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stockingluvr54 -> OK Guys....our turn! (5/15/2007 8:13:17 AM)
Inspired by the "Outfits" thread below..... What do you like your Lady to wear? (for play or just everyday wear)... Lets hear it guys...what do you like? Personaly I'm not into any of the leather fetish type stuff. My fantasies revolve around a sharp dressed lady wearing buisness type outfits. CEO,librarian,secretary type outfits really do it for me. Of course garterbelt/stockings underneath. Any lingerie is good indoors too.....jmo

pixelslave -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/15/2007 11:32:28 AM)
stockingluvr, I'll start by saying that this thread is at a minimum, a disaster waiting to happen, if not a potential flamefest with ladies upset by men wanting them to be their "Barbie dolls" to play dress-up for them. That said, I'll go out on a limb and give you my response which will probably surpise you anyway. While it's true there are certain things I appreciate or that can particularly turn me on when a woman wears them (or if lucky, I help her put them on or take them off [;)]), what turns me on the most, is when a woman wears something that makes her feel beautiful and sexy in her own mind. Regardless of how much I think something looks really hot and sexy on her, if she doesn't feel the same, it's not going to have the same effect on her as it does me and just won't be the same. [>:] So the bottom line for me, is that I appreciate anything a woman wants to wear that makes her feel particularly beautiful and sexy. If it coincides with certain things that I also happen to have a "thing" for, so much the better! That's just icing on the cake! [8D] - pixel

mstrjx -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/15/2007 11:47:21 AM)
Well, not submissive, but I'll give this a whack (been studying you know). I think a Domme in zentai would be rather cool. Definitely not seen every day. Jeff

Politesub53 -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/15/2007 12:53:58 PM)
Anything Feminine works. There is a nice contrast between the Dominance and the softness. [;)]

igor2003 -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/15/2007 1:13:41 PM)
Kinky or vanilla, either way i like a woman that enjoys her femininity. If the only clothes she owns are blue jeans, t-shirts, and combat boots she probably won't be the woman for me. Not that there is anything wrong with blue jeans, t-shirts, and combat boots at appropriate times...just not ALL the time. And i know they can be a pain to wear, but ANY time they want to wear heels they will get my admiration, appreciation, and gratitude!

pixelslave -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/15/2007 1:50:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: igor2003 And i know they can be a pain to wear, but ANY time they want to wear heels they will get my admiration, appreciation, and gratitude! Aha! Another man with a foot fetish! [;)] Hrm... was I looking in the mirror or reading something? Eh, doesn't matter... Mistress loves having her feet worshipped. [8D] - pixel

stockingluvr54 -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/15/2007 3:08:22 PM)
Well Pixel....you CYA well on this thread ....lol I did hesitate some before I posted but then kept reminding myself that the Ladies are always saying how they want to know what we think on ALOT of different subjects, etc. I thought it was a harmless post that could even be fun? Also thought the Ladies might want to know what some of us like as far as dress? I certainly wouldn't expect or tell anyone how to dress but would surely offer up an opinion of what I'd like to see if asked. Personaly I have a gb/stocking fetish and if a Lady had any idea of the power that fetish has over me.... she could have me standing on my head stacking BB's for her and then doing backflips into the kitchen to fetch her something and loving it! In other words....just another way she'd have me by the balls so to speak. So I guess the way I see it is that the Lady that knows and cares what her sub may like can use that to her/our advantage? Not just limiting this to fetish/play but everyday life. Give and take. Don't want to start a pissin match and maybe I shot myself in the foot with this post... But that's just me......

slaveboyforyou -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/15/2007 4:03:27 PM)
It really depends on each individual woman. I do have an affinity for leather, especially a leather dress or a leather skirt with a corset. I also love high, leather, lace-up boots. It is absolutely yummy to kneel at a woman's feet and lace her boots up smiles. I should mention that I don't really care anything about high heels. I think Doc Marten's look absolutely gorgeous on a woman. But like I said, it really depends on the woman I am with. Everyone is different, and everyone has clothing that does or does not flatter them. I will say that I have never been a big fan of jeans on women. I don't really know why, but I have just never been all that fond of jeans. Business attire can be very attractive on a woman. It's always a treat to take your lunch downtown and watch women coming and going from office buildings dressed in their best. grins

Eldritchdancer -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/15/2007 6:50:33 PM)
My favored 'style' is Goth. However, I like a woman who dresses with taste. Period. Though I'd prefer she be comfortable as well. Master Darkmoon

undergroundsea -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/15/2007 8:53:07 PM)
I find shoes from the 90s and 2000s to be more attractive than shoes from the 80s. Cheers, Sea

Saint -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/16/2007 5:20:54 AM)
Hmm, for everyday wear I love to see a lady dressed in casual business attire. There is something sexy about a woman who dresses like that. For the kinky side of things, give me a full body black fishnet suit, black leather mini-skirt, black stilleto heels and a good matching corset. Combine that with self-confidence, drive and determination and you will have me drooling in my bowl.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/16/2007 5:28:42 AM)
as a sub, it is not my place to tell a Mistress what to wear or not to wear. The is Her choice.

