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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/13/2007 4:38:02 PM

Lashra

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I ignore the morons who swear up and down that their gender/race/religion is "supreme" we are all human, we are all flawed. Neither gender was meant to rule the other. So to those peeps who preach that garbage they are wasting their time on me.

How do I feel about my male sub? I love him, adore him and take care of him. I do not see him as a walking ATM for me to use and abuse. That is NOT what a dom/me is supposed to do as far as I am concerned. But the sub is the one with the power to choose and s/he must do so wisely when accepting the collar of a Dominant. Because there are dominants out there who don't give a shit and will take a sub for anything and everything that they can get.
As a Priest once told me "Walk as an angel, but be as wise as a serpent."

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 5:08:49 AM

Copulo

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Hi AldertheKitty

Spelling mistakes don’t bother me so long as what you write is legible. I wouldn’t turn someone away because the spelling and grammar is not up to scratch. Lets face it, Einstein was a dyslexic and that didn’t stop him!

Its very easy for a Mistress to get ‘Dominatrix Toxaemia’! we are constantly fed lines about how beautiful we are, how they desire to worship us as a Goddess! And for the Mistress that withdraws herself more and more from vanilla life, the more chance she has of starting to believe her own hype. Its actually a recognized condition amongst psychologists and related very closely to things such as superstardom. The condition is fairly easy to recognise when you are on the same end as the bow as themselves because they will try to dominate everyone and not just subs. Kind of like the world owes them!

Some subs like to be treated like dirt, some even love it and for others it is all they can get then its better than nothing.
I actually don’t enjoy being treated like a goddess. I sometimes work in a fem Domme club and I do it because I am friends with a promoter but to be honest its not my thing and Im always glad when the night is over.

Just strive for what you want and you’re sure to find it in the end. Put everything down to experience and don’t get disillusioned. If it doesn’t suit your tastes then move on.

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 5:23:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: Copulo

Its very easy for a Mistress to get ‘Dominatrix Toxaemia’! we are constantly fed lines about how beautiful we are, how they desire to worship us as a Goddess! And for the Mistress that withdraws herself more and more from vanilla life, the more chance she has of starting to believe her own hype. Its actually a recognized condition amongst psychologists and related very closely to things such as superstardom. The condition is fairly easy to recognise when you are on the same end as the bow as themselves because they will try to dominate everyone and not just subs. Kind of like the world owes them!

Maybe this is why I've survived all of these years & I haven't gone through the grief that so many others have.

I actually get very turned off when someone approaches me solely because of my external appearance. I get turned off if the only thing they can say is all this nicey-nice, dribbly BS that is completely focused on shallow observations of me. I am sooo much more than this skin thin shell.

Being appreciated for our appearance is one thing & but if someone has no interest outside of that & they are incapable of expanding their interest beyond this then I will tire of their come-ons with a quickness.

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 6:21:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: Copulo

Its very easy for a Mistress to get ‘Dominatrix Toxaemia’! we are constantly fed lines about how beautiful we are, how they desire to worship us as a Goddess! And for the Mistress that withdraws herself more and more from vanilla life, the more chance she has of starting to believe her own hype. Its actually a recognized condition amongst psychologists and related very closely to things such as superstardom.

Give the Mistress more credit than that, sir. She knows 99.9% of those lines are a crack of shit. She doesn't need to hear those fabriacated lines from men to feel her worth, she already knows her worth comes from her heart and her mind. Give credit where credit deserves.

And yet, she still walks through life with her head on her shoulders and not stuck up in the air. The Mistress is a lot more smarter than you give her credit. The REAL Mistresses, that is....

< Message edited by jimbo747 -- 5/14/2007 6:22:48 AM >

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 6:50:57 AM

Copulo

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jimbo747

quote:

ORIGINAL: Copulo

Its very easy for a Mistress to get ‘Dominatrix Toxaemia’! we are constantly fed lines about how beautiful we are, how they desire to worship us as a Goddess! And for the Mistress that withdraws herself more and more from vanilla life, the more chance she has of starting to believe her own hype. Its actually a recognized condition amongst psychologists and related very closely to things such as superstardom.

