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RE: Dealbreakers... - 5/22/2007 11:57:55 AM

Mercnbeth

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If Master would have insisted on physical impossibilities for this slave like bearing offspring, tanning or marathon running, she most likely would have continued to search for opportunities to serve which were more suited to her inherent skill set.

this slave has, in the past, passed up or gave up opportunities to serve individuals for a variety of reasons...the most common being the absence of a genuine need to utilize this slave's service.

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RE: Dealbreakers... - 5/22/2007 12:55:48 PM

bliss1

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A deal breaker for me is any Dom who wants to tell who I will see or will not see, especially when it comes to my family.
Do not try to isolate me or i'm hitting the ground running.

Also bigots, arrogent, and my way is the only way men.
A man who will refuses to listen to other ideas is not worth my time.

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RE: Dealbreakers... - 5/22/2007 1:42:08 PM

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Bad dental hygene. Ick! If I can't see the shiney spaces between the teeth, I wonder what else he hasn't cleaned well.

yikes!

Of course hygene in general is absolutely crutial. Nobody likes stink.

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RE: Dealbreakers... - 5/22/2007 4:21:42 PM

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Since we are not talking about honesty. I would have to say a man with absoulty no sense of humor would be a deal breaker for me.

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RE: Dealbreakers... - 5/22/2007 4:29:14 PM

pinksugarsub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Calandra

We sometimes cannot put a finger on what attracts or repells us to someone... Is there anything specific that will make you pass on serving a prospective Dominant? A personality trait, annoying habit, etc?

I'm not speaking about things that are universal like dishonesty or abusiveness. I'm asking about those little things that just make you go "um..... No" LOL

1. Bad personal hygiene/generally not putting out the effort to keep One looking His best.

2. Cheap; as in tips the waitress only 10%.

3. Neglects me without a good reason, or with one but does it a lot.

4. Wants cyber or phone sex and presses me beyond a reasonable point to try and get it.

5. A bad kisser.

6. Don't like the way He smells/looks/moves etc. There has to be chemistry.

7. i don't feel pretty when i'm with Him.

8. i get stressed around Him.

And....there is a List of Intolerables but You said You didna want universal traits, so i'll keep them to myself.

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RE: Dealbreakers... - 5/22/2007 6:09:03 PM

WillowRain

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Calandra

We sometimes cannot put a finger on what attracts or repells us to someone... Is there anything specific that will make you pass on serving a prospective Dominant? A personality trait, annoying habit, etc?

I'm not speaking about things that are universal like dishonesty or abusiveness. I'm asking about those little things that just make you go "um..... No" LOL

bad hygene

no friends or long term relationships current in their life

I don't like their smell, even clean. (I know that sounds really odd, but it is super critical to me in any kind of intimate dynamic)

They don't like touching.

They lie with ease, and regularly.

They never admit they are wrong or claim responsibility for anything, can't apologize... etc.

They don't get my lame jokes, or corny goofy sense of perverse humor, things won't work. If I am cracking silly with them and they just tilt their head like a dog and look confused it's a no go.

They take unfair advantage of others. Honor is crazy important to me.

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RE: Dealbreakers... - 5/22/2007 7:07:17 PM

sub7boy

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Calandra
We sometimes cannot put a finger on what attracts or repells us to someone... Is there anything specific that will make you pass on serving a prospective Dominant? A personality trait, annoying habit, etc?
I'm not speaking about things that are universal like dishonesty or abusiveness. I'm asking about those little things that just make you go "um..... No" LOL

Chain smoking... not nice.

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