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RE: you and your collar - 5/26/2007 10:37:01 PM   
MsParados


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Status: offline 		My wedding ring is shaped like a collar / belt. It is the only sign I wear, it means  many things to us on various levels that I do not feel the need to wear a tradional collar. Of course I have a few, some choker types, one leather w/ a D ring for nights at home, I would like to add an eternity to my collection.

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RE: you and your collar - 5/26/2007 10:48:26 PM   
Pezzle


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Joined: 5/8/2007
From: New Jersey
Status: offline 		I do not have a day collar, so I do not wear my collar -all- the time. I do wear a ring he bought me proudly as a symbol of his dominance and ownership, though.

It would be impractical to wear my 3-ringed leather collar the the gym for a bout on the treadmill and I'd get fired for wearing it in a retail situation. So really, I like to keep it on around the house and school, he really hasn't put any guidelines forth concerning the wearing of his collar becuase he knows my job situation finds it.... impractical.

The ring I can always feel and every time I look at my hands i think of him.

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RE: you and your collar - 5/26/2007 11:03:30 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		I have neck issues, I can NOT stand things on my neck, shirts included, I had a turtle neck on and in 15 mins it had me so batshit annoyed and ocd ishIf I wasn't in class with no other option I would of taken it off. As it was a necklace I was wearing got broke on accident because of tugging at the t shirt's neck an the chain getting caught. Years ago I attempted to learn to put up with a collar on my neck by buying my own and trying it out, eventually it bugged me and I needed it off, and I needed it off NOW!

Which is to bad, cause there's tons of cute doggie collars I'd adore having.

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RE: you and your collar - 5/27/2007 1:27:54 PM   
earthylady


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Joined: 5/26/2007
Status: offline 		I am a newly collared slave, although I have been married to him for almost eight years.  When Jon and I first meant he gave me this beautiful choker necklace and it was not until recently(05-06-07) that the exact meaning of the choker came to my knowledge. I was instructed that I am to wear it at all times when I am in his home for his pleasure.  Well one day I removed it after a wicked narly run to take a hot shower and to my dismay I forgot to put it back on before I feel asleep in his chair from the exhausting run and the scalding shower. I woke up to him feeling my neck.  He didn't even have to say a word or punish me, I was so disappointed in myself for not putting it right back on.  I have not got to the point yet wear I feel naked without it around my neck. My wedding band is like that for me.  I always told him that as long as I have my wedding band on, and that is the only thing that I am wearing, then I am not naked, simply complete. I am hoping that the collar will soon become like my wedding band has meant to me all these years.  When I am away from him, I know that I can touch it and still feel like he is with me-I feel close to him.  I did remove the collar recently one night while I was sitting next to him and told him that maybe I was not worthy of being his slave. I thought that is would be easier on him with his existing slave that was causing some conflict with him and her because I was now his slave and no longer his submissive wife with slave tendencies.   Trust me, I was educated on how not to think for himself.  That is one lesson I will never forget.  He did not take the collar from me but advised me to put it back on, as well as to if  I ever removed it again it would signify that I no longer wanted or needed to be owned by him. I was called by my name April for the longest time, instead of slave. My Master has told me that in the future when I do prove myself again that I will be given a collar with the D-ring and locking back where he only has the key.

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RE: you and your collar - 5/27/2007 3:54:27 PM   
ready4srvce4all


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lilprincess25

this is for those whom have physical collars, if you don't and don't believe in them please don't judge.

do you ALWAYS wear your collar?

do you take it off?

if you didn't wear it would your Dom/Domme get pissed at you?

here are my answers
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i do have physical collars, one my Dom currently has with him and one i have with me at home they are not like play collar and formal collar.  they are just my collars.  now i do have a sensitive neck at times, meaning anything on it can make me a little nutty and cause me to tug like crazy on it.  so for that reason i stopped wearing mine.  plus i was working so wearing it to work wasn't really an option especially since i worked on phones and the rings would make noise when i moved.  

when its put on me NO, the only acception was if it really bothered me when i slept then i had permission to take it off.

YEP They did.  even threw at me that a sub that i didn't like, there were some very valid reasons, would wear her's to bed if They let her(course she didn't live with U/us)


As can be seen in my photo, my collar has a lock.  Mistress holds the key.  Yes, I wear my collar 24/7.  It can't be removed, unless Mistress unlocks it, or it is literally cut off of me.  Would She be upset if my collar wasn't on me?  She'd be terrified I think, because that would mean I was in need of some serious medical attention, and it was cut off.  Other than for a medical reason, there really is no need to remove the collar.

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RE: you and your collar - 5/27/2007 4:05:46 PM   
santalia


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Status: offline 		do you ALWAYS wear your collar?

