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trainedobedients -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/28/2007 4:26:15 PM)

Turn offs.
Physical: obese, smelly (and yes obesity does smell)
Mentally: dishonest, stupidity, sadism




bipolarber -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/28/2007 4:32:27 PM)

I wasn't going to add to this topic again, but after this week:

Ann Coulter. Christ, someone needs tape that bitch's mouth shut with a wadded up copy of the Bill of Rights and the Constitution shoved in it.  Major turn off. Please God, let her die in total obscurity.




SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/28/2007 4:36:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: trainedobedients

Turn offs.
Physical: obese, smelly (and yes obesity does smell)
Mentally: dishonest, stupidity, sadism


physical.....bad hygeine

mental......making moronic generalizations about fat folks, could also be called stupidity i guess




switchsecrets -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/28/2007 5:30:11 PM)


Turn offs.

Physical:   Bad choice in clothing for one's bodytype. eg.  spandex on somebody grossly overweight.  Bad perm styles eg. pubic perm haircut. overpowering bad perfume, B.O.


Mentally:  Overly snobby attitudes, hatred, narrow minded




flowered -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/28/2007 5:34:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHeart

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ORIGINAL: hereyesruponyou

i remembered the other one. i feel kinda bad about it, BUT

some accents. there are some places around maryland that have accents that make me insane, same with jersey/new york. sorry guys, it's not you, it's me, i admit it. I guess it evens out with the uk and carribean accents that make me wet


Eee by eck luv.... I hope my strong Lancashire accent is causing you great wetness...



Want to buy deep voiced male bulgarian accent to listen to.
Seriously, send me a recording ^^




krikket -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/28/2007 7:07:40 PM)

awwwwww...bet most would make an exception, just for You :)

cheers,
jimini

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

shit!!!!! I ain't gonna get me alotta girls out here then.

Ron




winterlight -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/30/2007 8:22:33 AM)

i am obese so i had my fears proved by this thread. Most ppl do not want a BBW sub and i can understand that. I am trying to lose weight for me!

Physical: bad grooming, chewing with mouth open, bad manners, rude to others, self absorbed, hates animals and kids, bad breath, emotionally cold, and stupidity,

Mental: i covered some of it above ^^ , verbally or physically abusive, i hate arrogant and mean ppl too....





AquaticSub -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/30/2007 1:21:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PrincessEllie

What are the top things physically that make you unattracted?

It really depends... bad clothing could be one I guess. If they don't carry their weight well or don't dress for their body type that is another.
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What are the mental things that turn you off to a person?


Refusing to continue learning. Thinking they are entitled or having a victim complex. Thinking they know everything. Of course the biggest turn off in the world to me is a man or woman who thinks they are superior to everyone.




AquaticSub -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/30/2007 1:25:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: winterlight

i am obese so i had my fears proved by this thread. Most ppl do not want a BBW sub and i can understand that. I am trying to lose weight for me!



There are also a lot of guys who don't care. Don't fret about it and figure out how to dress for your body! I'm 197 currently and my best friend is nearly 50 pounds heavier then me. Neither of us have ever had trouble getting into relationships and we generally get to have our pick. [:)]




curvyslavegirl -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/30/2007 1:31:38 PM)

I also think you're wrong winterlight :)
I've never had a problem finding partners and I'm quite large.
Perhaps its just that people who are attracted to a thread marked "turnoffs" are more likely to have hangups to bitch about!
Personally I've found that people who judge plumpness tend to have more self image issues than the plumpers they're offending.




DesertRat -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/30/2007 2:27:41 PM)

~fr~
Physical: Poor hygeine, bigger than me, lots of ink and/or piercings, excessive or artlessly applied makeup, long nails, untouchable hair.

Mental: drug/alcohol abuse, politically conservative, religiosity, willful ignorance, bigotry, hypocrisy, doesn't love animals, doesn't care about the environment, poor language skills, drama queen/victim/"me against the whole, fucked up world" types, no interest in intellectual pursuits, excessively intellectual....sheesh, this is all pretty subjective stuff and it's the blend more than the ingredients that's important to me. Most of what I've listed are pretty clear cut turnoffs for me, though.

Bob




SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/30/2007 2:41:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: winterlight

i am obese so i had my fears proved by this thread. Most ppl do not want a BBW sub and i can understand that. I am trying to lose weight for me!

Physical: bad grooming, chewing with mouth open, bad manners, rude to others, self absorbed, hates animals and kids, bad breath, emotionally cold, and stupidity,

Mental: i covered some of it above ^^ , verbally or physically abusive, i hate arrogant and mean ppl too....




hon, theres plenty of non fat subs who search for a long time too.......the odds of finding someone you click with are no worse for us fat chicks than for anyone else.......chemistry is a strange thing for all of us.....

i too am working on getting healthier and that will ultimately make me somewhat thinner, but please dont believe your body size defines who you are......good luck finding what you seek.




HornyToadsMI -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/30/2007 5:48:39 PM)

Physical...Body Hair and Chain Smokers!!!  Ugh!

Mental...asking me what I want you to do to me.  It turns my mind on, and I have a heck of a time turning it off.  Besides....who is the submissive here????




chellekitty -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/30/2007 6:19:55 PM)

Physical...someone who's sweat smells bad to me (infact thats a requisite, your sweat must smell good to me)...hygeine (esp if you have long hair...greasy unbrushed hair is not sexy in any book i've read) ...short men (just a preferance)...boobs that i have to check twice for on a femme (i like big boobs, sue me) (i am also attracted to cute little butch boi's who...never mind different post)...
Mental...Lying, closedmindedness, unwilling, unaccepting, trying to fix me, active drug use (if you're an addict, you must have your own recovery program, i have mine)...yelling, King Baby Syndrome, abusive...micromanagement
now where is my nice quiet Dominant that looks like Vin (who IS 6'2) and wants to torture my body in various delicious ways...ahh right, in fantasy land....
i think i hear my vibe calling
chelle




GhitaAmati -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/30/2007 7:20:05 PM)

drunk rednecks who chew tobacoo and spit against the wind...when yer standing next to them....




Trampler -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/30/2007 7:36:15 PM)

That happened to me once..............pretty nasty ain't it?




Level -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/30/2007 7:51:04 PM)

Has women with adam's apples been listed?




Feliw -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (6/30/2007 8:40:58 PM)

Physical: skinny, flat

Mental: close minded




becca333 -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 12:58:10 AM)

This thread is SO icking me out.




SubinMaine -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 5:32:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SeeksOnlyOne

quote:

ORIGINAL: trainedobedients

Turn offs.
Physical: obese, smelly (and yes obesity does smell)
Mentally: dishonest, stupidity, sadism


physical.....bad hygeine

mental......making moronic generalizations about fat folks, could also be called stupidity i guess

*applauds* if someone else hadn't have posted this, i would have...

For me:
physical: shorter than myself (in a male), bad hygeine
mental: indecisiveness, ignorance and dishonesty

*edited due to lagging caffeine level*




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