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LadyPact -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 12:28:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Faramir quote: ORIGINAL: happypervert Maybe it's because you haven't been courteous enough to include a cock pic with your note. There is no reason for them to show interest if you don't give them somethng to be interested in. No see, that's good, concrete advice. Mr. crimsontied I hope you are taking notes here!! Ok, it's not nice to make a Domme fall out of Her chair from laughing. However, it's more entertaining that the weekly complaint about not getting responses to emails.

MagiksSlave -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 12:36:16 PM)
How can you even compare not responded to you a stranger to not beeing able to obay r/l??? When I was single I treid to reply to all my mail but sometimes I got to much so I just ignored the ones I wasnt interested in because there was NO time to send a message to all the poeple and well no repsonce is a responce!! Yet suprise suprise I have no trouble obaying Master!! You cant say that because someone a stranger doesnt obay and respond when you tell them to that they cant expect to be able to obay r/l. Come on they dont owe you shit and arent obligated in any way shape or form to obay you.. that doesnt compare with a sub/slave who is owned and has chosen to obay someone real time difference is the consent to obay. No one consented to obay you and there for the conection you have made is based on nothing. Magik's slave

windchymes -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 12:39:10 PM)
To the OP, because when you have to ASK someone to reply to you (or demand, however you worded it), even though it's implied in any email you send that a reply is somewhat expected, it makes you look even more desperate and therefore, less appealing. Few subs want to serve a desperate dom.

SimplyMichael -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 12:45:18 PM)
Crimson, I hear you buddy! When I ask the little whores for their bank account number and their pin, I almost never hear back from them either. Its like when I buy some cunt a drink at a bar and she gets pissy when I cop a feel, I mean why the fuck does she think I bought her a drink? Women are such pieces of shit, they don't recognize how lucky they are men like y ou exist!

OsideGirl -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 1:35:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crimsontied4u If they cannot reply with an answer how can they expect to obey in RL??? I'm still trying to figure out how these two things are connected, because the two have nothing to do with each other. And by the way...expecting a stranger to obey you is an unrealistic expectation and would have earned you a "fuck off" reply from me.

Calandra -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 2:21:38 PM)
I've read your profile... You make a loy of sexual demands. You make a lot of physical demands. You fail to tell a prospective sub/slave what YOU offer. You fail to offer a picture of yourself. You sound like you are condescending to accept a sub/slave who matches your criteria when in all probability YOU would be very lucky to get the exact one you describe - God! Your ideal sub/slave is suspiciously similar to every one else's ideal sub/slave... In fact, the visual description appears on the cover of Cosmo every week! Put yourself in a woman's shoes and consider if perhaps your profile and your approach needs work...? If you had a deep need to serve, would you want to serve you???

Faramir -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 2:32:10 PM)
The crazy thing about all these "Why do people do things things I don't wike??? WAHHHHH!!" threads, is how they make the person look like an utter douche. They are all prima facie absurd, but still the person posting thinks they will somehow receive commiseration, sympathy, sympathy fucks--in someway be gratified.

DrkJourney -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 2:37:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Crimson, I hear you buddy! When I ask the little whores for their bank account number and their pin, I almost never hear back from them either. Its like when I buy some cunt a drink at a bar and she gets pissy when I cop a feel, I mean why the fuck does she think I bought her a drink? Women are such pieces of shit, they don't recognize how lucky they are men like y ou exist! [sm=biggrin.gif]omg you're killin' me....lol

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 2:41:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crimsontied4u I have noticed that when I contact a potential sub/slave for the first time,and ask them to acknowledge the message with a reply,that is the last time I have contact with 99% of them!!! If they cannot reply with an answer how can they expect to obey in RL??? Quick hint, if they dont reply, it probably means tey arent interested. Therefore iin RL they WOULDNT be obeying you. Kind of explains itself there. You cant expect them to obey. Submissives and slaves dont obey everyone with a Dominant title just becasue you have a title. Honestly, if I were a sub and someone emailed me with a demand in the first contact, I wouldnt reply either. They may be submissive, but you still have to impress them. DV