Give the Mistress more credit than that, sir. She knows 99.9% of those lines are a crack of shit. She doesn't need to hear those fabriacated lines from men to feel her worth, she already knows her worth comes from her heart and her mind. Give credit where credit deserves.

And yet, she still walks through life with her head on her shoulders and not stuck up in the air. The Mistress is a lot more smarter than you give her credit. The REAL Mistresses, that is....

Well first of all Im female!!! and I am a Mistress and no doubt you will come back and tell me Im not real but thats of no importance to me

So why then do some Mistresses get ‘Dominatrix Toxaemia?

You think all Mistresses are real?
You believe that no Mistress believes she is a divine Goddess?
I have worked in this for many years and have many good friendships with ‘real Mistresses’ I have seen Dominatrix Toxaemia first hand and how it destroyed the family life of all those around her.

I

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 7:27:11 AM

MstrssPassion

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ORIGINAL: Copulo

Well first of all Im female!!! and I am a Mistress and no doubt you will come back and tell me Im not real but thats of no importance to me

So why then do some Mistresses get ‘Dominatrix Toxaemia?

You think all Mistresses are real?
You believe that no Mistress believes she is a divine Goddess?
I have worked in this for many years and have many good friendships with ‘real Mistresses’ I have seen Dominatrix Toxaemia first hand and how it destroyed the family life of all those around her.

I

One of the best way to determine being a Master (or Mistress if you prefer) is self control (i.e. mastery of self). If someone is going to fall prey to their own vanity then they haven't quite obtained self control thus revealing a diminished level of mastery.

(fyi : toxemia)

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 7:29:23 AM

jimbo747

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Copulo

quote:

ORIGINAL: jimbo747

quote:

ORIGINAL: Copulo

Its very easy for a Mistress to get ‘Dominatrix Toxaemia’! we are constantly fed lines about how beautiful we are, how they desire to worship us as a Goddess! And for the Mistress that withdraws herself more and more from vanilla life, the more chance she has of starting to believe her own hype. Its actually a recognized condition amongst psychologists and related very closely to things such as superstardom.

Give the Mistress more credit than that, sir. She knows 99.9% of those lines are a crack of shit. She doesn't need to hear those fabriacated lines from men to feel her worth, she already knows her worth comes from her heart and her mind. Give credit where credit deserves.

And yet, she still walks through life with her head on her shoulders and not stuck up in the air. The Mistress is a lot more smarter than you give her credit. The REAL Mistresses, that is....

Well first of all Im female!!! and I am a Mistress and no doubt you will come back and tell me Im not real but thats of no importance to me

So why then do some Mistresses get ‘Dominatrix Toxaemia?

You think all Mistresses are real?
You believe that no Mistress believes she is a divine Goddess?
I have worked in this for many years and have many good friendships with ‘real Mistresses’ I have seen Dominatrix Toxaemia first hand and how it destroyed the family life of all those around her.

I

I don't care if your real or if your not real. Makes no difference to me what you do or who you are.

I did not say all "mistresses" are real. Many are men posers. Others are scam artists (both men and women).

My point simply was that you seem to think a Mistress with self-confidence gets it from the submissive man's adjulations and that she shouldn't be allowed to be confident and secure in herself. A Mistress or Dom Woman is by nature confident TO BEGIN WITH and THAT is exactly why they are so appealing. By my "REAl mistress" word, I meant a real woman who is confident because she knows it herself not because of the many compliments they hear.

You ought to give the Mistresses more credit than you do. Not all of them fall for the "your so beautiful" lines.

Not all Mistresses need to hear that to know they are beautiful.

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 8:20:59 AM

thetammyjo

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Oh dear. My advice: If a profile does not suit you, skip it. No sense expending all this negative energy on that which you can not control. What you may not like, others may be thrilled by. So just move on to someone who you feel may be more suitable.

I think this is the best advice for all of us at all times.

So why is it so hard for us all to follow it?

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 8:30:07 AM

MistressLorelei

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To the OP:

I think it is just as unreasonable for you to categorize and namecall the nature of the Dommes whose profiles you so disapprove of, and to expect that "real" Dommes should not present themselves in a way that you don't approve of.

