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mnottertail -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 4:23:56 PM)

would this be a bad time to slip in and see if I could get me a little world class head from someone posting here?

Just askin'
Ron




HutchGarahl -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 4:25:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

would this be a bad time to slip in and see if I could get me a little world class head from someone posting here?

Just askin'
Ron



ROTFLMA! Damn Ron.....leave it to you to break up the monotony. [8D]




windchymes -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 4:26:18 PM)

Yeah, it must waste at least two or three minutes typing up those three or four sentences that make up a respectable and friendly initial e-mail.




pinksugarsub -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 4:35:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CK1

Easy Hutch. ONE. I am an arrogant ass, was born that way. TWO, who said anything about wanting more than a one word response? I only commented on the annoyance of others wanting more than a one word INTRO email. The responses I may or may not get are irrelevant. Im not trying to seduce or Dom the world, just that girl or maybe couple girls that find me to be what they want. Im not offended or hurt if they dont.

To be clear this is about my opinion on the illusion that that wether there is one oword or a thousand on an intro letter, a person will respond based on their attraction, wether to their photo or profile first and foremost. So why should I or anyone waste their time typing a great intro if more often than not it is going to be a waste of time?



Once again i don't think i agree 100% but i think Yr point is it's annoying to read profiles by submissives in which they state they will not respond to one-word emails.  It's also annoying to read Dom profiles in which They whine about how few responses They receive.  E/everyone gets annoyed by one or another of the deficits of dealing with P/pl on the 'net.
 
As for being an arrogant ass, well, who would know better than You?  LOL.




maybemaybenot -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 4:44:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

would this be a bad time to slip in and see if I could get me a little world class head from someone posting here?

Just askin'
Ron



** waves her hands wildly**
I'm not world class but I'm a contender. Up to you.

               mbmbn




mnottertail -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 4:45:12 PM)

I accept your proposal.

Ron




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 4:46:56 PM)

*moans and groans under her breath*  oh dear God, here we go again ...must be a full moon this weekend.  *sighs*   these "doms" never learn ...do they?

if you note me with only "hi", don't expect a reply back - it's not stating what or why you have noted me. i can tell so very little of your intentions from only tiny word ...plus it shows lack of communication and effort on your part when messaging me. lazy "doms" are a such a pet peeve of mine.

oh another thing in case no one else told you this (yet i'm sure someone did) but we submissives/slaves are not here to be bossed around like you. and if you have a problem with my smartass mouth, please take a number, have a seat and Dr Sambaman (Daddy) will see you in a few hours after His tennis match.




CK1 -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 5:13:27 PM)

An excellent introduction to the Collar Me boards. Admittedly I came across a little..."angry". So I can understand and appreciate the criticism. I love getting the blood flowing and for some of you it certainly has.

As far as the one word introductions go. Suffice it to say, perhaps I failed to appreciate the sheer quantity of messages you, (girls) get. Some of you responded to that point and made valid ones and gave excellent reasons as why this is done. Others chose to focus more on me and my faults. Which are plenty I assure you. Rest assured I am aware of most of them, and are either working to correct, or simply accept them. Not that this is your concern, but I, like all of you are on this journey of life, learning and growing with each day. I am simply looking for my own place where I fit in best. Not really concerned about getting there as I am with enjoying the trip.

About this interesting quote from sambamanslilgirl....

"oh another thing in case no one else told you this (yet I'm sure someone did) but we submissives/slaves are not here to be bossed around like you. and if you have a problem with my smartass mouth, please take a number, have a seat and Dr Sambaman (Daddy) will see you in a few hours after His tennis match. "

Bossing around girls though, that sort of came out of left field. I am not trying to boss around anyone, nor do I have even the slightest concern of your smartass mouth. personally I love a girl with serious amounts of attitude. It helps test me and my relationship with her. Taking it to really great levels. However, Ms. Sambamslilgirl, threatening me with your Daddy, is not the best decision you will make in your life. But if that is your desire, then when he is done tennis I will gladly let you know how to find me. But thats just silliness on your part isnt it?




mnottertail -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 5:17:07 PM)

see if you can find the stupid chicken dance under my moniker----

that is the way it is.


Ron
(and don't go off on the 'gift of submission'  them is some tacky girls, just walk around them.)





CK1 -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 5:18:29 PM)

LOL now thats funny. Your definately cool.




tatangel -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 5:20:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NakedGirlScout

I don't know if the OP has the right impression. I don't look at anyone's photo or profile usually until I'm somewhat interested in him, which would probably be around the second or third meaningful letter exchanged between us. It wouldn't even get to that point if he said "hi" and nothing else. I might be polite and say "hi" back to him, but there would be nothing to go on to see if I was interested until he said something of substance.
100% agreed.




