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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/20/2007 2:21:35 AM

slaveboyforyou

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As far as my first earliest experience with a person.....When I was 11 I made a bet with a girl I thought was cute that I would be her slave for a day if I lost at a game of tether-ball. I lost on purpose. It wasn't really anything exotic. She didn't make me do much but carry her books and giggle about it with her friends. I really didn't understand at the time why I liked it so much. It just gave me those tingly feelings to be told what to do and objectified by a girl.

I had always felt that way from early childhood. I absorbed stories about women owning men as slaves.  There were plentiful examples of that in science fiction, so I became a avid reader of that genre. Greek mythology about amazons and history in general began to fascinate me. I actually credit my early, misunderstood interest in bdsm for getting me to start reading voraciously. It made me associate books with knowledge and fun. I became a voracious reader around the age of 8. I wanted to know more about myself and more about the world. The small town I lived in didn't allow that. So books were my refuge.

I didn't understand sexuality then, so I never connected it until I was in my late teens. The first story I ever read about masochism was Venus in Furs when I was in my freshman year of college. I loved the library at my college. It had so much more to offer than the small town library I had growing up. I first used newsgroups and the early internet at that library, and i began to speak with people of like mind I din;t know existed. College really opened up a whole new world to me. It allowed me to educate myself on who I was and why I was the way I was. I stopped being ashamed of my desires after that.  Knowledge is power and I never felt powerless after I gained it.

So I had a lot of first experiences. They were all rungs in the ladder to my self discovery.

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/20/2007 3:01:16 AM

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earthycouple, I prefaced my post because when I've told of my earliest experienced/fantasies almost always the question that follows is if I was ever molested or sexually abused before I started having the fantasies. I found it odd that someone would ask that, but have been conditioned now to preface the answer that way.

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/20/2007 4:07:09 AM

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My first expereince was when I was about 8. There was this 28 year old guy substituting for my class and he was beautiful. I could tell just by looking at him he a beautiful, strong, durable body. I hit him with a ruler on the back of his thigh. Another earlier moment was when I was 10. I used to claw, scratch, and pinch people really hard. I enjoyed doing it most to boys and hearing them suck their breath through their teeth.

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/20/2007 11:24:36 AM

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I have always enjoyed a leadership role in my relationships.
As far back as around 13, I often enjoyed making the first move.
I always enjoyed telling boys what to do, even as a teenager.
The best boyfriends I had as a teen, where the ones that obeyed orders.
I never thought much about it, but I have always enjoyed the
Dominant role.

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/20/2007 10:07:00 PM

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Around 8 or 9 -- I used to draw pictures on my chalkboard of naked men and women chained up on dungeon walls, and erase them quickly when I thought someone might catch me. I also always either ran the prisoner of war camp or the nursing station during war games with the neighborhood kids. I spend many a happy childhood moment either tying up prisoners or wrapping patients in layers of bandages.

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/21/2007 8:58:03 AM

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Some of the earliest incidents of O/our lives often decide how W/we turn out to be later. There are some such incidents that occurred in my life too, that probably made me who i am today.

The earliest of them as far as i can remember, is probably when i was around five years old, and in the first grade. Corporal punishment is still quite open in schools in our country, and back then it was rampant. Young boys would be punished by whacks of a cane on their butts, while the girls would have to remain standing throughout the class, holding their ears.

I was a bit different from the other boys, because i would unquestionably wet my pants every time i was scolded or beaten by a teacher, all of them being Women. Therefore the punishment given to me was a little different - my shorts had to be pulled down before i got the stick, and i had to be taken out into the open yard.

At that time i must have worried more about the pain and suffering, totally ignorant of the entire class (maybe the entire school !), watching my 'unique' punishment. But today, i have a totally different feeling about the whole issue. Infact, it turns me on immensely to recall standing outside my classroom, next to the playground, with my pants lying on the floor next to my feet, and my teacher looking angrily at me, holding a cane in her tender hands.

Strange, how bad memories of childhood can turn into erotic fantasies for an adult!

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/21/2007 2:27:33 PM

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I was in 4th grade, at the swimming pool with one of my best friends. We were playing that game where you hold one person in your arms, and play guessing games. For every wrong guess, they get dunked.
I was in her arms, trying to guess what icecream flavor she was thinking of. Every time I got it wrong, she would dunk me, and every time, hold me down a bit longer. When I started to panic, she told me to just relax and trust her, and then she kissed me, and dunked me again!
From then on, that was our favorite game. And ever since then, I've had an obsession with someone having power over me, and trusting them to not hurt me unduly.

