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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 5/23/2007 1:22:51 PM

LordVelvet

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None of the 14 tattoo's that I have "burned". Each had it's unique experience depending on the day, and placement. I go tomorrow to finish a piece from My waist to My under arm and about 10" wide. This one was the most painful by far as the ribs seem to get Me this time. The otherside was better. Don't know why just is. I don't get them for others, I get them for Me.

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/21/2007 7:55:32 AM

egghead

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Why not get a semi permanent tat? I hear you can get ones that last up to three months.

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/21/2007 1:36:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

i didn't realise that getting a tattoo would hurt "like a cigarette burn" or that it wouldn't look the same in a few years' time. TY for telling me; i'm no longer interested in a tattoo.

If i can afford it i may get my ears double pierced; and i think i want the 2nd piercings at the tips (tops) of my ears, just to be a lil different. This does require some thought, as it has been my experience that ear piercings do not close if you just take out the earrings.

TY for all the great advice.

I'm not too sure about "hurts like a cigarette burn", though getting tattooed certainly does involve some pain. This can vary depending upon the area of the body, one's pain tolerance, and one's personal padding.

When I had my upper arms done, only my ass hurt...from sitting still for a couple of hours at a time. The work on my back, especially the lower back, was more painful...but not unbearable.

As for the whole "blank canvas" waiting for the "One" thing...it is entirely possible, for any number of reasons, that a person may never meet that person. If there is a tattoo that would have significant personal meaning for you, I'd say "go for it".

I haven't for a minute regretted getting mine. They mean something to me and always will; I could not imagine, as a single uncommitted person, waiting for permission from someone who might not even exist.

However, if you are just considering a tattoo, have not been "grabbed" by something that speaks to you, and are just generally unsure...DON'T do it! One has to be totally sure about getting any tattoo.

And yes...tattoos will change over time. As the body's skin ages and loses its elasticity or gets wrinkles, tattoos will follow. The vibrancy of colours can also fade in time, especially if exposed to a lot of sunlight. Colours can be touched up, if one feels the need.

Tasha

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/21/2007 1:56:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

i didn't realise that getting a tattoo would hurt "like a cigarette burn" or that it wouldn't look the same in a few years' time. TY for telling me; i'm no longer interested in a tattoo.

I have a very large tattoo and it didn't hurt like a cigarette burn. It hurt, but not like a burn at all. With a burn there is a lot of residual pain after, with the tattoo there was almost none. All pain feels different. When compared to a sharp smack the tattoo hurt less, however it went on for an hour with no respite, a constant pain that begins to dull in intensity, my artist kept pulling me out of subspace to make sure I was ok.

Inks today are very different to what they were 20 years ago. I see older tattoos that are just dull shades of blue, but nowadays if you take care of your skin (don't sunbake) the colour and vibrancy remains intact much longer.

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/21/2007 2:33:08 PM

hisannabelle

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greetings pinksugarsub,

as others have mentioned, it's your body. both of the tattoos i now have, i got when i was with my current master, but i didn't necessarily have to have his permission to get them (he likes me to let him know if i'm considering a body mod, but he's not really strict about what i can and can't do with my body and he doesn't think it has to be his "blank canvas" or what have you) and they aren't his marks. i will be getting one tattoo that is his mark and one that he wants me to get that we both like, but i mostly got my tattoos and piercings for myself. i think it's perfectly acceptable to do so. i'm up front with potential dates or play partners, and would be if there is a potentiality of a relationship, about the fact that i like tattoos and piercings, i have them, and i plan on getting more. to me it's a compatibility issue - if someone doesn't like that about me, i'm not the right partner for them.

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/21/2007 2:35:51 PM

hisannabelle

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

i didn't realise that getting a tattoo would hurt "like a cigarette burn" or that it wouldn't look the same in a few years' time. TY for telling me; i'm no longer interested in a tattoo.

tattoos did not hurt like a cigarette burn (and yes, i have felt a cigarette burn) for me personally. it will depend quite a bit on you, how well and in what ways you can take/experience pain, and what parts of the body and the size and layout of the tattoo in terms of how it feels. i have one tattoo on my stomach and one tattoo on my lower back, and both are different sizes, shapes, and styles of outlining/coloring, and both felt very different. so i would keep that in mind when making your decision - someone else's experience of the pain of a tattoo will be totally different from yours, and yours may differ depending on the tattoo and location.

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annabelle.

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/21/2007 2:36:11 PM

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my tat is 11 years old and looks pretty much exactly the same as it did when it was new, and I didnt find it burned either.
OP know your own mind if body mod is you then do it, if it isnt you then dont, and quite honestly I dont think that should change becuase of the whim of another person who may or may not appear in your life and who may or may not stay in your life.

Your body, your choice and your ideal parrtner will accept you as you are

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/21/2007 3:16:13 PM

jesiul

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I have two tattoo’s the one on my lower back was done for its beauty only, the one on my upper right thigh is of a unicorn, which I had done while attending my oldest son’s graduation from AIT last year. My oldest son and I got tattoo’s together both where our second ones.

The tat on my lower back only hurt when being filled in close to the spine, the one on my thigh didn’t hurt at all. As a business woman I chose places, both can not be seen unless I wish to show them.

The tattoos are something I had wanted for some time, I waited and the urge never went away. I am delighted I have them, and should any future Dominant I become involved with not wish for me to have another tattoo, I will always have these. As it currently stands I am thinking of a third tat and most likely have it soon.

In my experience owning who I am, is part of being able to let another have control of me, I would never live my life with future expectations of what some Dom may not like. Besides if he likes me, then he will like the fact that I have owned me and lived fully.