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 5:23:27 PM)

that's Mrs. sambamanslilgirl to you, "dom" - i don't wear his "wedding" ring to be called Ms.  your arrogance and disrespect doesn't grant you and exclusive audience with the Doctor either. btw, i'm not afraid nor do i cower to your "mighty" arrogant ways.  though if you still want to discuss about me with Him, it will be hours (EST around 12mid) until His return again ...enjoy the elevator music in the waiting room.  *goes back to filing her nails*




CK1 -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 5:44:02 PM)

I have a better idea then Mrs. Sambamanslilgirl. Instead of taking fantastical leaps and bounds in your assesment of my arrogance and disrespect, (seriously disrespect??? where did that come from?), how about you finish filing your nails and await your Daddies return from tennis and do what I am sure you do very well, serve and please him. I am sure he has as little interest in your obvioulsy injured ego as I do. But again I will be in Gurnee next week, if you feeel the need to take this to that level, I can. This is digressing poorly of course. I have taken no offense by anything you have said other than its a bit..alot..off base. And of course your silly threat was annoying. It falls into that realm of, "my boyfriend will kick your ass". like I said you and your Daddy have better things to do I am sure.






Hissltviolet -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 5:44:15 PM)





...well...um...this girl does not usually put her two cents in before reading A/all the responses ahead of her...but...this time she cannot sit still that long...
 
...Sir...just a 'personal' comment...
 
...this girl and her...now...Master (yes...it is r/t) corresponded here on CM...for a full month before taking it to emails and IM's...and another three months...before ever exchanging pics...
...His initial message was inspired by of girl's profile...here...and her return message was inspired by the 'effort' He made to 'communicate' with her...He gave her 'something' to respond too...
...it is VERY hard to begin a 'conversation' based on a 'hi' or...and this is my favorite...'do you have a pic'...
...obviously 'attraction' means different things to different people...but...it is this girls opinion...and experience...that it is very possible to 'miss' the 'value' of the 'whole' person if the initial 'critique' is base on surface 'value' alone...'beauty' is not always 'just' the cover of the book...sometimes it is found amoung the pages...
...besides...honestly...if 'first' impressions were based on Your 'pic'...i cannot see where You would have any problems...
...again...just a humble slave girl's personal opinion...
 
...respectfully...
LB's violet



quote:

ORIGINAL: CK1

I have finally lost my patience with this. You subs and slaves "demanding" more than one word in the initial email from a Dom. Lets not mince words here. Your wasting alot of peoples time. The fact is why would I, why should I waste my time and energy on the 50/50 shot of a response from anyone. The fact is regardless of what my or anyones email says, your going to first look at their pics, and then maybe the profile. And your deision to respond will be based on that and that ALONE. Spare me your self induced righteousness about someone actually showing real interest or being intelligent enough or creative enough to write a good intro email. When you know even if Byron himself wrote a novel as his intro, if his picture looked like buckwheat, your deleting and moving on. So shut your mouths, dont waste our time. I will email as many words as I damn well please. And you will look at my picture and then my profile, and decide from there wether or not you want to try to become my slave or sub. Be honest with yourself for once, we all know it is about attraction first before anything else can even begin.

CK




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 5:49:34 PM)

yeah, avoiding snobby, arrogant, crass people like you from Gurnee next weekend myself. 

my ego wasn't bruised only yours was.







maybemaybenot -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 5:54:26 PM)

I for one, CK, will give you props. You came in with your guns blazing and actually read, absorbed and evaluated and put them back in your holster and held out your hand.
Welcome to CM !

                     mbmbn




maybemaybenot -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 5:57:32 PM)

Pssssssssssssssssst, mnottertail.
Under the bridge at midnight.
I will have my glass slippers on.
No tiara, I hate gaudy.

                            mbmbn




Hissltviolet -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 5:59:04 PM)









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ORIGINAL: HydroMaster

Personally I write my intro emails based on what's presented in the profile of the woman I'm writing to...commenting on what they've told me.   So one word emails are pretty much non-existent as I don't write if there's insufficient information there for me to base an opinon.  Here is what I've noticed given the tools at my disposal.  Most of my emails show up as read.  Many more than show up as deleted unread.  So most subs and slaves are in fact reading the emails.  Using the times whos viewed my screen and comparing the m to the times the emails are read, the emails are being read first before they look at my profile. 

I think part of the reason for them not wanting a one word email is the amount of garbage that floods their inboxes.  If you're getting 200 emails a day and all they say is hi...doesn't give them much to go on does it?  Having more information in the email shows them that it isn't a canned email you've copied to 500 other subs and that you may actually have the ability to start a conversation or that you even bothered to read about them a little.   



...applauds...very nicely said...




mnottertail -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 6:02:23 PM)

oh, see that is immediate and total erectile dysfunction on my part, you ain't giving up a thing-----

I nned you to suffer in garishness and wallow in recalcitrance (if you are sobbing uncontrollably throughout the act---well; mores the ecstasy, you see?)

FredricFellatorum





happypervert -> RE: The First Email (5/18/2007 6:05:25 PM)

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I for one, CK, will give you props. You came in with your guns blazing and actually read, absorbed and evaluated and put them back in your holster and held out your hand.

Yeah . . . he's no fun. It's far more amusing when they come in with guns blazing and start fighting with everyone as the sharks start circling with everyone taking chunks out of him.

Oh well, there's no shortage of those stooges so I'm sure one will be along shortly.




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