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/22/2007 12:58:01 PM

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wow. i must be in the minority here. started later then all the posts i've read.

one thing slightly related would be a gf when i was about 16 who's only interest in sex was me going down on her. there was no way to tell when she was in the mood. it would just come out of the blue with her saying "eat me". then the next activity was doing what she said. kind of got me hooked on those two words.

i had no idea what D/s was at the time, but did let her know how the commanding tone and approach did wonderful things to me.

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/22/2007 6:14:42 PM

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When i was 5 years old i saw one of those old Tarzan movies on TV. In it, Tarzan was captured by a tribe of animal-hide bikini-clad Amazon warrior-women - they tied him up in jungle vine-ropes, caried him home on a spit, and threw him in a bamboo cage.

That totally turned me on - i would fantasize about the same thing happening to me and would pretend play-act it (by myself) in the basement - using a big cardboard freight box for the cage.
i already had a mini bullwhip & handcuffs for playing cowboys & indians//cops & robbers - which also came in handy.

It all gave me an ecstatic, elated feeling which at the same time i sensed to be "deviant" or kinky. i mean, none of the other boys in the neigborhood played that way. At least, i don't think so...

There was a cute older Girl on my block - maybe 7? - whom i'd daydream about tying me up - i borrowed our dog's choke-chain collar and would carry it aound whenever i played with Her - hoping, i guess, that She'd somehow get it into Her mind to use it on me...

Yeah, i'm a natural sub!

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/22/2007 6:16:19 PM

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When I was 7 years old I used to tie up my dolls and draw ropes and gags on people in magazines. By age 10, I was writing kidnapping stories with a heavy emphasis on ropes and gags. As far as my early expereinces with people, at age 8 my friend and I were playing in her room and I told her to stuff a washcloth in her mouth, and she did...

Julie

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/22/2007 8:22:35 PM

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i remember like it happened yesterday. In Mrs. Zagarino's side yard.

A game of cowboys and Indians, my wrists and ankles tied, stretched out on the ground between two saplings by brown haired freckle faced Peggy D and blonde, pert nosed Diane T.

Intense warm things started coursing through my body. My little pecker jumped to life. i struggled, twisting and turning against the pleasure to hide the bulge in my pants.

Nowadays the warmth still runs through me but i don't care who sees my pecker.

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/23/2007 6:24:40 PM

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when iwas about 10 i went into m neighbors back yard and sniffed her panties on the clothes line, she asked me to come inside so i did, she sat me on th e couch and we started talking she took my head pulled iit bewten her leggs got me in a headlock made me smell her panties she started to pee slowly in them i could not stop smelling them, sh egot me so hooked then she took me into the bathtub and peed all over me making me lick it,
i bedame a total pee slave after that

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/24/2007 12:26:59 AM

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There was a girl I really liked who used to play in our group when we were really young (pre-teenagers). One game a bunch of us played was some kind of cops and robbers thing (don't remember it in detail), and I remember one incident where she "caught" me, and she simulated tying me to a chain fence and then fed me jelly beans as my "last" meal.

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/26/2007 4:26:05 PM

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Another thing we used to do as kids was tie each other up and see if we could escape. Learned some wicked knots!

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/27/2007 9:49:14 AM

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quote:

What was your earliest experience?

The earliest was when the doctor in the delivery room smacked my little butt to get me to start crying and breathing. That is, unless something happened in mom's womb that I'm unaware of...

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RE: What was your earliest experience? - 5/28/2007 9:02:09 AM

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So this is my first post and I'm sharing my first experiences.....around the age of 4-5 years old I on a number of occasions gave a few neighbourhood boys and a girl once a lil peep show of sorts from my bedroom window! I'd stand on my toy bench and tease them until they were begging me to do something and making all kinds of silly promises then I'd finally give them a peek at my panties or even my bare ass a few times!

I also have always loved dressing people up, boys girls whoever! Of course it was always so much more fun for me to dress the boys! It wasn't always something I had to coerce them into, just helping them with say halloween make up or for school plays etc, I was always the girl that did that stuff. But I did get one of my brothers best friend to let me do his hair and make up like a girl!! I must have been around 12 and he was 15-16 and had very nice features and all the girls loved him and I loved making him look like a pretty girl! hehehehe We must have played dress up half a dozen times over the next couple years.

I also made this same boy cry on a few occassions from teasing him and making up silly songs that were naughty and rhymed with his name and threatening to tell everyone about doing his hair and make up and using it to blackmail him for slurpees! LOL As a matter of fact there was a group of boys I used to hang with that were really my older brothers friends (yes I was the pesky, bossy, badass tomboy little sister that always tagged along) and from the age of like 7-14 I totally on so many occassions, humiliated all but one of them at one point or another, teased and laughed at them over stupid things they couldnt say or do, any chance I got almost, I think they liked it, particularly one boy who seemed to bask in it and would screw something up on purpose knowing he was gonna get razzed by everyone and especially by me!

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