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BlindUnknown -> RE: Is romance desired or just dominance? (5/15/2007 5:20:00 PM)
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romance first, THEN i decide whether or not i will surrender control to someone outside the bedroom. my free will is my most precious commodity, and i won't waste it on just anybody.
As for "can i take a momentary lapse in it" i'm honestly not sure. The personality type i connect with is generally reticent, and i know i'm loved because i'm there, many people confuse it with simple friendship, it's how i and many of my past partners operate. i assume you are a more open-hearted person, and this wouldn't apply to you. In such case, unless the sub says otherwise, my -guess- would be, as long as at the end of the day the dom/me reminds their sub how much they are loved (and maybe even when you both first wake up), with that umbrella over you, anything done that day, punishment, beating, etc. can be seen under that lense, and overlooked.
Like i said, my best guess, not concrete knowledge.
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