Araven -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/16/2007 5:31:52 AM)
I'm going to have to echo some of the others here: Whatever she feels comfortable in and makes her happy. Though of course I have my own little wants and desires, which I'm going to gladly share, first and foremost I'de have to say comfort being important. With that out of the way, Anything black is incredibly sexy. Im a big fan of simple things: i like jeans, black tops. Black skirts.. mmm.. Theres something about the color black that just does it for me and makes me all swooney and want to kneel down and nuzzle into her and do whatever she asks!

MsKatHouston -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/16/2007 5:32:49 AM)
Of course it isn't. I think everyone here acknowledges that. But the boys are simply having some fun because really, everyone does have some preferences in this area. So we domly types look at this, smile, shake our head and proceed to wear whatever it is we please. :)

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/16/2007 5:54:50 AM)
that being the case, if i had a choice, i would have to say i'm a big fan of red leather/latex/lycra...red has always been my favorite color.

pixelslave -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/16/2007 5:07:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston the boys are simply having some fun because really, everyone does have some preferences in this area. So we domly types look at this, smile, shake our head and proceed to wear whatever it is we please. :) Indeed you ladies do! I suspect we'd all agree that's part of what makes you so much fun. [;)] That said, I'll bite and tell a bit of what I really like! While it's true that what's still most important to me is that a woman feel really good about herself in what she's wearing, I do have an appreciation for a few particular things besides a nice pair of open toed high heels and painted toenails (not to forget having her fingernails neatly done to match her toes too). [8D] One thing in particular is probably wearing nicely applied make up that's apropriate for where we're going or what we're planning to do. If dressing-up for a night out where it's not well lit or dressing at home to play, then perhaps wearing it a bit darker, where it accents & frames the eyes, making them look more dramatic is something I think is always nice along with some deeper, more-defined & less-blended blush gives a woman that stern, dominant & sexy look (like the make-up worn by the women in the Rober Palmer "Addicted to Love" video). I also have a thing for darker red to burgundy or plum colored lipsticks (depends on her complexion & what's appropriate for her skin). I like the way a woman can leave a trace of it whenever & wherever on me that she wishes, marking me as hers for all to see. [sm=tongue.gif] Corsets & lingerie? Of course! Whatever color & style that looks good on HER is great by me. Gotta admit, I do love Lace on many different garments. Lacy Bras with just the right amount of cleavage showing & pretty matching panties in a color that compliments her? Mmmm... down on my knees to help her put them on or take them off as the case may be! Leather can be very sexy and hot too when worn by a Domme! Regardless, it's still the woman that's in the outfit that pushes my buttons. [sm=lol.gif] Garters & silk stockings? Very nice for a night on the town and great to see afterward when things over them come off! They look real nice with corsets & such too! [8D] For sensual time together, gotta love those body stockings! IMO, very sexy and erotic! [;)] I also think the ladies look espcially nice when equipped with accessories such as when wearing strap-ons, carrying, chains, clips, ties, stretchers, scarves or other bondage devices intended for immediate use, or wielding whips and other toys they have in their mind to use for play (or just to tease me with the thought they might be used)! [8D] I'm sure there's more, but I'm also equally turned on just to see Mistress walk through the door when she comes to visit wearing the tight pants that show off her ass; the one that I kiss every chance that I get! [;)] - pixel

cloudboy -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/16/2007 9:17:01 PM)
I like my Mistress when she wears her glasses. She is buff in athletic wear as well. She looks spanking in jeans too. We don't do fetishwear in general, and that's fine with me. She also looks great in a posture collar. (When she's demoed it.)

Wickad -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/17/2007 12:33:45 AM)
(fast reply) So... we've had one thread on 'what Dominant women like to wear', one thread on 'what Dominant women like their boys to wear in order to accessorize what they are wearing', another thread on 'do any Dominant women like to dress in slippers and 'jammies' ' and finally a thread on 'what submissive men like to see a Dominant woman wear'. Interesting that the entire focus has been on what the Dominant women are wearing. Guess it says something for the mindset of those involved - lol. I wonder where the thread on what submissive men like to wear is? Wickad

HeavansKeeper -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/17/2007 1:31:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrjx Well, not submissive, but I'll give this a whack (been studying you know). I think a Domme in zentai would be rather cool. Definitely not seen every day. Jeff I've always imagined zentai to be dehumanizing (in a good way) but a very recent trend in my life made me see the Dom potential of it. I realized humanizing the Dom makes the submissive slave to something inhuman.

Politesub53 -> RE: OK Guys....our turn! (5/17/2007 2:51:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Wickad (fast reply) So... we've had one thread on 'what Dominant women like to wear', one thread on 'what Dominant women like their boys to wear in order to accessorize what they are wearing', another thread on 'do any Dominant women like to dress in slippers and 'jammies' ' and finally a thread on 'what submissive men like to see a Dominant woman wear'. Interesting that the entire focus has been on what the Dominant women are wearing. Guess it says something for the mindset of those involved - lol. I wonder where the thread on what submissive men like to wear is? Wickad We get told what to wear Maam..... End of thread [:D] Being serious, i love to wear whatever a Mistress enjoys seing me in. [;)]

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