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catize -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 6:06:16 PM)
quote: hmmm...wonder if this works for the females too....well..it is Friday ....need to hit a few bars and try out this theory....you won't hear back from me if it works....I'll be too rich and won't have time for collarme any longer..lol ~laughs~ Just cop a feel and they’ll give you their wallet and credit cards without being asked!

pinksugarsub -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 6:08:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crimsontied4u I have noticed that when I contact a potential sub/slave for the first time,and ask them to acknowledge the message with a reply,that is the last time I have contact with 99% of them!!! If they cannot reply with an answer how can they expect to obey in RL??? Two questions: how many times/how fast are W/we gonna recycle this topic? And: Why does a nonresponse send any Domly One into a fit of hysteria?

mnottertail -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 6:16:50 PM)
Well, really I am going to take CK1's side somewhat. He didn't whine and ask rhetorical questions with the oh, poor me and I am a confused piece of shit kinda thing going on--- And men---- Men don't even fucking compare to you sinister bitches out here--- Albiet, this thread ain't gonna get him alotta girls as was intimated right off. i know my is and es are backwards, but I gotta tell you I come first in all dealings anyway. Ron

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 7:05:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub Two questions: how many times/how fast are W/we gonna recycle this topic? And: Why does a nonresponse send any Domly One into a fit of hysteria? You really aren't one to talk about repeating topics over and over- you've complained plenty about "why do I keep getting these icky responses" yourself- this is just another version of that.

dcnovice -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/18/2007 8:16:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Faramir quote: ORIGINAL: crimsontied4u I have noticed that when I contact a potential sub/slave for the first time,and ask them to acknowledge the message with a reply,that is the last time I have contact with 99% of them!!! If they cannot reply with an answer how can they expect to obey in RL??? Hmmm, that's strange. I'd estimate about 80% of the women I write to here respond back, even if it is only to say they appreciated the interest but I wasn't their bag. Isn't that odd--I wonder why you and I have almost exactly opposite experiences??? I wonder if the photo makes a difference.

Celeste43 -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/19/2007 10:27:59 AM)
You're viewing it wrong, op. If the women you contact don't respond and you view responding to uninvited email as an indicator of their ability to submit, then you can safely decide that the nonresponders are not compatible with you and you can concentrate on more compatible types. In other words, they've saved you all the trouble of meeting for coffee, dating and then announcing you don't fit. Of course, by whining about people who don't know you are refusing to submit to you, you've saved them an equal amount of time because any of them who have read this thread already know they aren't compatible with you and are grateful they didn't respond.

Noah -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/19/2007 10:48:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Celeste43 ... If the women you contact don't respond and you view responding to uninvited email as an indicator of their ability to submit, then you can safely decide that the nonresponders are not compatible with you and you can concentrate on more compatible types. Girls who can think things through are hot, yo.

tade -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/19/2007 11:19:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub Two questions: how many times/how fast are W/we gonna recycle this topic? And: Why does a nonresponse send any Domly One into a fit of hysteria? Well... One. If we did that then people would not be able to post the same answers as the 3 posters above them, and no ones post count gets inflated that way. Original thoughts are oh so rare now-a-days. And Two, because 7 out of 10 "Dominants" around these parts are just horny boys lurking for a doormat and trying to bed the first 10 they find. And it's Domly fit of hysteria... Get it right. lol

tade -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/19/2007 11:21:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Noah Girls who can think things through are hot, yo Aren't they though. For once we are in complete agreement and I got 2 posts for the price of one...

Aileen68 -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/19/2007 11:31:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Noah Girls who can think things through are hot, yo. Huh?

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/19/2007 10:38:38 PM)
You would think that they would get the 'no reply = no thanks' I do try to be nice and reply... But when the letter says "i from istanbul and slave always please take me now" I dont bother with anything except the block sender button.

