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Some People Are Just So Rude. - 5/20/2007 1:20:49 AM   
JerseyKrissi72


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At work, they are training me in the bakery department, decorating cakes, etc etc...during the day shifts, I work with a nice young lady who happens to be deaf...even though I don't know sign  language, we communicate pretty well and have a wonderful time working together...There's a guy we work with who thinks it's funny to stand behind her and make fun of her, the way she speaks, etc etc...he asked her once to answer the phone knowing damn well she couldn't...he's a real asshole...what gets me is that he complains that she gets special attention because of her handicap but complains all the time how difficult it is for his girlfriend (who also works with us) to work long hours because it's hard to stand on her feet (because she weighs over 400 pounds) I got sick of him talking shit today that I told him "well, maybe if they got your girlfriend out of the bakery department she wouldn't have trouble standing on her legs being she eats more than she puts out in the cases" lol...well, he always complains that the girl who is deaf doesn 't pull trays out of the oven but she cannot hear the buzzer go off so when he was baking pies he lost track of time and went on his break as well as I did...leaving her there alone...he comes back in a hurry thinking he burnt his pies lol in reality she took them out for him and packaged them..he was surprised and wondered how she knew when to do so..she set her watch to go off on vibrate when the pies were done and she could have easily let them burn and get him written up for that......he gave her a hug and thanked her because one more write up and he would have been suspended lol...I think that little act of kindness woke him up because after work he gave her a ride home and was kind to her.....sometimes, one little act of kindness can change someone....let's hope it sticks lol.

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RE: Some People Are Just So Rude. - 5/20/2007 6:49:30 AM   
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That guy is barking up the wrong tree, especially if the deaf coworker understands her rights at work:
http://www.fcc.gov/owd/understanding-harassment.html

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RE: Some People Are Just So Rude. - 5/20/2007 7:51:18 AM   
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I dated someone that was deaf. He experienced the same treatment at the post office where he worked. People are assholes sometimes

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RE: Some People Are Just So Rude. - 5/20/2007 8:58:17 AM   
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What a beautiful story. 

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RE: Some People Are Just So Rude. - 5/20/2007 9:33:48 AM   
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I abhor people like that.  He is a jackass.

There is a Target store near me who has a cashier who is deaf and she's wonderful.  She has no problem doing her job just like your baker friend.  I happen to know a lot of sign (I'm a peds nurse and when I'm working I work with  kids who have trachs) and we communicate using it...but obviously not everyone at her register knows ASL...I've never seen a back up at her register or see anyone complain or make fun of her.

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RE: Some People Are Just So Rude. - 5/20/2007 10:26:08 AM   
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Yes, people are assholes, but stooping to his level and insulting his obese girlfriend makes you just as bad, in my opinion. Being obese may, or may not, be a product of how much you eat.

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RE: Some People Are Just So Rude. - 5/20/2007 3:23:34 PM   
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I just read MasterfireMaam's response and went "huh what?" so I reread the post....and I see now what I missed this morning.  I firmly have to agree.  Two wrongs don't make a right.

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RE: Some People Are Just So Rude. - 5/20/2007 3:29:12 PM   
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that was a great story.


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RE: Some People Are Just So Rude. - 5/20/2007 5:41:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

I just read MasterfireMaam's response and went "huh what?" so I reread the post....and I see now what I missed this morning.  I firmly have to agree.  Two wrongs don't make a right.


And I went and re-read and got the happy ending. It's very cool that it all worked out!

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