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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/24/2007 8:36:26 PM   
Masque66


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ORIGINAL: ready4srvce4all

You're the real deal, though.  Golden eggs and Godiva for life Mistress.


I suppose I can't call money-slaves any crazier than the rest of us here.  But personally I hope you find that damn goose and grill it for dinner.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/25/2007 5:00:44 PM   
disciplinedslave


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ORIGINAL: Masque66

I'm just not seeing it.  Why would you willingly give your money to someone for so little in return?  I'm not talking about frauds but I'm assuming someone out there has this relationship.
As a slave my Master has control of everything, food, clothing, shelter, sleep, money. when i get paid he and i take my check to the bank and i cash it, then when i get into the car i give him the money and he puts it into his account. i dont think there is anything wrong with this. he takes care of all of my needs, so why wouldnt i give it to him? if i need something i just tell him and he will getit for me. he believes that a slave has no money, it belongs to her Master and i agree with him. so i am not sure why you have a problem with this?

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/25/2007 5:14:43 PM   
LadyDominaX


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ORIGINAL: ready4srvce4all

You're the real deal, though.  Golden eggs and Godiva for life Mistress.


Aha; you've just hit on a great idea.  I don't so much need/want a money sub, but a slave who provides high quality chocolate whenever I demand?  Oh, that would be heaven!

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/25/2007 5:23:55 PM   
Griswold


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ORIGINAL: Masque66

I'm just not seeing it.  Why would you willingly give your money to someone for so little in return?  I'm not talking about frauds but I'm assuming someone out there has this relationship.


Ya know...back in the day, when I was still on AOL, I saw a guys profile who said he wanted to be a money slave.

So I IM'd him.

I spent about 20 minutes talking to this guy with every variation on the question; "Huh?"

And I can honestly tell you...this guy got his jollies sending chics money.

No shit.

Personally, I can't understand handing someone a pile of cash just to make my dick hard...frankly...I'm looking for a Domme who can afford to take care of me in the style I've become accustomed to.

(Any takers?)

I'm fluffy :)

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/25/2007 5:38:18 PM   
Masque66


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ORIGINAL: disciplinedslave

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ORIGINAL: Masque66

I'm just not seeing it.  Why would you willingly give your money to someone for so little in return?  I'm not talking about frauds but I'm assuming someone out there has this relationship.
As a slave my Master has control of everything, food, clothing, shelter, sleep, money. when i get paid he and i take my check to the bank and i cash it, then when i get into the car i give him the money and he puts it into his account. i dont think there is anything wrong with this. he takes care of all of my needs, so why wouldnt i give it to him? if i need something i just tell him and he will getit for me. he believes that a slave has no money, it belongs to her Master and i agree with him. so i am not sure why you have a problem with this?


If you check the previous page, you'll find a post wherein I clarify my problem and explain that I am not talking about owner/slave relationships in which the slave's money is the posession of the owner.  I'm talking about when being a money slave is the main desire, not when it's a part of an existing m/s relationship..

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/25/2007 7:35:33 PM   
goodpet


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Status: offline 		There are the two types.. as D~ put it. 
one the sub money is taken and little is done in return, it is a fetish and i don't understand why someone would allow themself to be taken advantage of, what they get out of it is beyond me.

the other one is where the sub is contributing to the household and the money is part of the D/s contact.

I fit into the latter.  my Master has full control over me and my assests. including money. As LA put it, it is a form of service also. But it is far from bad or abusive. On the contrary, we just bought a house together, i am on the title *smile*  and also the mortgage *frown*. 

Giving Him full control of me, had to include control of all i have, and including all i earn.
but please note: i have known Sir for over 9 years, i knew Him to be an honest and man of integatry. the trust was there already. i would not have entered into a contract like this with someone i knew less then a few years. it would have been a limited contract to start with.. then more as time went by.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/25/2007 8:24:19 PM   
Arastella


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Status: offline 		I see absolutely NO point.  Period.  End of story.  Why PAY to submit to another?  NO POINT.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/25/2007 8:29:28 PM   
leatherorlace


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Status: offline 		Do that mean that since you can't imagine anothers need to embrace his kink, no matter how bizarre you might consider it, they shouldn't be allowed to interact with another in the manner that best suits the dealie, thingy or whatever that gives them the reward they obtain from it?
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ORIGINAL: Arastella

I see absolutely NO point.  Period.  End of story.  Why PAY to submit to another?  NO POINT.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/25/2007 8:29:31 PM   
OrangeJulius


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Status: offline 		They probably don't have any other way of getting the kind of "attention" that they want.  Also, it's instant gratification.  They don't have to actually spend time getting to know and like people, they can just put money up and get what they want.

Basically, people like it because it doesn't require any work.

Edit: Were you talking about just handing over cash, or going to a "professional dominatrix?"


