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ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper Personally I only dig humiliation when both enjoy it... but here are some ideas. I won't add any that are mostly sexual (unless you ask), although many that I think of are. Humiliation is different to certain people. Exhibitionists are not humiliated by showing their bodies, but these are generic ideas. Some of these sound bad, as a formality I must suggest you discuss limits and rules before playing with humiliation. Bukkake is pretty humiliating, but isn't for everyone. I'm a male-Dom so some of these ideas may not appeal to you based on the differences between us. (age, tolerance, gender, experience, personal preferences) -Letting people see her naked, guests/strangers. -Nude photos. -Make her pee herself in public. (Water works fine aswell, since it's the public aspect that's really at work.) -Have her yell or draw unwanted attention to herself in public. (Not in a hazardous way, but make her call a waiter from across a busy restaurant.) -Hose her down in the front yard during busy neighborhood hours. -Face slapping, while making her thank you. -Making her beg for basic needs. -Turn her into furniture (a female makes a great ottoman, she could also lick-shine some shoes) -Housework -Watersports/scat/vomitting/crying (discuss first) -Write on her. (Any derogatory term works well. I prefer lipstick as the medium.) -Caging -Belittle her. "Awwww you're cute when you're stupid!" -Be an amazingly embarassing chauvenist in public. "Hush! Men are talking!" (it occured to me after I got this far that the OP is a Domme, sorry =P) -Leashes (I prefer the extendable dog leashes so you can control her distance) -Not allow beautification. (To what extent it humiliates depends on her "need" to be pretty) -No walking, crawling only. -Have her offer her body. (I know I said I wouldn't go into sexual things, but I find making someone say the words even when both parties agree is an empty offer still has a ring to it.) -Have her wear socially unacceptable clothing (School-girl on an adult, kid's clothing, etc.) -Have her drink from bowls in restaurants and at home. (My Pet came up with that one, I love it. Put the bowl on the floor or your lap, perhaps) -Sleep on the floor, at the foot of the bed, in a pet bed, in a cage, outside while leashed to a pole. (Think that outside one through to ensure safety) -Make her watch you play with others. (Not touching or participating) -Make her lick your scene clean. (Try not to make her injest too much lube, please.) -Dehumanization. (Bondage masks are great. "I'm done with your mouth." ::zip mouth shut:: Also try zentai suits) -Proxy commands. (Make her lower than the male sub by ordering him to order her around) -Cut her hair. (A stripe of missing hair can be embarassing... just make sure it doesn't interfere with non-BDSM life issues. A power-executive could lose a job or big account over that.) -Carrying things. (Spend a day shopping as she carries all your bags. You could even be spending her money on things for you, should that be a route you wanted) -Bestiality. (Definitely discuss first.) -Making her admit her BDSM lifestyle. (Although I would steer clear of it, it mixes all different bad juju, if she's ashamed of it, it would be greatly humiliating) -Online slut. (I know I said I'd keep the post fairly clean, but online is different.) -Have her wear cum-stained clothes. (Trampy and easy, or at least it appears so.) -Overall embarassment. (Make her save seats in crowded movies, make her wait in lines for you and apologize to others when you step ahead of her. etc.) -Animal-like petting. (Imagine sitting in a chair with one hand on the dog's head, one hand on the sub's head. Technically kinda-sorta-almost bestiality.) -Mass disapproval. (Depending on religious beliefs, have her burp or yawn loudly in church. Just as an example... in my opinion that would affect other people's enjoyment of church too much.) -Make her break her things. (No family heirlooms, please.) -Shave her eyebrows. (Similar to cutting her hair, but this has an amazing affect on the sub's ability to look strangers in the eye. Again, the same warning applies.) -Dunk-tank (An over-the-top example, as few people own dunk tanks and the faire usually has it's own workers. Interesting fantasy, though.) -Have her chauffeur. (Many Dommes do the driving though, which is understandable.) -Favor the sub-male. (She gets celery, he gets cookies.) -Mental anguish. (In my experience weight can be a very humiliating subject. HOWEVER there is substantial evidence that this sort of bullying can cause eating disorders.) -Simulated sex acts. (Have her in vulnerable and comprimising positions.) -Objectification. (Use her hair like a rag, especially fun in the shower.) -Name calling. (Beware of 'learned helplessness.' A theory that suggests if you call someone stupid enough they will believe it and begin to act stupid. -Forced failing. (Set up tasks she cannot complete. Mental puzzles she cannot accomplish, table-puzzles with missing pieces, keys to locks that are on shelves too high for her, tasks she isn't familiar with [computer repair, setting the vcr clock]) -Have her read her journal. (If she keeps some private account of thoughts, the larger the audience, the more powerful the effect.) -Strap-on play. (Sucking a rubber cock and remind her she failed to please you physically... If she's witty that might just make you look dumb.) -Take away gratification. (Your sub seeks to please you. Never show pride in her and she'll feel like a failure. The ultimate humiliation is to order her to play with someone else, as she can no longer please you. After one experience with this I learned NEVER to do it again... but my limits are not yours.) -Make her wait outside during a long enjoyable munch. (Leashed to a parking meter is a nice touch, just keep an eye on her, lots of psycho's out there.) -Ignore her. -Jealousy. (Talk about getting another female sub, a better one. In my experience being jealous and being humiliated are seperate, but they could be linked.) I'll think of some more, I'm sure =D Edit: Added some ideas. Holy Smokes!!....some of this kinda turned me on ( don't think i'll be telling my Master about any of it just yet though...LOL)
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*if you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything* **collared July 22 2007 by LordKen**
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