RavenMuse -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/20/2007 8:05:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crimsontied4u I have noticed that when I contact a potential sub/slave for the first time,and ask them to acknowledge the message with a reply,that is the last time I have contact with 99% of them!!! If they cannot reply with an answer how can they expect to obey in RL??? Right. Now sit at the computer and mail every girl you have sent a mail to and not got a reply to, take time to compose a heartfelt appology for making assumptions about them. What do you mean that you don't have to do what I just TOLD you to do? Is it because I don't own your ass? Oh guess what... you don't own THEIR ass either and likewise until they have submitted to you, they owe you NOTHING!

ImABigGirlNow -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/20/2007 8:23:42 AM)
RavenMuse--- Thank you, thank you, thank you. girl

Viridana -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/20/2007 9:43:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crimsontied4u I have noticed that when I contact a potential sub/slave for the first time,and ask them to acknowledge the message with a reply,that is the last time I have contact with 99% of them!!! If they cannot reply with an answer how can they expect to obey in RL??? Being a female, the amount of email received is considerable. And giving a "no thanks" email shouldn't be that hard to do BUT there's a twist here... 99% of my sent "no thanks" emails are replied with questions and comments like; "why not?" "yes you are interested you just don't know it yet" "come on give me a chance" "are you really going to let a jewel like me pass you by?" etc etc... and many even reply with insults back. In just a handful of cases the guy just takes the "no thanks " and moves on. I have no interest nor time to clarify my stance on why I said no thanks, but then they just whine why I can't answer them those questions. And the vicious cycle continues So I've found that sending this much asked "no thanks" reply starts an even more flood of botherfull messages so not sending a reply is way easier. On another note... No one is obliged to answer your mails, even if you proclaim yourself to be a dom. And quite frankly whenever I get an email that demands my reply I'm even more quick to throw it in the trashcan.

RandomGAGirl -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/20/2007 11:56:07 AM)
There could be a variety of reasons why you don't get a response some subs don't like to communicate with Doms who don't have pictures in their profile, who from the start don't have smiliar interests, aren't in their area ect. I don't like responding to people who are plain old RUDE in their initial message either making fun of my preferences in a potential Master. The type that is basically "how DARE you voice an opinion on the traits you look for in a potential Master!!!" lol. Also if I have talked to someone in the past and a trainwreck ensued I might avoid repeating the pattern. Seriously though there ARE perfectly innocent reasons why someone may not answer a message right away. Work, home, real life issues for one or computer/internet problems. In addition to that some poeple (myself included) don't like getting orders from complete strangers and are sketchy about who they obey without question. In my experience what goes happens online isn't always an indication of how good or bad a sub will be in real life. Some subs may say/do all the right things online but when time comes for you to meet things can get really ugly really fast.

Celeste43 -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/20/2007 7:41:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Noah quote: ORIGINAL: Celeste43 ... If the women you contact don't respond and you view responding to uninvited email as an indicator of their ability to submit, then you can safely decide that the nonresponders are not compatible with you and you can concentrate on more compatible types. Girls who can think things through are hot, yo. Thank you!

pinksugarsub -> RE: Contact courtesy (5/21/2007 3:08:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail quote: ORIGINAL: Kinkypupper There are a lot more wanna be Doms here then subs. so the subs that have a good ad or are inthe physically desirable category or or or... get a LOT of emails. What you need to do iscreate-edit your ad and email to perk their interest in even replying No, it is more that there are alot more women here with tits and ass then men--- a woman can say I am new to this but I have fantasy and I want a man to whip my ass and paint my pussy purple and he must have 30 years experience but must be 30 handsome and loaded, and it is counted as righteousness to a woman, for a man less than that ilk --- he is a 'wannabe', 'fake' 'unTwue'...and they can do it because they got the mouth. Other than that it is the same old dance forever. Ron Crickey; i don't have much experience reading the profiles of other submissives but this sounds just awful. BTW, my pet peeve is a Domly type who whhhiiineess about not receiving replies from emails sent to submissives, especially in Their profile or journal. No Dom is being singled out for this treatment, and no one submissive is responsible for all the non-replies.

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