Would this make you the "supreme being" that you so despise? As many are not the perfect match for you, you are not the perfect match for many.... and that doesn't mean that you should be picked apart or be less than welcome here. It's a big fish tank here with all kinds of kinky fish... so what!

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 8:51:30 AM

Copulo

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I don't care if your real or if your not real. Makes no difference to me what you do or who you are.

I did not say all "mistresses" are real. Many are men posers. Others are scam artists (both men and women).

My point simply was that you seem to think a Mistress with self-confidence gets it from the submissive man's adjulations and that she shouldn't be allowed to be confident and secure in herself. A Mistress or Dom Woman is by nature confident TO BEGIN WITH and THAT is exactly why they are so appealing. By my "REAl mistress" word, I meant a real woman who is confident because she knows it herself not because of the many compliments they hear.

You ought to give the Mistresses more credit than you do. Not all of them fall for the "your so beautiful" lines.

Not all Mistresses need to hear that to know they are beautiful.

I was not going to reply because I don’t think you have read my original post properly but then I feel I have the right to defend my own corner.

I did not say at any time that a Mistress with ‘self confidence’ has any issues. Of course a Mistress or a Master for that matter needs an abundance of self confidence, self worth or whatever else we wish to name it and I have spoken about this at great length in other posts I have written. Of course a Mistress has to be very much in control of her own life before she can go on to be in control of another. This has nothing whatsoever to do with a Mistress who actually believes that she is higher and above all others (and believe me some do). That is called an over inflated self ego and is actually a very wrong self image. A Mistress that suffers from a high degree of narcism is living under a false illusion of herself and that in itself is unhealthy.

It is hugely different for a Mistress to want, desire and need to be pampered than a Mistress who really does believe she is the Queen of Sheba even away from this lifestyle.

You mince with my words when you say, ‘you aught to give a Mistress more credit than you do’. You assume for some reason that I tar all Mistresses with the same brush, when in actual fact I know and hang around with many Mistresses that are genuine, confident and lovely people. I just don’t hang out with the narcissists!

You said: By my "REAl mistress" word, I meant a real woman who is confident because she knows it herself not because of the many compliments they hear. ‘.’

And that funnily enough is exactly what I was saying, so Im not actually sure why you are contradicting me?

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 5:52:04 PM

Griswold

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

I ignore the morons who swear up and down that their gender/race/religion is "supreme" we are all human (please don't include Norwegians in that synopsis), we are all flawed (I presume you mean, "all but Norwegians"...{I forgive you in advance}).

< Message edited by Griswold -- 5/14/2007 5:53:41 PM >

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 6:05:11 PM

littlesarbonn

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Another rant from blah blah <snip>

As Cloudboy suggests, laugh at them. If I see a dodgy profile of somebody looking like they're doing an impression of a blow-up doll and demanding "10 fianacial slaves full time" then I'll grab the URL and send it off to others to spread some humour.

Exactly. I practically live for these really, over the top profiles that appear every now and then that just leave you shaking your head in complete disbelief. For a second, you wonder if someone can be that naive, and then for the next second you wonder if there's actually someone more naive than she is (the one who would respond to it). There are some of them that have left me chuckling for a great deal of time after I read them.

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 8:12:12 PM

kc692

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I see and hear about Subs who are allmost asking to be victemised i worry about them cause i have been there. I just wanted to see how dommes feel about this

There are some who want to be victimized. There are also doms who scream "on your knees bitch", yet you do not worry about the subs in that occurrence. That is why we are all adults, if you can not decipher who is right and good for you, (and the same for all the other subs) then you should not be contacting people on the site.

It sounds harsh, but I personally do not care who is being victimized. If one thinks those profiles appeal to them, then they know what to expect beforehand. This is an adult site, and I worry about taking care of those in My household or mentor only.

You would not believe the loads of crap we get fed either,because some think that all dommes are in it for the tangible goods, and offer us the moon, to see if we are stupid enough to fall for that. It runs rampant on both sides of the kneel.

