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Playing with "what if" and "would you do... - 5/23/2007 10:12:13 PM   
WhiplashSmile


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Thought I'd hit everybody up with some "What if's" for mental exploration to play around with, followed by the Question "would you do it or at least give it your best shot"? 

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What if you were to met the celebrity of your dreams (the one you're most Infatuated with).  Now imagine that you hit it off extremely well with them. You are in a state of complete awe and your mind racing and heart feels like it's gonna jump out of your chest. It turns out that this celebrity (the object of your infatuation/fantasies) is involved the BDSM lifestyle.  However... 

For Dom/mes
The celebrity is Dom/me looking for a slave for 24/7 relationship.

For submissives
The celebrity is a submissive looking for a Dom/me for 24/7 relationship.

For switches
You find out the celebrity was only joking about being in the BDSM lifestyle and is looking for somebody to live an extremely vanilla life 24/7.

If you would do it, or at least give it your best shot. Who would this celebrity be.  What terms, demands or limits would you attempt to Negotiate entering into the relationship. Do you feel you could make it work on your end?



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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/23/2007 10:17:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile
For submissives
The celebrity is a submissive looking for a Dom/me for 24/7 relationship.


I don't even have to take time to consider it...the answer would simply be no.

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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/23/2007 10:18:18 PM   
CuriousLord


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Status: offline 		I never felt compulsed to praise celebrities.  Plus I knew a lot growing up, so they seem pretty mundane to me.  So, naw.

Assuming I was somehow in deeply in love?  Still, no; I've said 'goodbye' to good friends that couldn't respect my dominance.  I still liked them- and the offenses were typically mild- but it's contrary to my identity.  It's not who I am.  So I didn't accept it.

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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/23/2007 10:31:37 PM   
ennaozzie


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Status: offline 		No way, why change who you are or change your ways, to who you are not just because someone is a star?
 
Not this chooky
 
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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/23/2007 10:32:25 PM   
WhiplashSmile


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Status: offline 		To make it more interesting.. let's add this to the What if...
Say the celebrity speaks about trips around the world, speaks about taking care of all your material desires.  New Ferraris and all the fun stuff that only large amounts of money can buy.

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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/23/2007 10:34:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile

To make it more interesting.. let's add this to the What if...
Say the celebrity speaks about trips around the world, speaks about taking care of all your material desires.  New Ferraris and all the fun stuff that only large amounts of money can buy.


Same answer....no.

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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/23/2007 10:36:53 PM   
aidan


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Status: offline 		All the "celebrities" I have crushes on are people in the BDSM/Fetish industry, and all along my matching wavelength, sooooo...

Um. I kinda like a Uma Thurman. But not enough to spank her.


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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/23/2007 10:47:54 PM   
Elorin


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quote:

For switches
You find out the celebrity was only joking about being in the BDSM lifestyle and is looking for somebody to live an extremely vanilla life 24/7.


I would be happy to fuck said celebrity when they are in town, wish them well on finding the partner of their dreams, and continue to be the kinky poly person that I am. I would be willing to behave vanilla in public as the person's partner, and have a vanilla sexual relationship with the celeb, with the stated condition that I am poly and I will continue to seek out kink relationships outside of our relationship. I would have no problem keeping said kink relationships out of the public eye. I would not, however, be able to get rid of all evidence of my past kink life, as I'm a published model and have been in multiple videos.

quote:

To make it more interesting.. let's add this to the What if...
Say the celebrity speaks about trips around the world, speaks about taking care of all your material desires.  New Ferraris and all the fun stuff that only large amounts of money can buy

I would be tempted but I am who I am and no amount of Ferraris or furs or expensive shoes or boots would make me less kinky or less poly. I might end up playing the celeb in hopes of material rewards, I'm not proud to say, but I would not try to be in a long term monogamous relationship ever again, and I doubt that I could be happy in a vanilla relationship even with the allowance that I was finding kink elsewhere.
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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/23/2007 11:08:22 PM   
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quote:

For Dom/mes
The celebrity is Dom/me looking for a slave for 24/7 relationship.

