RE: when to walk away ??

RE: when to walk away ?? (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion

Message

gothicdiva -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:16:58 AM)
At least I have the strength to admit that I have some shortcomings and yes I do sometimes "fall short" and disappoint myself and others at times. gasp I think it takes quite a self-assured person to admit so. I'm a great person IN SPITE of my failures, shortcomings, and the like. And for those of you that appreciate/understand humor, I hope you got my meaning with that particular song posting. No matter what the topic is, there are those of you that just want to try to initiate an argument or disagreement. Be well, M. Diva

gothicdiva -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:19:13 AM)
I agree with you on this point. She said "partner." I don't know if somewhere we assumed it was a wife or someone mentioned it. At any rate, it's still the same...she's an unwitting victim in all of this. At any rate, I would love to see some more male viewpoints here...it seems that a few of you are "lurking" but not posting. Be well, M. Diva

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:21:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: velvetears quote: ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44 quote: ORIGINAL: velvetears If degrading people by calling them 2 bit whores is your world by all means wallow in it. It's interesting to watch you twist and contort what I really stated in a pathetic attempt to hold your ground, velvet. You get a 10 from me for you bulldogged tenaciousness. But a 1 for reading comprehension. Which quite a few people really seem to be lacking. And you buddy are at the head of that list! You're too intent on spreading your venom you take every opportunity to do so. LOL

angelic -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:22:02 AM)
i wondered how long it would take for someone to justify their misreading of the thread.

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:25:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gothicdiva At any rate, it's still the same...she's an unwitting victim in all of this. Thats a load of bullshit and you know it. She walked into that realtionship knowing full well he was involved and commited to another, yet she did it anyway. She's as much of a victim as you would be for walking into a crack-house and getting busted while your there.. As another here has on her tag line: There are no victims here, only volunteers.

gothicdiva -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:26:00 AM)
I can admit when I make a mistake. Occasionally, that does happen on forums such as these. At any rate, whether "partner" or wife, it is still the same to me. She's an innocent party in all of this and deserves to be respected as such. I think perhaps someone else may have said "wife" and I just followed suit. I didn't go back to the first page and research it, though. Perhaps you care to do that so we may see where the mistake initiated? Be well, M. Diva

gothicdiva -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:28:09 AM)
Mr. D, Speaking of reading comprehension, you MISUNDERSTOOD what I wrote...the Master's other PARTNER is the "unwitting victim"....not the OP. Now, do I need to clarify that for everyone else or are we all straight on this matter? M. Diva

Viridana -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:28:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44 quote: ORIGINAL: gothicdiva At any rate, it's still the same...she's an unwitting victim in all of this. Thats a load of bullshit and you know it. She walked into that realtionship knowing full well he was involved and commited to another, yet she did it anyway. She's as much of a victim as you would be for walking into a crack-house and getting busted while your there.. As another here has on her tag line: There are no victims here, only volunteers. I think gothicdiva was referring to the wife/spouse/partner. At least, that's the way I took it.

gothicdiva -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:30:42 AM)
Thank you, Viridana. I was speaking of the other person as you mentioned. I didn't think when I posted it that there would be a problem with anyone misinterpreting that. Be well, M. Diva

Viridana -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:31:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelic i wondered how long it would take for someone to justify their misreading of the thread. Yeah, I screwed up. I admit that. However I don't see how me assuming it was a wife rather than an unwed partner has any relevance to the subject itself. The man has a partner, is in a relationship and is cheating on that partner. The OP engaged in this triangle knowing this. The offence in my mind is the same.

velvetears -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:34:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gothicdiva Mr. D, Speaking of reading comprehension, you MISUNDERSTOOD what I wrote...the Master's other PARTNER is the "unwitting victim"....not the OP. Now, do I need to clarify that for everyone else or are we all straight on this matter? M. Diva See how intent he is! He's the one with comprehension problems which he projects onto other people. He should concentrate on correcting his defecit - he might gain more credability.

gothicdiva -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:36:57 AM)
I concur, Viridana. He was still lying and unfaithful to his partner. Having a wedding ring or not does not make it any less of an offense. At any rate, it's time for me "to walk away." I have things to do. I'm wondering how many pages this will continue on. I guess I will check back later and see. I wish everyone a continued safe and wonderful Memorial Day weekend! M. Diva

gothicdiva -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:39:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: velvetears quote: ORIGINAL: gothicdiva Mr. D, Speaking of reading comprehension, you MISUNDERSTOOD what I wrote...the Master's other PARTNER is the "unwitting victim"....not the OP. Now, do I need to clarify that for everyone else or are we all straight on this matter? M. Diva See how intent he is! He's the one with comprehension problems which he projects onto other people. He should concentrate on correcting his defecit - he might gain more credability. Yes, I noticed that Velvet. Had he read my subsequent posts, there would have been no confusion as to whom I was referring. Be well, M. Diva

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:42:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: velvetears See how intent he is! He's the one with comprehension problems which he projects onto other people. He should concentrate on correcting his defecit - he might gain more credability. LOL. Velvet, really quit crying already. It really is unbecoming how you are such a victim.

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:45:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gothicdiva Yes, I noticed that Velvet. Had he read my subsequent posts, there would have been no confusion as to whom I was referring. Really? So you're saying that it wasn't appearent in the post I responded to but in later post and somehow I was supposed to know that? Hmmm, interesting.

mistoferin -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:45:47 AM)
Wow, so much support on here today for victims of their own bad behavior. It seems a pity to waste all this rallying around and sympathy on just one lying cheater. Maybe others would like to join in and benefit? A few framed thieves, rapists who had bad childhoods, misunderstood pedophiles, persecuted serial killers? Seems there is an overabundance of understanding here today. Come one, come all!

astarri -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:52:06 AM)
*sets up her lil "Therapy Booth for 5 cents" sign

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 9:58:06 AM)
Oh good, maybe you can help velvet with her "I'm a victim, take pity" issues. Here, to so I'm a nice guy I'll even foot the bill. [:D]

mistoferin -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 10:04:04 AM)
At a nickel per session....I hope you have deep pockets[;)].

velvetears -> RE: when to walk away ?? (5/27/2007 10:06:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44 Oh good, maybe you can help velvet with her "I'm a victim, take pity" issues. Here, to so I'm a nice guy I'll even foot the bill. [:D] i am no victim and want no pity, especially from the likes of you - so take a hike and get a life

Page: << < prev 4 5 [6] 7 8 next > >>

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

2.929688E-02