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Calandra -> RE: The Great Domme Migration (5/28/2007 9:34:57 AM)
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subfever, I understand your point, however a liar will always BE a liar until they see the need to stop within themselves. A genuinely truthful person finds lying to be repugnant. I am a firm believer that even a good liar will reveal themselves if you take the time to engage them in deep conversation.
I remember owning a very busy chatroom several years ago. This "slave" was often in there with sad story after sad story. She was very subtle, but there were inconsistencies in her comments. One day she was in there for several hours, during a collaring of two of the regulars, and afterwards when the conversation became more general again. During a lull in chat, she posed a question: "What do you think about a Master who sells his slave when he no longer wants her?" following up with "but what if she doesn't even know the new Master?" etc. In short order, the room was totally focused on her. There were people planning to charge in and arrange an intervention. Others were explaining that she could contact 911 even from a computer, and still others were discussing how she should put his name out in her local area to protect other unsuspecting slaves.
I just sat back for a few minutes and pulled up logs. At one point I was asked in open chat why I was so quiet. I simply replied in public that I was amused at the conversation. People were outraged!!! I simply began reposting this slave's own posts from earlier in the day and previous visits. During the collaring, she had "carressed her naked throat, hoping for the day she would find a Master" just two hours earlier!
She had previously discussed having a teenaged son and owning her own business. Posted links to purchase some of her stuff, even. She got very quiet and left the room humiliated. She'd COUNTED on no one noticing the manipulations. The entire room ended up feeling like donkeys for being fooled.
My point? People sometimes forget to listen to the details and apply them to other things the person has said. If I hear a sub/slave talk about something one day, then another day they say something that doesn't fit, I DO NOT point it out at first. I act very interested in the story and ask for details. Only when I am fairly sure that there is still an inconsistency will I then mention the previous information and confess My confusion. I listen closely to the explanation.
It's called critical thinking and we all have a responsibility to make sure that we are not EASILY fooled. If someone fools Me for any length of time, I am seriously impressed. That person deserves an Oscar!
Most liars want easy targets, if I refuse to swallow everything someone says, then I have protected Myself and those who are in My life from this unethical person.
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