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RE: Is this Newbie wrong? - 5/27/2007 8:06:44 PM

shyinini

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ORIGINAL: SirDominic

So let me see if I get this right. You want someone to pay your way through life. So money is not the only factor, but it is certainly a primary one. You, in return, want to have this on your terms only. That is, you don't want to commit to anything up front, except the possibility that down the road you may come to love him.

Is it wrong to want this? Nope. You can want anything you choose. I personally think it is a very selfish, all about me, attitude though. You want to take, and you don't want to give until you feel like it. I'm not flaming you, just giving my interpretation of what you said you want.

Namaste, Sir Dominic

Along with this was the, "you mean i cant have any sex for 6 months?"

If ya want kinky sex...go for it...if ya want to be submissive... its not all about sex... snd then. you go from submissive to slave within a moments notice..

come back and be a bottom for a while.... learn

and for the sake of all the good gods in the world...stay away from those online sites like castlerealm....do ya want on line or realtime...

just my snobby opinion tonight

Sirs most excellent beatch snob at times

< Message edited by shyinini -- 5/27/2007 8:07:44 PM >

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RE: Is this Newbie wrong? - 5/28/2007 4:46:05 PM

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With my r/s being new as well, my Dom will take me out for lunch or an early dinner on occasion. And yes he does a lot of nurturing and caring for me when we are together, so no to answer your question in my mind; it's not wrong to be treated like the lady you are and no money does not need to be a factor.

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RE: Is this Newbie wrong? - 5/29/2007 6:23:31 AM

subsfaith

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Welcome newbie!

Flames in your seventh post, well done LOL

To address your questions, is it wrong to want to be treated like a woman and wined and dined? Not at all. It is certainly a factor to me, which is why I chose a man who likes fine food and good service.

Is it wrong for money to be a factor? Well that depends on who is judging. Clearly there are some people here who took offense to your words. For me having a certain lifestyle was inportant. I am an educated woman, solvent although not rolling in dosh, and a hard working professional, and I wanted a man to compliment that. It is often claimed that we have little choice in who we love, however we do have a choice of where we go fishing for love.

I took your words on provision as something much deeper than a financial level. Provision is not just about money it can be related to many different areas.

For me it our my ultimate goal for me to leave my career path and be fulltime in the home providing everything my Sir wants and needs. Some will see it that I don't want to work, so be it. I see it that I will be supporting my Sir in ways that his money cannot buy.

Faith

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