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What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 4:21:22 AM

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It was suggested on another post that we consider this question separately, so here it is. Please note this is specifically worded to ask your OPINION on the matter. As such no arguments or attacks are necessary, let's let everyone have their say please.

IMO there are two types of bisexuality. One is more Situational Bisexuality and the other true Bisexuality. My partner is situationally bisexual. He enjoys giving and receiving anal and fellatio. He is not in any way interested in forming a relationship with a man beyond being friends, or friends who fuck. In my case i have all of those sexual feelings about a woman, but i have also found myself attracted to a few women in my life who i felt both sexually attracted to and could picture making a life with. I do tend to look on the hetero side when searching for someone, but never discount a female unless i want cbt to be a part of the play. I would be just as happy with a woman to rub my feet and do my laundry as a man. I see myself as bisexual because i am interested in the whole person being in all parts of my life, not just the bedroom parts.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 4:30:01 AM

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To me being bisexual is being physically and mentally attracted to women and to desire them. It is a constant desire that is always there. It isn't to me being with a woman at one time because someone told you to do so. It is a true desire within me to be with a woman just as much as it is to be with a man. It isn't just the act itself but to me it is the desire and attraction throughout.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 4:30:56 AM

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in my view, i am bisexual becuase the forms of both sexes are exciting to me. i enjoy sex with both for different reasons. in my single days, long, long ago, gender was not a discriminating factor. i wanted relationships with good souls, not the flesh sack the soul was wrapped in. my logic doesn't work for everyone, but i am married to an amazing soul wrapped in a sexy body, so it worked for me

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 4:49:46 AM

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Q: What is Bisexuality to YOU?
A: Not quite heterosexual but not necessarily gay either.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 4:52:18 AM

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I personally think bisexual is someone who will do sexual acts with either sex. I class myself as bisexual because Ive done it with the ladies and the men , that said its always been situational though had I met a woman I thought was right for me I wouldnt of hesitated in having a relationship with them its just never happened.
My question is whats metrosexual

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 5:04:42 AM

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To me, it is a form of sexual attraction that extends not only to women, but also to men, though it need not be a 'full' physical relationship with the latter. Even a mild attraction, enough to make me feel aroused by that person, would count.

In other words, if i am involved in a sexual relationship with a woman, and at the same time aroused sexually by the physical or mental attributes of a man, i would consider myself to be bisexual, whether i get intimate with him or not.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 5:09:22 AM

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Bisexuality to me...makes sense. Why limit myself to only men or only women when I can have my choice of both?!

I find women alluring, sexy, and a huge turn on. I find men enticing, virile and a huge turn on. Living as a heterosexual just doesn't make sense for me when both men and women have qualities that make me giddy.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 6:19:51 AM

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Bi sexuality to me, is the ability to enjoy sexual activity with both genders.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 6:27:23 AM

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To me its about sex with both genders.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 6:49:33 AM

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Ummm..."homosexual" may be hard to define, but "bisexual" isn't. Someone is bisexual if he or she enjoys sex with both men and women.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 7:00:34 AM

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Although I don't especially like that you've given bisexuality two separate designations - "situational" and "true", I think it's true that people consider it differently. When we think of heterosexuality we usually think of those who are in it just for the sex and those who want to and are capable of forming close, and committed relationships...but we don't usually label ppl either "situational" or "true" heteros. So, I don't know why we would want to do this with bi's.

I think if you're bi, you're just bi...doesn't matter to me what degree. But there should be some degree of pleasure for the individual...I mean some attraction there...If as a part of service your dom "forces" you to have sex with a same sex partner which you would otherwise not do b/c there is no natural leaning in that direction for you, then I would say you are probably not bi...but just because you only enjoy the sexual aspects of it, but cannot see yourself forming a deep relationship with a person of the same gender, does not make you any less bi (or gay, for that matter) than someone who can and does.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 7:05:47 AM

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For me I've found that people tend to either be bisexual because they enjoy the physical act of sex with the same sex or they enjoy the same sex beyond the physical i.e. some sort of intimate relationship... I don't see a problem with either preference I just fall into the latter in which I enjoy the other sex as a whole.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 7:13:21 AM

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In my opinion bisexuality is simply any act of bisexuality. Of course, there are degrees to which a person is bisexual, but if the tendencies are there to a certain extent, they are, in fact, bisexual.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 7:42:34 AM

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I think of being bisexual the same way I think of being straight or gay... it is the ability to form romantic intimate relationships with either sex.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 8:09:53 AM

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Somehow, I don't think 'romance' has to be part of the equation; that isn't the case with opposite sex attractions...so why same-sex?

The part that I think is odd is that, while I list myself as bi, I cannot just be 'ordered' to do a woman. Like others here, I need to find the whole person attractive...not just the bedroom parts. I guess 'sharing' with people I hardly know is just a limit...

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 8:47:06 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: canupleaseme

My question is whats metrosexual

...a bisexual living in a built up area.......

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 8:51:15 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

Somehow, I don't think 'romance' has to be part of the equation; that isn't the case with opposite sex attractions...so why same-sex?

The part that I think is odd is that, while I list myself as bi, I cannot just be 'ordered' to do a woman. Like others here, I need to find the whole person attractive...not just the bedroom parts. I guess 'sharing' with people I hardly know is just a limit...

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I say that because in my opinion being "Gay" is not just about having sex and what we do with our genitals. It is about who we identify with having an intimate relationship. If being gay is not about just sex, then why is being bisexual? To me we are more than what we do with our genitals, it is whom we form attachments to that matters (just my opinion)

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 8:53:55 AM

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For me and me only; bisexuality is simply having sex with the same gender

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 8:55:07 AM

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There are other bi-sexuals. The “trew” will understand.

Bi only in “scene”
Bi only for master when he requests
Bi until I found my master
Bi after my last boyfriend dumped me and I’m fed up with men
Bi until I find “the one” opposite sex partner
Bi because it gets me more play partners
Bi because it’s what I’ve been told is attractive.

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RE: What is Bisexuality to YOU? - 5/29/2007 8:58:40 AM

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I don't see why it's such a big problem for people to understand. If you are attracted to both genders, you're bi; same gender only, you're gay; opposite gender only, straight.
Being bi doesn't make a person any different from anyone who is straight or gay -- other than perhaps increasing our options on potential partners.
As for people who like same sex interactions some times but don't want a relationship, heck there are people I'd love to have a roll in the hay with but would never consider getting into a relatioship with. That doesn't mean I am not into their gender; it just means I am not into that person romantically.
My ex used to call himself heteroflexible -- I call it closet bi. If you are a person who likes pussy and dick, deal with it, you're bi.

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