< Message edited by kc692 -- 5/14/2007 8:19:05 PM >

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/14/2007 8:20:54 PM

kitriana

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Are you familiar with the phrase "For every pig there is a pig fucker."? For everyone out there, no matter how outrageous they or their demands seem, there is someone willing to deal with them. Personally, I agree with the others on here. Some of the profiles on here are hysterical, just as much as some of the emails i receive. It seems like you are taking it much more personally than you should.

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/15/2007 1:58:07 PM

YesMistressIrish

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jimbo747

quote:

ORIGINAL: Copulo

Its very easy for a Mistress to get ‘Dominatrix Toxaemia’! we are constantly fed lines about how beautiful we are, how they desire to worship us as a Goddess! And for the Mistress that withdraws herself more and more from vanilla life, the more chance she has of starting to believe her own hype. Its actually a recognized condition amongst psychologists and related very closely to things such as superstardom.

Give the Mistress more credit than that, sir. She knows 99.9% of those lines are a crack of shit. She doesn't need to hear those fabriacated lines from men to feel her worth, she already knows her worth comes from her heart and her mind. Give credit where credit deserves.

And yet, she still walks through life with her head on her shoulders and not stuck up in the air. The Mistress is a lot more smarter than you give her credit. The REAL Mistresses, that is....

Jimbo: Your post was right-on. Thanks!

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 5/15/2007 2:14:15 PM

earthycouple

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ORIGINAL: AlderTheKitty

Another rant from the Brat Cat
ok where do some women get off acting as if they are some kind of supreme higher power.    Got me

they're profiles often have lines like "my slaves will keep me in a manor befitting of the goddess I am" using phrases such as "shrivelled little dick" "my sluts serve me online and if they pay me enough they might get a chance to meet me". I look at these profiles and am reminded of the woman who abused me. An egotistical self centered megalomaniac.      I hear you....I can't get over those profiles. I think that's silly, but I'm sure there is a group of subs who get of on it just like there are a group who hate it. First thing I look for in a prospective dominant is if she is she humble or not.

EGAHWANOTHATSNOTPOSSABLE cause all subs want someone who never admits they are wrong to dominate them because limbs grow back ... right???

Now here’s the question to the responsible Domme’s out there how do you stand these women tarnishing the delicate work you do. I know that any sub I want, knows these women are players and posers or are too extreme for them and pass by them anyway.

and to any one who thinks I am simply just bad mouthing these women I am not I understand for some goddess role play is an interesting thing but that is a title only a sub can give to a Domme

are there any Domme’s out there that still value what I and other subs have to offer or have wee just become a new kind of walking check book   Yep we are out here, I'm a good one...and have found a great slave already. She'll appear for you one day too.

A suggestion, however, is carefully thinking of the way you write and word things. Your post here comes off pretty ugly. I am sure that I am not the only person who saw past the way your post was written...but delicacy is needed on occasion, little one.

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 7/20/2007 1:33:10 PM

bettamorphasis

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Deer Mischress sorry mi marmi n daddi dint hav da marnie 2 sand me to skool wear i kould becum a lerned ant rispekred skolar... sumtymez lyfe iz
soh unbearabel in the get-o..butt feer knot..my granpa hezrich and ab out too forl off da perch enni minut..den i wil rent a chewtor too halp mee wif mi gramma..and den i pelann on riting a Beet stile buuk..my heerow iz
Jak Care-o-Ak

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 7/20/2007 1:55:57 PM

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A lot of people would be horrified by how I play and a lot of the rhetoric I like to use to draw people who play compatibly to me. Fortunately, I like to move through non-play environments in a litter-box-trained fashion, but language around destruction and use and inflicting real suffering IS what gets me wet. Sorry if you don't like that.

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 7/20/2007 2:21:21 PM

ready4srvce4all

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If the profile bothers you, move on to the next one. I only get aggravated when I get inappropriate messages. I also don't feel the profiles you refer to "tarnish" them any more than one bad police officer "tarnishes" the whole police force. Using that logic, the trolls who call themselves sub, slave, Master, Mistress and everywhere in between tarnish the whole lot of us.

Sorry about the fact those profiles bring back some pain from an old love gone bad. Maybe she was my ex, she has that kind of effect on men.

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RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling - 7/21/2007 8:24:03 AM

kc692

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another resurrected dead thread that deserved to die.......

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