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/21/2007 4:31:14 PM

eevin

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i have the borrean slave mark tattooed on the inside of my thigh. i spent years wanting to get it done, as a respresentation of my submissiveness, but it wasn't until i spent time with my brother (who has multiple piercings, rings i his ear lobs, and knew a good place where i didn't have to worry about going in to) that i finally had it done.

But as others have said, its your body at the moment. And if the Person you choose to be with doesn't like it, then so be it.

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/21/2007 5:43:43 PM

Rayne58

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I had two tattoos when I met Sir. They were done for me and each has a special meaning. I also have 5 ear piercings (2 in each lobe and 1 cartilage).

Since we've been together I had my belly button pierced (which migrated out after about 18 months and I haven't bothered to get it done again) and another tattoo. It is not His mark, it is a tribal Kiwi which represents my NZ heritage. He likes tattoos and will not mind if I get more. He is a cleanskin, because He said He never found anything He liked enough to get inked (and He won't now because of His health issues).

To the OP: You are your own person right now, your body belongs to you. I say do whatever you like - if a potential Dom does not like it then he is probably not the one for you. Sir loves me no matter what is inked or pierced on me

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/21/2007 8:33:53 PM

eevin

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my sepplnig is terrable tonight. i had meant Gorean before.

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/21/2007 9:38:03 PM

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I wouldn't consider you a good candidate for any of this craziness!
Maybe a tattoo across your knuckles, "Home Girl"

Missy.

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/22/2007 1:26:30 AM

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with 12 tattoos, 4 facial piercings (all in my lips), 2 cuttings and 1 brand (that shows, 2 in the past that have faded to non-existance...and yes that is burning a design into the skin....the pain is a lot more intense but lasts a fraction of the time)...i have not had any problem with potential Dominants and my body modifications...if they have a problem with them, they have a problem with me...actually, the most common reaction is those are hot or pretty or cool or "she has a nice ass" or "where did you get that done"...i decorated my temple...i have no problem with them adding decorations, but i wasn't going to sit here with a blank canvas waiting for the master-designer to come along...i can find my own artists...but then again i feel body mods should be for the person they are being put upon...i mean, just ask any tattoo artist how many times they have covered up an ex's name...and i will tell other people i feel that way about their potential tattoo, solicited or otherwise...it is up to them to take it into consideration or to blow me off...it is usually a case of "if what i say bothers you so much, why does it bother you?"

anywho...good luck...be sure of what you want before you get it, very hard to undo....if you are unsure of the process, start with something small that you are extremely sure of....

chelle

edited to add: duh! i just remembered...they can also tattoo without ink, so you can feel what it feels like and it leaves a semi-permanent mark, akin to a shallow cutting....depends on how you heal....if you like it and the process, they can go over it with ink once the skin heals, and if you don't, it will most likely go away (unless you scar really easily)....neosporin and mederma will speed the process up

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/22/2007 8:51:15 AM

mhawk

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i think it's a matter of wether the pericings or tattoos are something that are directed by an Owner or if they are all on a personal level.

i have several tattoos and am peirced as well on my own.i have yet to be tattooed or peirced by an Owner although that is something that is being considered.

in Their own way my Lord and my Mistress were thrilled that i was already coming to them peirced and have no issue that i have so many tattoos already adn are aware i want more.

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/22/2007 1:45:41 PM

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Hi - I suggest getting your ears pierced - maybe a Dom will notice your pierceing and be attracted to you and they have more pierceing for done to you as a reward - terri

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/22/2007 2:04:48 PM

KyttynTheMynx

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I have 7 piercings, and one tattoo. The guys I have encountered and even the one I was most recently owned by, all either loved the piercings, or just accepted the fact that they were there, for the simple fact that who I am as a person was MORE important.

If you are still considering your first tat, it kinda feels like a bee sting until you get used to it. The only burning sensation you get is after, and it more or less feels like you have a fever, or sunburn in one part of your body. I do suggest one with a very special meaning, and definitely not one that you and 100 of your closest friends have, and nothing that interferes with employment. Other than that, HAVE FUN, GOOD LUCK, HAPPY INKING and let us know what ya decide on!

Warning: Tattoos and piercings do become addictive...

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/23/2007 12:25:47 AM

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It's your body...do what you want. If they don't like what you've done, they're not the right person for you. It's not up to you to please every Dom out there. Besides SOME of us LIKE piercings and tats.

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/23/2007 2:49:04 PM

backseatbebe

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wow im in a lot of trouble

hides all markings

shit theres too many

quick everyone stand around me maybe "they" wont notice!!!

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/23/2007 3:24:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

i didn't realise that getting a tattoo would hurt "like a cigarette burn" or that it wouldn't look the same in a few years' time. TY for telling me; i'm no longer interested in a tattoo.

If i can afford it i may get my ears double pierced; and i think i want the 2nd piercings at the tips (tops) of my ears, just to be a lil different. This does require some thought, as it has been my experience that ear piercings do not close if you just take out the earrings.

TY for all the great advice.

Depends. Go talk to a professional.

Great advice there LA! Remember ones cigarette burn is anothers feather :)! Just be you, and who you are pss, thats the hardest part sometime!
Cheers,
ivy

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RE: Tattoos or Piercings for Uncollared ppl - 12/23/2007 10:44:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

i have been debating getting a tattoo and maybe piercings (in my ears). However, i have spoken to Doms who want a "blank canvas"; usually because they want Their mark to be the only one (or cause They dun like tattoos or piercings).

anyone got advice?

My advice?

Do what makes you happy. If the punk "more metal in your face than teeth in your mouth" look makes you happy, go for it. And it will attract exactly the kind of dominant who going to love it and want to add to it.

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