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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/26/2007 5:36:25 AM

shedreamz

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ORIGINAL: Masque66

I'm just not seeing it. Why would you willingly give your money to someone for so little in return? I'm not talking about frauds but I'm assuming someone out there has this relationship.

Since no one here seems to actually have done it -- and so you are basically getting a set of answers that fall into two categories

"NO WAY!! Not going to do that!"

or

"Whatever ...but I wouldn't"

Here's an answer that says I would, I did, and I might even again.

You have to understand first that some slaves adore humiliation. I happen to be one of those. I cannot get enough of it.

And if you don't feel that desire to humiliate or to be humiliated, I am not sure you can ever really understand.

As the victim, it reminds me of place which centers me in a way, nothing else simply can. Remember, I am a masochist so horrific beatings make me feel proud! Aroused! Strong!

And I need desperately to be reminded of place. I just desire so much to know that he is not my boyfriend (despite the love, the presents, the kindness he shows me, the warmth and tenderness of our relationship and the endless interactions with others as boyfriend and girlfriend). I have a need to KNOW in a deep way the TRUTH of our relationship -- and anything that truly humiliates me does that.

Money slavery is pretty much the most humiliating act imaginable. Until you go and do it, for awhile, in substantial ways, you cannot understand just how degrading it is.

But it really bleeds your heart and soul in every way. You feel its intrustion when you hand over the cash, when you remember handing it over, when he reminds you, when you see the bank statement, the logs he keeps, when he uses you and tells you that it is likely he might just be using you for the cash. Or when you are depriving yourself of things, to keep participating. It is addictive like gambling and the high is intense and overwhelmingly glorious.

It is humiliating and if you don't have a taste for that, I understand.

But I do.

Hope that helps you "get it." And remember, you don't have to "get everything" -- just do what gets you.

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RE: Why be a money slave? - 5/26/2007 5:41:16 AM

Elorin

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ORIGINAL: Masque66

I'm just not seeing it. Why would you willingly give your money to someone for so little in return? I'm not talking about frauds but I'm assuming someone out there has this relationship.

1) It doesn't seem like 'so little' in return.
2) For some people, giving over their money feels like the ultimate in control. Just like for some people, allowing someone to piss in their mouth feels like the ultimate in control. And they want to give up control.
3) Feeling a power exchange is more important to some than money in the bank.

I have a long distance slave who sends me cash every week. He does it because he values the time and effort I put into our relationship. If his bills go up, he sends less, but he does send cash every week. It is not a professional relationship in that I would continue to control him whether he sent cash or not. But it makes him feel less in control to know that he sends me cash, and to know that I have a credit card in my name on one of his accounts and could use it whenever I wished.

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