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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/25/2007 8:35:20 PM   
Arastella


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Status: offline 		No, I mean exactly what I said, in reply to his last clarification of profiles seeking just that.  I just don't see the point.  But just as others pointed out, I don't get scat either.  The thought of it makes me nauseaus.  But to each his/her own.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/25/2007 8:37:28 PM   
Arastella


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Status: offline 		Just handing over cash.  A professional dominatrix I get.  Thats her job, just like I wouldn't expect that if I were to go to a lawyer I wouldn't wonder why he sends me a bill for saving my ass from prison or something.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/25/2007 8:42:35 PM   
OrangeJulius


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Status: offline 		Oh, okay.  Well, maybe it's the satisfaction of knowing that they are giving away something to help someone have a happier, more fulfilling life.  Sort of like why people give to UNICEF, except instead of feeding starving children, they're supporting a domme's lifestyle. 

Or maybe I'm too optimistic.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/25/2007 8:48:53 PM   
Arastella


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Status: offline 		Maybe you're too optimistic... or maybe you're seeing things from every point of view and giving people the benefit of the doubt.  Good for you.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/26/2007 12:52:01 AM   
SaintAllie


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Status: offline 		He's a grown up..

if he wants to spend his money on tributes.. or gambling on horses .. or saving it all for a charity after he dies.. it's nobody elses business.. let him get on with it..

regards Allie

edited to mention I was agreeing with Najakcharmer

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/26/2007 1:07:18 AM   
leatherorlace


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Status: offline 		Well, good on you. I'm glad that you said what you meant, I have the same tendency. I stay less confuzzled if I don't equificate. lol
  I served in the Armed Forces as a Medic for ten years and did a partial apprenticeship at a mortuary before joining the service and I've never been able to keep from gagging if I smell human feces or bowel. Despite My shortcomings, I found others that were happy to swap their wound debridements or bandage changing duties for bedpan commando duty. lol
  I'm able to accept that there are those that have darker desires than, I, but that's probably due to My having already practiced their kink with others and I'm not terribly put off by it, but not interested in a daily practice of it.
  The dangers of many practices are inherent in that even good planning doesn't prevent possible illness. Still, I'm ready to provide a ropey pile or squishy squirt if that's their preference. Just don't make the mistake that, I'll be cleaning up after you. BUT, for money or barter or whatever, I could arrange for maid service while you brave the aromatic steam and the miasmic flautelence from My deposit. heheheheheeee
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Arastella

No, I mean exactly what I said, in reply to his last clarification of profiles seeking just that.  I just don't see the point.  But just as others pointed out, I don't get scat either.  The thought of it makes me nauseaus.  But to each his/her own.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/26/2007 2:31:10 AM   
dummey


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Status: offline 		I'd like to think like this, that the money given to a dom is to make their life happier, but to me it feels shallow, almost like just taking another shot of cocaine to get a fix. My issue with giving money, especially in such a large sum, is that that money could of been used for a better cause. Money basically equals life for many people in starving countries so in some ways by giving money away to be wasted, they are also giving lives away. The money could of been better spent on water and food then another 800$ purses (still boggles me why girls buy these).

Sure this is a kink for some subs and like some people have already brought up, they also give their checks to their master, but there is a major difference between the two. For people who have masters that take the money and put it in the bank, it is part of giving yourself to them. These money slaves are just giving what they think of as themselves, but leads back to the point that it's kink for quick fixes.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/26/2007 2:48:40 AM   
SadisticMan


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Status: offline 		yes, proDommes have done so much to further this lifestlye, NOT !!
they should be banned from CM

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/26/2007 3:01:01 AM   
Politesub53


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yes, proDommes have done so much to further this lifestlye, NOT !!
they should be banned from CM


Why should they ?  i think they offer a good service, which people may or may not chose to use. What about the novice submissive or the married submissive who just wants to try things out. The cost of proper equipment is huge, the service they provide is a service,  just like any other.
I agree its not for everyone, but that doesnt make it wrong, just wrong for some.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/26/2007 3:12:59 AM   
dummey


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Status: offline 		Those are perfectly reasonable cases for pro doms, but what about subs who use them as money sinks. My idea of D/s is something that includes trust among other things which are completely bypassed by money slaves. My argument is that it is not healthy simply feeding money to a proDom so that they can get the illusion of having a dom. This does not mean that proDoms are bad, just that they help to promote a poor behavior.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/26/2007 4:27:27 AM   
lateralist1


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Status: offline 		I think some submissives want a pro Domme service without paying for it.
ie they want to dictate the terms without the financial obligation.
I have heard complaints from subs about Dommes expecting financial rewards upfront even if they are not pro Dommes.
All a sub has to do is say no.
Why do they get into such a 'lather' about it.
Some men talk about 'spoiling me'.
I have had a slave offer to buy me a house.
Do they honestly think that will make me want to own them?
I chose who I want to own.
And if they are the sort of person who thinks they can buy me I very much doubt whether I would ever want to own them.
I was brought up to love a man for his wealth and power.
I was never quite able to do it in vanilla life lol.
I'm absolutely sure I'm not going to do it in the lifestyle.
And if a sub thinks I am going to give them a free ride financially then they can think again.

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