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velvetears -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 6:33:14 AM)

i will never understand the necessity or relevance of a thread thats only purpose is to point out the negative. 



SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 6:36:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati

drunk rednecks who chew tobacoo and spit against the wind...when yer standing next to them....


damn i didnt know my cousins would get mentioned on here[:)]



GhitaAmati -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 6:41:15 AM)

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drunk rednecks who chew tobacoo and spit against the wind...when yer standing next to them....
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That happened to me once..............pretty nasty ain't it?



Happened last night....and i was also drunk, so of course the talons came out (not really all that submissive when ive had a few) so im pretty sure i made it onto someone list of turn-offs too.

and to add to the obesity thread....i aint exactly the size 7 I used to be...i keep blaming it on having kids...but it worked alot better when they were only a few months old. We just celebrated my youngests 1st birthday party so im realizing that the excuse "i just had a baby, its ok that im overweight" isnt really working for me anymore.  I think alot of times, it isnt the obesity itself that is the turn off...its the self image of the person who's overweight. Being sexy isnt a size, its an image you present. Its hard, but its possible to learn how to dress for your figure, whatever you feel the flaw is, and to project self confidance. I also think alot of people expect overweight people and bad hygine to go hand and hand, and it doesnt have to. Someone up there commented that obese people smell. its not the weight itself that smells...americans on a whole smell (im not making this up..go overseas and ask someone)..its our diet. the food that we choose to eat changes our body odor...I will freely admit that I dont always make the best choices when it comes to diet, and I havent worked as hard as I probably could have to get rid of the weight from my last two pregnancies...but i do know that the food we choose to eat, not only effects our image, but our hygine as well.



Lucylastic -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 8:11:57 AM)

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aggressive drunks (nothing wrong with people being drunk as long as they dont behave like royal knob cheese),
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ORIGINAL: softness
Ewwwwwww just ewwwwwwwww theres a visual that will haunt me all day, lol thanks softness
physical turn off,
bad hygiene, having a dirty willy is  a hard limit .........RED I tell ya's, usually tho you get a hint of whats to come before you get to that point. I do love the clean sweat tho after a physical workout, sex, running, yard work, playing games, etc as long as I get to lick it all off.
mental turn offs,
automatic "superiority" due to gender, of any gender, small mindedness, maliciousness, vindictiveness, and mental midgets
Lucy







HalloweenWhite -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 8:33:32 AM)

Short, thin women with long blond hair. Apart from Anastacia



GhitaAmati -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 8:49:20 AM)

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and i was also drunk, so of course the talons came out (not really all that submissive when ive had a few) so im pretty sure i made it onto someone list of turn-offs too.
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aggressive drunks (nothing wrong with people being drunk as long as they dont behave like royal knob cheese),



See! I TOLD you I would make someone's list of turn-offs! Im so proud.



AquaticSub -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 9:38:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: velvetears

i will never understand the necessity or relevance of a thread thats only purpose is to point out the negative. 


Turn ons do tend to get discussed to death since everyone wants to know how to turn someone on. However, perhaps equally important as turning someone on is knowing how to avoid turning them off.

Besides, it's certainly better reading material then another sub v. slave thread. [:D]



winterlight -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 9:46:38 AM)

I hate smoking, drugs, and obnoxious people. People that think they are better than you.. i hate that one too!!



MercTech -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 10:21:16 AM)

My biggest turn off is a behavior... refusal to state an opinion followed by whining about the decision made...

A good example from my teen years....  a vanilla first date...
"Where should we go for dinner?"
   "Oh, anywhere you like.  I don't care."
"What kind of food are you in the mood for?"
   "Anything is fine with me."
"I hear that the new Mexican place on I-55 is really good."
   "I can't stand Mexican"
"My favorite place is the Jade Palace."
   "Chinese food makes me want to throw up."
.... later... at MacDonald's <barf>
"Is there a movie out you are interested in?"
   "Whatever you want to see."
"I'm debating between 'Wizards' and 'Clash of the Titans'.  Which sounds better to you?"
   "Animation is soooo juvie.  And who cares about old goddie gook?"

..... she received a lift home after finishing her big mac and I went to see "Wizards"

Stefan



GhitaAmati -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 11:23:07 AM)

oh gads I HATE when people do that....my husband is the biggest offender of doing that I know...but I still love him so I guess its not one of my biggest turn offs....



velvetears -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 11:31:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: velvetears

i will never understand the necessity or relevance of a thread thats only purpose is to point out the negative. 


Turn ons do tend to get discussed to death since everyone wants to know how to turn someone on. However, perhaps equally important as turning someone on is knowing how to avoid turning them off.

Besides, it's certainly better reading material then another sub v. slave thread. [:D]


That would have been a much better approach - discussing turn ons, this way when you read it you can have something to aspire to rather then something to feel bad about.  Some of the things that are turn offs mentioned are things that people have and can't help or change (at least overnight or easily) like obesity, for one example. 

But i do sooooooo agree not another sub vs slave debate [sm=ugh.gif]  [sm=banghead.gif]



TopinPa -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 12:33:23 PM)

Besides the obvious; hygiene, bad teeth, etc...
Bad communication skills is the biggest turn off for me



AquaticSub -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (7/1/2007 12:34:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: velvetears

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: velvetears

i will never understand the necessity or relevance of a thread thats only purpose is to point out the negative. 


Turn ons do tend to get discussed to death since everyone wants to know how to turn someone on. However, perhaps equally important as turning someone on is knowing how to avoid turning them off.

Besides, it's certainly better reading material then another sub v. slave thread. [:D]


That would have been a much better approach - discussing turn ons, this way when you read it you can have something to aspire to rather then something to feel bad about.  Some of the things that are turn offs mentioned are things that people have and can't help or change (at least overnight or easily) like obesity, for one example. 

But i do sooooooo agree not another sub vs slave debate [sm=ugh.gif]  [sm=banghead.gif]


But why discuss turn ons without the turn offs? Whenever people talk about sex, they talk about turn-ons. Finding out turns offs is just as important. So some people are turned off by my body - whatever. There are also a lot of people who are turned on my body.

Personally, I think it's a good thing if someone reads through this read and realizes that some subs are turned off by the "I AM YOUR MASTER BECAUSE I SAY SO! SUCK COCK NOW!". I'm sure other people think it's a good thing to point out that some people are turned off by weight. It may inspire those who can lose weight to hit the gym. I just think it's a good thing to realize that life isn't sunshine and roses and no matter who you are, your body is going to be both repulsive and incredibly sexy depending on who is viewing it.



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