No, i don't. i can't at this time as they are both leather and very lifestyle. One of the two i am not allowed to put on myself, it is only for Him to put on me Himself, and the other i wear when i have private time, without family or UMs around to say "what's that and why are you wearing it??"

do you take it off?

Yes, when i wear the plain one, i take it off after a bit. Usually i wear it at bedtime for about 5-10 minutes, as that's the only time i have alone to wear it. i take it off before i go to sleep because it would not do to have my UMs find me with it on if they wake before i do (which they usually do...)

if you didn't wear it would your Dom/Domme get pissed at you?

i cannot speak for Him, but i believe He would be upset if i didn't wear it for at least a little time every day.


Well wishes

-santalia{JR}

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RE: you and your collar - 5/27/2007 4:28:04 PM   
earthycouple


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ready4srvce4all


As can be seen in my photo, my collar has a lock.  Mistress holds the key.  Yes, I wear my collar 24/7.  It can't be removed, unless Mistress unlocks it, or it is literally cut off of me.  Would She be upset if my collar wasn't on me?  She'd be terrified I think, because that would mean I was in need of some serious medical attention, and it was cut off.  Other than for a medical reason, there really is no need to remove the collar.


I would be terrified if the collar were not on.  Robert is exactly correct in that there is NO reason for it to be off unless I choose to change it or for a medical necessity.

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RE: you and your collar - 5/27/2007 4:31:29 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lilprincess25

this is for those whom have physical collars, if you don't and don't believe in them please don't judge.

do you ALWAYS wear your collar?
Yes I do.

do you take it off?
To shower and when I go to certain tests with patients at work.

if you didn't wear it would your Dom/Domme get pissed at you?
He would be very disappointed.
here are my answers
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i do have physical collars, one my Dom currently has with him and one i have with me at home they are not like play collar and formal collar.  they are just my collars.  now i do have a sensitive neck at times, meaning anything on it can make me a little nutty and cause me to tug like crazy on it.  so for that reason i stopped wearing mine.  plus i was working so wearing it to work wasn't really an option especially since i worked on phones and the rings would make noise when i moved.  

when its put on me NO, the only acception was if it really bothered me when i slept then i had permission to take it off.

YEP They did.  even threw at me that a sub that i didn't like, there were some very valid reasons, would wear her's to bed if They let her(course she didn't live with U/us)


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RE: you and your collar - 5/27/2007 7:46:38 PM   
daddysprop247


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From: DC Metro area
Status: offline 		i have two collars, one "true" collar, and one that's more symbolic, that will get less attention around certain vanillas, like my Master's family. i'm wearing one of the collars at all times, except for the time i spend in the shower. as for how my Master would feel if i didn't wear a collar...well, he wouldn't even allow that to happen. He'd have a collar around my neck so fast, and i'd be getting the spanking of a lifetime. but i love wearing his collar, and would never want to not wear it.

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RE: you and your collar - 5/28/2007 6:54:01 AM   
ownedkitten


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Status: offline 		Greetings lilprincess25,

quote:

ORIGINAL: lilprincess25
do you ALWAYS wear your collar?


Yes.  His collar is removed from my body for medical emergencies only.  He is the only one to remove it, or change it for another (play collar, public collar/necklace).

quote:

ORIGINAL: lilprincess25
do you take it off?


No.

quote:

ORIGINAL: lilprincess25
if you didn't wear it would your Dom/Domme get pissed at you?


If I were to remove the collar, it would just mean that it is no longer on my neck.  As a kajira, I do not have the option of removing consent via taking off a collar.  He must release me - I can beg release, but it is his decision.

Grace in Service,
caitriona


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RE: you and your collar - 5/28/2007 8:38:00 AM   
softness


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From: Leeds, UK
Status: offline 		Haven't been in service for a while but

My "collar" was just a regular necklace that i wore at all times and never took off. My Master would have been very very angry if he ever saw it off my neck unless he had given explicit instruction.

Leather play collar was something worn in private only, never locked on. I had to kiss it before it got put on, and only he could take it off me.

oddly, for my 18th birthday my father bought me a narrow silver band that just cuffs neatly around my neck. Its a perfect public collar. Its my default necklace and for years i never wore anything else. It has often been mistaken for a genuine ownership collar by those in the lifestyle, and has certainly made me think twice about my parents a few times

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RE: you and your collar - 5/28/2007 3:10:19 PM   
rollinonward05


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Status: offline 		Since Master put His collar around my neck i have worn it , except when i bath or shower but it is put back on immediately afterwards.
If i was to forget to wear it Master would ask where it was and likely be unhappy with me that i forgot to put it back on.  I don't forget because His collar means more to me than some decoration around my neck. It is a symbol of the commitment between us.
rollin

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RE: you and your collar - 5/28/2007 10:01:39 PM   
nearnyccouple


