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RE: Anal - 5/13/2005 11:10:46 AM

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Depending on how open you can be with your master, I would recomend asking permision to to guide him in (controling the angle and rate of penetration), at least for the first couple times. I found that it takes a couple tries to find the right angle, then it's pretty painless (given enough lube) and once the fear is gone it usually goes very well. Definately foreplay helps in this area too whether oral or massage. We've never had a problem with mess so I can't help with that.

I've never had problems with angles with more experienced (sexually) Masters- but with younger, more inexperienced men, it can be a bit rough- I've found that if I try to move to let him know where he SHOULD be putting it, he just assumes I'm trying to escape and goes back to what he was doing (wrong) before. So, verbal communication is definitely key.

angles
rate
lube
guiding the cock
escaping the inevitable enjoyment
experienced men or inexperienced

ah yessss...all are factors.
but one thing...even experienced ass users lack is the knowledge of the anatomy of a girl...
the distance between ass bud and wet pussy differs in all of us .... i speak freely as an experienced love to get a good ass pounding girl and nurse....

Most men dont realize that while one girl has her ass and soaking wet lips one inch apart another might be 2 inches.... and if the postion of the waiting ass is not correct, no matter the angle or lube, that cockflesh will just not go where its supposed to go unless the owner of the cock pays attention !!

my ass has on several occasions has been used on cocks with virgin ass use and i love telling them.....
use my pussy for lube
find my ass bud
rim it with your flesh
then slowly insert and find the correct angle for "us"
and use at your will

on other occasions ...i think expereinced men in their haste just need it so bad they fucking try to give me a new assbud!

so i slip my hand up trying to not screech in pain, giggle as i sexily say... "here goes"...my hand guiding the hard rodflesh to its devinely appointed place ...

viola......

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RE: Anal - 5/13/2005 11:24:26 AM

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Lots of great suggestions!
Mine would be:
try playing with your fingers and lube, focus on feeling the rim, if you are really experimental try oral rimming (but definitely not for the faint of heart)...
the sensation is going to be centered around the sphincter muscle when you do it.
work up to toys, think about your Master spreading you and being his to fill...he'll be so proud ;)
then when the time has 'cum' so to speak, have some baby wipes beside the area, for quick clean up or tissues for the condom... if you are super-concerned about that try the enemas or at least a bm prior to and some bidet type cleansing the exterior... if he's ever done anal he'll understand! goes w/the territory.
be prepared for the pain...im not going to lie to you...you need to work out a system to say, slow down, slower, ok, little more, back up, wait, hold on, ok again, etc.
If it embarrasses you to just say those things then develop safety words! Or moan like a banshee and pray he speaks that language...
all in all, anal is wonderful to receive and for some a real turn on if you work out the 'kinks' ;)
best wishes
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banshee speaker here.....
this was such a sweet post

and so true altho i love the mess of cum

i am not an enema user never will be...but if i know use of my ass is coming up and i have not had my regular constitutional, i will use a laxative to empty out my entire bowel. the main reason is ... an enema cleans out only a certain amount if anything at all...but pressure from a large cock will automatically make counterpressure (just normal pathophysiology to a foreign object) forcing unwanted bowel contents down and a mess of the unpleant kind or noises that can be grossly embarassing...i laugh as i write!!

TMI ?? LOLOL

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RE: Anal - 5/15/2005 11:58:31 AM

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the first time i experinced it i loved it, and it did hurt but in a really good way, and not too much after a while. even 'suggested' that he thrust a little harder!

however, the 2nd time i just couldn't do it, finger was ok, but the other was impossible, never hurt so bad! the answer: i was drunk to all fuck the first time, and completely sober the 2nd! could be the answer...

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RE: Anal - 5/17/2005 9:00:41 AM

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Just posing another question here:

Does anyone here who have anal sex have any sort of problems with their colon/bowel movements etc.?

I have always had serious problems with my business down there and I have a really queasy stomach. Anything will give me diarrhea. I was just wondering if anyone had problems with that.

I am not nervous about anal sex in the sense of it being "forbidden" or anything like that, I am just concerned about the problems I know I already have. I figured we'd start with some playing around and see what happens... but... ooh seriously... even thinking about the physical/medical and afteraspects turns my stomach all around...

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RE: Anal - 5/17/2005 10:50:10 AM

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sometimes i enjoy anal so very much and other times it hurts like a bitch!! lol
my Master uses it often and i just try and relax, although that's hard to do at times, the thing is getting through the initial penetration each time, which always hurts most and then once that's over with it does get a little bit easier as it relaxes a bit.

Just remember you are doing this for him and even if you have to endure the pain for a while it is something which gives him pleasure, so just keep that in mind. That's what i try and keep in mind each time...i don't know when that will get easier but i have been used anally quite a bit by my Master and like i said, it still hurts at times very much so.

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RE: Anal - 5/17/2005 2:51:58 PM

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I have had Irritable Bowel Syndrome since I was 13 years old, suffer from Diverticulosis, hemerrhoids & am recovering from having a Bowel Resection done & have just started having anal sex with Sir in the last month with no problems and love it. I have found that I usually have a bout of diarrhea about an hour or so afterwards but that's about it. I cannot use an enema because it triggers many bouts of diarrhea so that's not an option for me. But just take it easy and relax as much as possible, if you're worried put down a plastic cloth and towel in case there's an accident. Good luck & I hope you enjoy it as much as I have come to.

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