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RE: so new and so confused...as a sub - 5/17/2007 7:36:01 PM   
MagiksSlave


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ORIGINAL: slaveish

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

((nods)) and im failing to see why people havent said anything about that, they are all running to her aid telling her how bad this "Master" is but no one is saying that the Op isnt much better for her part in all of this or that the right and moral thing to do (In my opinion) would be to get out and tell him you arent interested in helping him cheat!!


Because it's not an issue for everyone. We don't all have the same moral makeup. What's ok to me might well be poison to you, and vice versa. I, for example, don't know why you felt compelled to attack this girl from the pulpit. Such ... ~anger~ ... flung toward someone you do not know, speaking about a situation with which you are uninvolved, puzzles me.

The girl is obviously in pain enough already. Truth (as you see it) spoken with compassion will further your cause with greater speed than will words of venemous disdain.


I  dont have any anger twords the girl I just dont think we should over look that the pain she is in is entirly of her own makeing!! She KNOWS he has a girlfriend it isnt like she didnt know he was attached. I didnt feel the need to suger coat anything when it comes to a situation like this. I said what I felt needed to be said i dont know how to have said it nicer there is no nicer way then to just be blunt at this point!

Magik's slave

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RE: so new and so confused...as a sub - 5/18/2007 1:39:07 AM   
Lordskitten


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ORIGINAL: subdie

guess i dontknow how to ditch him.....



Simply tell him you aren't willing to change as much as he requires, that your content being yourself and that you hope he finds that 'perfection' again at some point.  Then ignore further contact from him.

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