 
Been there, done that, still said No.
 
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If you would do it, or at least give it your best shot. Who would this celebrity be. 
  I never kiss and tell. I believe that's what confidentiality clauses are for to begin with.

quote:

What terms, demands or limits would you attempt to Negotiate entering into the relationship. Do you feel you could make it work on your end?
  Nope, I suppose if we had imagined a Dom/Domme relationship it may have worked but otherwise there wasn't anything in the world that would cause me to settle for less than I want in life.

quote:

Say the celebrity speaks about trips around the world, speaks about taking care of all your material desires.  New Ferraris and all the fun stuff that only large amounts of money can buy.
  It wasn't enough the first time around...it didn't change my mind in a previous relationship. Believe me, he did far more than speak about those things...he acted on them.

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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/23/2007 11:11:05 PM   
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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/23/2007 11:44:00 PM   
proudsub


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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/23/2007 11:49:42 PM   
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I would take him as a friend.

:: smiles ::

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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/23/2007 11:53:23 PM   
proudsub


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quote:

I would take him as a friend.



On my South Beach message board he is my cabana boy LOL.

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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/24/2007 12:10:10 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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quote:

ORIGINAL: aidan

All the "celebrities" I have crushes on are people in the BDSM/Fetish industry, and all along my matching wavelength, sooooo...

Um. I kinda like a Uma Thurman. But not enough to spank her.


She does look Hot in her black BDSMish apparel in the Avengers.
http://www.imdb.com/gallery/ss/0118661/Ss/0118661/2.html?path=gallery&path_key=0118661
Not to mention the whole sword wielding kick your ass thing going on in Kill Bill.



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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/24/2007 12:35:59 AM   
littlesarbonn


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Status: offline 		I am so not into celebrities, so none of the responses really make a difference to me. Now, there are some brilliant female writers I consume (their books) on a regular basis that I would definitely like to be involved with, but that's because they turn me on completely intellectually, not because of their celebrity. For them, I'd coexist with them in whatever way made them happy and willing to share their vast knowledge with me.

But the Paris Hilton/Angelina Jolie/(insert music icon)/Jessica Alba infatuations that people have just aren't for me. Yeah, some of them I find really hot, but I don't want ANYTHING to do with them whatsoever. Most of them are extremely petty and the opposite of what I'd ever seek out in an intelligent woman. Some aren't, but it wouldn't be their celebrity status that would do it for me.


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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/24/2007 3:07:01 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sublizzie

I don't *do* dominant. I can be bossy as all get out, but I'm not dominant.


This is pretty much how I feel...bossy as all get out, but not dominant. 

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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/24/2007 3:18:00 AM   
Quivver


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Status: offline 		I've never been into celebrities myself.  But like everyone else I do have my favorite eye candy.  (grin)
So..... if Bruce Willis had the right shit that can sprinkle fairy dust on me and get my Awe. 
Hell yes I'd go.  But the road of proof of that he had the right shit would be a bit longer due to his status.




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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/24/2007 4:07:22 AM   
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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/24/2007 4:21:00 AM   
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RE: Playing with "what if" and "would yo... - 5/24/2007 4:27:50 AM   
darkinshadows


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quote:

For submissives
The celebrity is a submissive looking for a Dom/me for 24/7 relationship.

No. Couldn't and wouldn't.
 
quote:

What if you were to met the celebrity of your dreams (the one you're most Infatuated with).  Now imagine that you hit it off extremely well with them. You are in a state of complete awe and your mind racing and heart feels like it's gonna jump out of your chest. It turns out that this celebrity (the object of your infatuation/fantasies) is involved the BDSM lifestyle. 
 
Your scenario already happened to me - apart from the fact he isn't a submissive so it all worked out good there...
 
Peace


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