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Hottiegurl -> RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we should encourage? (7/7/2007 10:25:14 PM)
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This is an update for me as well as for this discussion. I have finally gotten myself up and out of the house for help in losing weight. Not only for myself but for my children. They lost their dad to a heart attack and I feel dropping my weight may help keep me here longer for them. (Although I could very well be hit by a Mac Truck or some other accident may occur) The idea is to drop weight for health reasons. I am happy for the change I am making.
In the long run it may help me to keep my kids healthier. That is a plus. To say I am doing it for anyone else, like finding a man?, I have many men already wanting me the way I am. Some have said don't lose the weight, lol. To each their own I say to the guys who want weight and size proportionate.
Have you ever looked at the pictures of your family from other generations and noticed genes that you got from different family members. I have. I have a photo from when I was 7. My great-grandmother, grandmother, mother and me. We have the same smile.
Then I look at the other side of the family and stomp my feet. Then I go to my dad and cuss him out. There I see starring back at me are all my great-aunts (no aunts) Every single woman worked hard all her life and most walked and danced all the time but they all looked like German Haus Fraus. Shorter, wider (damn) but still beautiful. I could be fit and trim and still look a little like them. So I will get down to where I feel comfortable in my own skin. Not where some chart says I need to be, nor what some men think is perfect.
I will look at those Haus Fraus in the picture and tell them I still love them even if they fed me when I told them I was full.
Hottie
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