DrkJourney -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 2:46:45 PM)
To the OP....When someone wastes time on adding a paragraph on how I need to respond to them and how rude it is not to write back, I usually do one of these two things.....If life has got me by the nipples that week and I'm snowed under between work and the emails here....I delete them, I save the precious time that I have for those that don't insult me.....if I do have time to respond I write them a little note telling them if I was interested or not...then I tell them because of their last little "zinger" I don't think it would work out. One guy just recently wrote a beautiful long email...but the last two "paragraphs" were all about how I need to contact him and how rude it is not to contact people back and yadda yadda yadda Apparently this guy doesn't think I'm special and has lumped me in with everyone else on earth and made assumptions, which I don't like. Apparently, he's already labeled me as rude or he wouldn't have written that demand. Just write me a nice email, and give me a chance before you just assume I"m going to "dick" you over. Just saying "think" before you push the send button... also, I see a lot of posts with a lot of good advice...yet I haven't seen YOU respond back as of yet....hmmmmmmm

LadyPact -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 2:47:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DrkJourney quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Crimson, I hear you buddy! When I ask the little whores for their bank account number and their pin, I almost never hear back from them either. Its like when I buy some cunt a drink at a bar and she gets pissy when I cop a feel, I mean why the fuck does she think I bought her a drink? Women are such pieces of shit, they don't recognize how lucky they are men like y ou exist! [sm=biggrin.gif]omg you're killin' me....lol Thank you for another laugh on the same topic. Is the horse dead now so someone else can complain about it next week?

MasterFatePgh -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 3:01:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Crimson, I hear you buddy! When I ask the little whores for their bank account number and their pin, I almost never hear back from them either. Its like when I buy some cunt a drink at a bar and she gets pissy when I cop a feel, I mean why the fuck does she think I bought her a drink? This is just another glaring example of putting the cart before the horse......Everyone knows you should cop a feel BEFORE you buy the ho a drink and ask for bank account information AFTER shes drunk! Get it right guys.

maybemaybenot -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 3:15:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterFatePgh This is just another glaring example of putting the cart before the horse......Everyone knows you should cop a feel BEFORE you buy the ho a drink and ask for bank account information AFTER shes drunk! Get it right guys. yea, but.. do not forgo the cock pics. The more the better and we like different angles, lighting, decorations and states of arousal. mbmbn

crimsontied4u -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 3:24:01 PM)
Ok Ok, Let's put a lid on this one,everybody has their own take on the situation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Make room for someone else!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DrkJourney -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 3:26:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterFatePgh quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Crimson, I hear you buddy! When I ask the little whores for their bank account number and their pin, I almost never hear back from them either. Its like when I buy some cunt a drink at a bar and she gets pissy when I cop a feel, I mean why the fuck does she think I bought her a drink? This is just another glaring example of putting the cart before the horse......Everyone knows you should cop a feel BEFORE you buy the ho a drink and ask for bank account information AFTER shes drunk! Get it right guys. hmmm...wonder if this works for the females too....well..it is Friday ....need to hit a few bars and try out this theory....you won't hear back from me if it works....I'll be too rich and won't have time for collarme any longer..lol...[sm=banana.gif]

KeirasSecret -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 3:27:13 PM)
ask them to acknowledge the message with a reply Perhaps it is the way you are "asking" them to acknowledge the message with a reply? If you come across as pushy, it will tend to invoke a response of "Who in hell do you think you are!" If your intent is not to put some sort of demand on someone you have no control over, try a different aproach. If you do beleive you have some claim, and they do not respond to that, then they are not what you are looking for. I'm guessing; there aren't many that go for the later. k

DrkJourney -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 3:27:48 PM)
sorry crimson...couldn't resist.....lol

MstrssPassion -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 3:37:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crimsontied4u Ok Ok, Let's put a lid on this one,everybody has their own take on the situation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Make room for someone else!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What, now you expect the rest of us to obey your demands?

Kinkypupper -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 5:20:49 PM)
There are a lot more wanna be Doms here then subs. so the subs that have a good ad or are inthe physically desirable category or or or... get a LOT of emails. What you need to do iscreate-edit your ad and email to perk their interest in even replying

mnottertail -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 5:28:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kinkypupper There are a lot more wanna be Doms here then subs. so the subs that have a good ad or are inthe physically desirable category or or or... get a LOT of emails. What you need to do iscreate-edit your ad and email to perk their interest in even replying No, it is more that there are alot more women here with tits and ass then men--- a woman can say I am new to this but I have fantasy and I want a man to whip my ass and paint my pussy purple and he must have 30 years experience but must be 30 handsome and loaded, and it is counted as righteousness to a woman, for a man less than that ilk --- he is a 'wannabe', 'fake' 'unTwue'...and they can do it because they got the mouth. Other than that it is the same old dance forever. Ron

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