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Status: offline 		my collar is a braided bracelet that was his grandmothers formal collar, from his grandpa.  the history behind it makes it very special to me.  I also wear a matching necklace.  the only time they have ever come off, is when the clasp broke and we needed to have it repaired.
i cant imagine ever taking either one off by choice. would he be mad if i took it off? if it were for a medical or emergency reason of course not.  the only other way it would come off is if i were released.
cassie

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RE: you and your collar - 5/28/2007 11:35:52 PM   
onthenosetone


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Status: offline 		Mine is an 8mm Axmar one, it never comes off, infact it's locked on

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RE: you and your collar - 5/28/2007 11:50:19 PM   
SirHedonicsslave


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Status: offline 		I have a bracelet that was given to me when collared, i actually wear it very seldomly right now, because i tend to damage "pretties" due to varies reasons, so it's only really worn when we go somewhere.  I'm just not a jewelry person, never have been, i had a really pretty necklace i wore for a while when collared previously....wore it to work too...had to pick up a patient that was sliding off the deep end of sanity and wound up with a nasty bruise around my neck from him grabbing it and my shirt after ripping my glasses off my face......and spent an hour searching the back of the ambulance for the pendant part of it....

i have nip piercings that He did, so, i always carry that little "reminder" with me and they never come out except to clean them or put the shields on with them....

He doesn't get upset if He sees me without the bracelet, He knows it's safe and sound and better off not on my wrist all the time!


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RE: you and your collar - 5/29/2007 4:28:35 AM   
WillowRain


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do you ALWAYS wear your collar?
yes

do you take it off?
no, with very rare exceptions, ie, airport. Currently the lock is placed on it in such a way that I cannot take it off. I do not have a key.

if you didn't wear it would your Dom/Domme get pissed at you?
I don't know if pissed would be the right word. He would imediately want to know why, and I can't imagine any reason why I wouldn't have it on that wouldn't be a bad one. I better be able to say that it had to be cut off to keep me from choking to death in a tragic car accident or something. Probably best if I'm limping, in a cast and have some stitches to show as well. :P Maybe a note from the rescue team would help. To be honest, if something happened to my collar I would probably be so distressed that I would need a substantial amount of comfort and reasurance. I would need him to help me fix it, because I would be very upset. I actually keep with me the original chain he gave me to wear. When he replaced it with the current one, I asked to keep the first one and I usually have it with me in my pocket book.




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RE: you and your collar - 5/29/2007 2:22:15 PM   
eveningtwilight


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Status: offline 		1) I do not always wear my collar. I want to, but it doesn't always happen.

2) This will sound hypocritical, but I took my collar off once because he stopped noticing me...he didn't notice for a while. Other than that one time, I never took it off (but that's because he has yet to bother putting it back on). Although, sometimes he would want to get me a necklace that he wanted me to wear instead of the collar (say, if we were out to dinner with his mom). Also, his mom buys me necklaces that would not look good with a collar, so the collar would come off for an afternoon when we'd visit her so I could wear her gift instead.

3) When I took it off, he was annoyed, but only because he knew I was upset with him. But he's really not into the lifestyle the way I am so it doesn't mean as much to him.

<sigh>


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RE: you and your collar - 5/29/2007 5:04:42 PM   
Obsidiansnamaste


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lilprincess25
do you ALWAYS wear your collar?

do you take it off?

if you didn't wear it would your Dom/Domme get pissed at you?

here are my answers


Greetings lilprincess

Yes i wear my collar all the time. It is an eternity collar so it does not come off.

Prior to Master permanently collaring me i had a collar of consideration. It was silver and i wore it always except in the bath. If i for some reason forgot to place it back on when i got out of the shower/bath Master would not be pleased.

The only way i am to remove this collar is in the event of an emergency such as needing an MRI or something similar. Even then someone else would need to do it i think as the locking mechanism isn't easy to play with.

i love the weight of His collar on my neck, (it took some getting used to, this is a bit heavier than the silver one) i love being locking with His steel ...quite literally. It is a lovely, loving reminder of what i am, and Whose...similar to a wedding band.

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RE: you and your collar - 5/30/2007 7:39:45 AM   
jmslilbytch


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Status: offline 		Greetings lilprincess,

i have several collars. Once they were put on, they weren't removed unless He removed them, with the exception of neccessity (bathing, swimming, etc.). The one i wear now never comes off. It doesn't lock, but there isn't a need for it to. To me it's the same as the wedding ring or anything else He has put on me over the years.
Would He be upset if it wasn't there? Without a good reason He would be.

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RE: you and your collar - 5/30/2007 10:15:12 AM   
Indemnis


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Status: offline 		Fast reply..

I wear my collar all the time.. I take it off for showers and for sleep (sometimes).  I doubt very highly my D would get angry for that.

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