I take it we saw the same programme? The one with Esther? I actually took away alot more positive view from the programme about death and am now no longer afraid of dying if I was a cancer patient definately. I know there was reports on the negative aspects of some of the care homes and hospices, but on the whole, I found the programme incredibly moving and affirming. I already know how I wish my funeral to go should Darcy be in agreement - there is a wonderful 'natural' graveyard close to where he lives and I am hoping they will pop up more and more (I hope to hang around a bit longer yet!) where everything is natural - no horrid gravestones or memorials, just everything rots into the soil so no huge caskets and stone. Just simple recycling coffins or cremations with a simple wooden cross or seat and unmarked graves. It is absolutely amazing to wander around and is an incredibly calm place... (Darcy took some amazing photographs of the area). You aren;t even sure when you are walking on a old grave, let alone anything else. Assisted death can be a choice, but with the correct healthcare and loving family it isn't as painful or as scarey as first imagined. I never saw responsible medical staff in this programme letting the patients who were passing suffer. Although there was a distinct gap between cancer and terminal patients. The most important thing for people to discuss is the living wills, the death itself and the after thoughts. I really don't want a wake - I would rather a celebration. Peace
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