Calandra -> RE: Trash/Leach/paricite bitches who are you fooling (5/13/2007 12:33:35 PM)
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Okay, I'm about to respond to a thread against better judgement... spelling and grammar are very important skills to Me, and I usually pass over these types of threads... here goes: Alder, I can only speak from MY experience, but I expect to earn a slave's trust and personal power before I begin exerting My Dominance into their life. I go fairly slowly, and take My time learning what he wants, needs and offers. Once I have discovered that a slave and I "match", and once I have earned a place in his life and allowed him to earn a place in Mine, then yes - what I say goes. I have no moral or ethical problem with Professional Domination (I used to be one and may possibly return to it someday), since I see it as a valid profession and service. What I do disagree with is allowing a slave to believe that She is seeking a relationship when all She really seeks is a client. I have no moral or ethical problem with Female Superiority since in some cases, a woman is light years ahead of men, where relationships are concerned. The important thing is that a woman who is a supremacist finds a man who agrees and fits as Her slave. There is a saying "Let the buyer beware" meaning that if you are seeking to purchase something, it is YOUR responsibility to assure that the product is a good fit, quality materials, and a reasonable and attainable price. I apply that to submissives. It is YOUR responsibility to take the time to get to know a prospective Mistress. Make sure She has good character, not just a good personality. Make sure She is ethical, and knowledgeable. Also make sure you have quality to offer HER or She will be out of your league. Are you of good character? Are you kind, loving, generous, resourceful, hard working and insightful? Do you take responsibility to learn Her needs? Do you expect to continue to grow, so that you are always worthy of Her attention? Submission is not a gift... neither is Dominance - they simply ARE. The moment you stop holding your basic nature up as something special is the day you get realistic expectations and find that one who is worthy of you, and vice versa.
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