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RE: What to say? - 5/15/2007 7:19:22 AM

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or is she opening a new market... "insert term" sub... I'll submit to you if you buy me a house, get me a job & while were at it... master needs one too..

That's one of the oldest markets around....in fact until only recently it was pretty much the sole respectable life for a female to have.

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RE: What to say? - 5/15/2007 7:53:54 AM

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permission to talk to others is one thing

I'm wondering if this owner was aware that his "slave" was engaging in conversations were suiters were wooing her with gifts, planning a life together, romance... falling in love

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She likes the idea, likes the second guy, and loves her owner.

For those of you who are still viewing this as an innocent mistake & she just needs to come forward & tell her master now... look at the above quote.... she knew what she was doing & I'm sure she has enjoyed every moment of stringing both these guys along.

my sniff-o-meter is pinging full alarm

I'm thinking the gal has potential of being a phenomenal "professional/financial/tribute/?" dominant... or is she opening a new market... "insert term" sub... I'll submit to you if you buy me a house, get me a job & while were at it... master needs one too..

Its not as if she lured him into this. As far as she went, it WAS just talking, he just took it further and she didn't know what to do. Her master was informed of new developments.

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RE: What to say? - 5/15/2007 8:02:27 AM

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The implied deceit is what gets me here. It seems that the first Master knows nothing of this. If he's really her Master, he should. It's then up to him how the secondary partner/Master would be involved.

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RE: What to say? - 5/15/2007 8:21:46 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

permission to talk to others is one thing

I'm wondering if this owner was aware that his "slave" was engaging in conversations were suiters were wooing her with gifts, planning a life together, romance... falling in love

quote:

She likes the idea, likes the second guy, and loves her owner.

For those of you who are still viewing this as an innocent mistake & she just needs to come forward & tell her master now... look at the above quote.... she knew what she was doing & I'm sure she has enjoyed every moment of stringing both these guys along.

my sniff-o-meter is pinging full alarm

I'm thinking the gal has potential of being a phenomenal "professional/financial/tribute/?" dominant... or is she opening a new market... "insert term" sub... I'll submit to you if you buy me a house, get me a job & while were at it... master needs one too..

Its not as if she lured him into this. As far as she went, it WAS just talking, he just took it further and she didn't know what to do. Her master was informed of new developments.

truly, its all relative

third hand depictions of another's personal interactions are never precisely translated...

But I'd still bet, she got off on having the attention of two men... & might just find herself without either since all of this seems to be online playing... it has not even been clearly expressed whether or not she has met either of these men. Like another already said earlier... it all sounds too good to be true & when something does sound too good to be true it usually isn't.

She isn't the only woman in the world to have some anonymous person make empty promises of setting her up in her own home, promise of job, promise of taking care of your every want, need, desire or even more grandiose offers ... wish I could loan out my trusty BS detector but it seems it is something you just have to earn on your own & you only get one after you wiped off the BS you find yourself standing in

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RE: What to say? - 5/15/2007 8:26:29 AM

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But I'd still bet, she got off on having the attention of two men...

I love attention from many men, that is not a flaw in and of itself, it is what one does about getting that attention that matters or what one does to get it.

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RE: What to say? - 5/15/2007 8:48:00 AM

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This is certainly an interesting situation.

It is difficult to come to conclusions which will fit the situation without knowing the "players". It seems also difficult to consider advice to those involved without making judgements, and I certainly do not have enough information to do that.

I know that in an open and honest relationship it can be just as possible for a submissive to be owned by two masters or mistresses as it is possible for a dominant to own multiple submissives. Not as common perhaps, but certainly possible.

I have been there.

Not enough information.

Possibly the submissive is trying to present dom # 2 to dom # 1? That could be another variation, with # 2 submitting to #1 and both dominating the sub?

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RE: What to say? - 5/16/2007 5:07:37 AM

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From experience...he sounds like a psycho.

Now, if he is not...i would tell Dom #2 that he needs to speak with my Master, and decide from Master's reaction whether to discuss it further.

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RE: What to say? - 5/16/2007 5:45:26 AM

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RE: What to say? - 5/16/2007 10:16:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

permission to talk to others is one thing

I'm wondering if this owner was aware that his "slave" was engaging in conversations were suiters were wooing her with gifts, planning a life together, romance... falling in love

quote:

She likes the idea, likes the second guy, and loves her owner.

For those of you who are still viewing this as an innocent mistake & she just needs to come forward & tell her master now... look at the above quote.... she knew what she was doing & I'm sure she has enjoyed every moment of stringing both these guys along.

my sniff-o-meter is pinging full alarm

I'm thinking the gal has potential of being a phenomenal "professional/financial/tribute/?" dominant... or is she opening a new market... "insert term" sub... I'll submit to you if you buy me a house, get me a job & while were at it... master needs one too..

Hello MstrssPassion. My 'innocence' meter just broke. She likes the 'idea'.RL

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RE: What to say? - 5/17/2007 9:47:22 AM

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Its not as if she lured him into this. As far as she went, it WAS just talking, he just took it further and she didn't know what to do. Her master was informed of new developments.

I've read this thread and I don't quite understand how she didn't know what to do. If you are not allowed to be intimate (physically, emotionally, etc) with another person then you say, "No thanks." If you are, you refer the person to your owner. I think its a complete cop out that she says she doesn't know what to do. It sounds like she doesn't want to do it.

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RE: What to say? - 5/17/2007 11:51:11 AM

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Yeah I think it kinda sounds hot.....if They worked together, that would be awesome.

My imagination is running so I'm going to stop typing.

I'd tell her to go for it.

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RE: What to say? - 5/17/2007 11:58:04 AM

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It is already 'out of order' from My perspective. The second male (He is not acting as a Dominant so I will not attribute the lable to him) should NOT be making 'offers' of ANY kind to an Owned girl. He should instead be speaking with the girls Owner DIRECTLY!

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