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I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:00:54 AM   
puella


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Just a casual question .... why do so many men (I must say that I have found this to be almost exclusively a male thing here on the forums) throw in that line?

"I have fucked many women who were gorgeous, but that doesnt mean that that is important to me in finding a partner"

or

"I have had many women who were model pretty want me, but I turned them down because they were not pretty on the inside"

or some other variation... I do not think I can go three days without seeing someone put that in a post on on one of the topics. 

Why do men throw that little qualifier in?  If they need to toss it in, isn't there an inherent value on beauty as well.. because the are better that the hot chicks that want them... they are placing a value on them by making themselves better than that, no?

Dunno, semi-rant on a morning with no caffine I suppose... maybe I am getting too crotchety in my  old age!

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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:06:13 AM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		They think their value will go up on the market if 'pretty girls' went with them, but they emphasise prettiness in a chick isn't their priority.

So on the one hand they have this insane pride that one day, perhaps, an above average looking woman went to bed with them, but they realise most women are average looking, neither ugly nor stunningly beautiful, and that they are quite happy to just go with what's available.

I believe the fact they mention this in the first place shows they're terrily insecure about their own looks... or about the size of their shlong



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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:09:51 AM   
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You want them to say instead -
 
"Oh, I have fucked some gorgeous women and I sure as hell aint fucking those ugly ones - who gives a shit about their insides as long as they are pretty and wet?"
 
Geez... males species - ya just can't win huh?


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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:11:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		I always thought it was strutting for mostly the other men. They think we are going to be impressed by the fact they have slept around, and even though they have been with the best looking women ever, they are still going to give little old us a try, arent we lucky?  Its the ost backhanded compliment I have ever seen, and I usualy dont give someone who boasts about things like that the time of day. OR of course, I can always toss back the number of extremely hot women *I* have slept with... but I am still willing to give the average run of the mill male some attention. lucky them *grin*  Whether we have or not, I guess we Ladies just dont see the same need to stroke egos about the number and looks out former partners have had.  Key word former, no matter what they did or didnt have, they are gone and usually for good reasons.  Least thats how I see it.

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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:11:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well I dont say that, I'll fuck almost anything.
A voluptuous sex craving Grand Mother would do.

She could despatch me to Paradise with a grin on my face.
Assuming my little schlong would rise to the occasion.

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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:12:06 AM   
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Well, on the one hand I want to say: "I've never done that," but given the context of the discussion, I would feel almost as though I'm doing the exact inverse of what you're ranting about by doing so ... so that's a bit of a conundrum.  :)

I do know what you're talking about.  In my personal experience, there can be a number of explanations (though I would hardly describe myself as an embedded anthropologist of my half of the species ... these are still guesses).

1.)  Low self-esteem, which generally connotates it not being true.  Most men that I've met (including myself) obviously have a strong desire to prove their worthiness in the eyes of a woman ... some of us go about that in pretty stupid ways, such as lying about something that we feel will make us more appealing as a prospective mate when it is in fact something that the fairer of the species finds completely disgusting.

2.)  High self-esteem, which generally connotates the guy being a complete and total asshat.  The misogynist crowd typically runs this party line quite a bit in my experience, and the purpose of it (as best I can tell) when they utilize it is to "put the woman in her place."  They want to make it seem like it "ain't no thing" and that they "don't care" because somewhere along the line, they learned or were told that taking an apathetic approach toward many women is a way of enticing them.  I still genuinely believe that despite this approach, at the end of the day the objective is the same -- impress the woman so as to earn the necessary rights to bed her.

And if we want to go further than that, I would suggest that both of these stem from a long list of strongly reinforced genetic imperatives as dictated by countless milennia of successful ancestors.  :)

-Sicarius ... the male-half, anyway ...

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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:12:47 AM   
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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:15:40 AM   
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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:15:55 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol
And assuming you keep quiet during the whole proceeding


During maybe, but after I would have to ensure that she saw things "right" ie My Way. lol
After the "luvin "she had just received I wouldn't have any problems. OK ?

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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:19:33 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I always viewed it as,  the louder it is proclaimed, the farther from the truth it is.



I have to agree with you on that one.

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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:21:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think its like issuing a challenge to see what woman can snag this "prince". He supposedly has beautiful women falling all over him, do YOU have what it takes to win his heart instead of his cock?  Some women fall for it, others are smarter than that.

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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:32:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		As Aileen said, most men are, errrrm, exagerating when they brag like that. Sure, some are being truthful, but most...........

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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:34:00 AM   
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Maybe they would score higher if they could dance?
 
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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:35:11 AM   
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then i ask ok- what have u laid lately.

then the blob comes out. now seerving 399999

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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:35:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		YOU say it, mate. I take your word for it rofl.

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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:39:16 AM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		quite simply, puella...they're men...they don't know any other way to be.

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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:39:28 AM   
puella


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Status: offline 		Interesting post... thank you for it.

It does make me wonder as well... who are they posting this for?  It is not only the idiots who make these statements...

Surely men understand that a statement like one of the ones being discussed does NOTHING to forward either their cause with women or their reputation with women.  In fact, I find it to be one of those little mental 'marks on the chalkboard', that though I do not really want to 'mark down'... just happens and I think... thats a shame!

So given that men must know that it is not at all effective with or on women... are they doing this to muscle up around the boys?  Even at the cost of being (even to a small degree) scoffed at by the other half of the planet?

I never will fully understand you creatures.

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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:42:29 AM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		what i don't understand is...do men really think this will impress women? i mean, come on. it's like saying: "i've slept with prettier women than you"

at least that's my meager opinion


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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:43:20 AM   
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I have always found the true value of a person lies within, whether they be male or female...to put an emphasis on the exterior physical attributes in any way shape or fashion without first and foremost finding out about the person inside is to demean both the other person and yourself. Just My humble opinion. Also it helps not being an adonis to find some wisdom heh. While it may be true that society has molded our thinking into the physically appealing being what first attracts someone, the internet has solved that in many aspects by allowing people to converse without seeing the other. One good thing about chat and emails. (chuckles)



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RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." - 5/14/2007 5:44:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well first of all, if I were to tell you I have fucked about every ugly hog witch that I have ever run across, you all would raise a cacophony of 'You SLUT, You Whore'  reverberating throughout the internet.  So maybe part of this is your belief system.

Secondly, and more seriously--P --- I wonder if the idea behind this is going hand and hand with all the studies that say women find more men desireable if they are with a pretty girl? (in other words, she finds him acceptable so, so do I thingie).


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