh i'd say about seven inches.

Though on a good day, i can take eleven.

Hmmm seven/eleven...open all night!

Just think creamsicle boys.

Should ya? Could ya? Wood ya? Not Even For Her?

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/21/2007 12:51:49 AM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile

If for some strange twisted act of god I was held at gun point and forced to choose, my options would be...

A.  Get shot in head
B.  Kiss guy on lips
C.  Suck Cock
D.  Act Crazier then Bat shit, hope to avoid getting shot in head.
E.  Nobody is home right now, so if you leave your name number and a brief message somebody might get back to you.  

OK enough of the smartass response. To be honest

I would go for kissing a dude over sucking cock any day of the week.
Hell, I'd french kiss another guy over sucking cock.




Shhhhhhh, don't tell him he may be french kissing a guy who just sucked a cock.
Guilty by association, pass it on.

With Love and Respect, chia* "kiss me you fool" (the pet)

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