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I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 7:50:32 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		I have always liked the AskAMaster section, how do you Masters
feel about Dominant women posting here?
I know many Dominant women do, but I was just curious about how you feel.
Can Dominant women be Masters?
Some of us women tend to relate more to Dominant men than being a "Mistress".

What about the Dominant women that want to cross the lines here?

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 7:52:45 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I post where I can offer something worth reading.  I post in ask a submissive/slave forum, I post here, and in the Gorean Forums too. It has nothing to do with what I identify as. It ha to do with what I can contribute to.
But thats just me

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 7:52:48 PM   
Kinkypupper


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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 7:55:07 PM   
proudsub


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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 7:55:36 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Yeeeeeeeeeee Hawwwwwwwwww
I feel the love.
I was overdosing on way too much estrogen on another board,
thank you.
I needed shelter.
I will just put my tent in the corner.
Can I do my roll call here?

< Message edited by MzMia -- 5/29/2007 8:08:42 PM >

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 8:40:24 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		Well, seeing as I get to quite happily post in the room next-door, no reason why we can't be good neighbors.

It smells nicer in here already!

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 8:49:52 PM   
SadisticMan


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all the same really, more of personal perference, I have seen Ladies call
themselves Masters.  Seems ok to me.



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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 8:54:05 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Thanks I like it here.
Setting up camp here, ready to take notes.

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 8:56:08 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I think it would be pretty boring in here if dominant women didn't post.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

I have always liked the AskAMaster section, how do you Masters
feel about Dominant women posting here?

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 10:06:05 PM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		Mia - leave roll call for the Mistresses board. ~chuckles~ The guys already participate in it over there anyway.

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 10:07:59 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Elorin, I am taking a break from participating there for a while.
I hope someone will continue with it over there.
I have pitched a tent over here.

whispering-last one out, bring the flag!

< Message edited by MzMia -- 5/29/2007 10:12:13 PM >

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 11:29:47 PM   
robertolapiedra


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Status: offline 		Hello MzMia. The best "Master" (M/s) I ever met was a domme. She was Magic!

I was having coffee with her once at her place, when her "boy" interrupted us with something he was "trying" to say. She never blinked an eye, she kept eye contact with me but she stopped talking, maybe for 3 or 5 seconds. Then, she resumed her sentence as if nothing happened (intentional ignorance technique)!

You should have seen her "boy's" (32 year old at the time) expression! Eyes all watery, red faced, frustrated and terrorized at the same time. Even I started to "melt" from the heat! Pure poetry, "pure" p-o-e-t-r-y...

She was my second mentor, highly praised and recommended by my first.

You bet your sweet ass you can post here! RL.

Edit: added "you bet your sweet ass you can post here!


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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/29/2007 11:44:36 PM   
DominaSmartass


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

Can Dominant women be Masters?


Hell yes! Many are. I will never, ever, ever, ever (ever) take on the title "Mistress" cause it's just not me. I am more male identified in my D/s, and could someday see myself even wanting to be called Sir though for now Ma'am is ok. It's less common in the general bdsm community but among Leather folks it's generally more accepted for both men and women to be given a "Master's Cover" by their community or peers when it is deemed they have indeed acheieved the level of Master. Whether each person chooses to go by that title or a more feminine rendition is their own choice. See MasterFireMaam for a perfect example. But to me and many I know, "Master" is a gender-neutral term.

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/30/2007 2:15:14 AM   
swtnsparkling


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quote:

Can Dominant women be Masters?


Sure why not
but
isn't a F master called a mistress lol
(don't mind me)

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/30/2007 2:53:16 AM   
HeavansKeeper


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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/30/2007 3:45:09 AM   
Valyraen


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Status: offline 		Aww, man! It's no fun if you tell them that at the beginning! Takes away all of the wonderful opportunity for... bah, I know I was going somewhere comedic with that, but I lost it halfway through posting.

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/30/2007 4:11:47 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		I spend the vast majority of my online time in BDSM Forums - mostly at CM these days....  Been here a few years now but I can't say as I've *ever* posted in "Ask a Mistress" or "Ask a Submissive/Slave" for obvious reasons....
 
That said, "Ask a Master" would be fairly slow if only the male Doms posted.  Especially so as there's few left that I haven't had a heated exchange with!  lmao  But what I do find is that I'm more mindful of my manners with ladies "in the room" - Domme or sub.  I don't exactly enjoy argueing with women (the "rules" within me change) but when it does happen, I'm far more comfortable going hard at a Domme than with a fem/sub.  But always in self-defence only! 
 
Most will agree that women see the world differently to men, just as submissives have a different perspective to dominants....  So yeah, I can get a bit combative when women in 'Ask a Master' start telling me how I'm wrong about something....  lol 
 
But it's all good....  Welcome - and post away!
 
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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/30/2007 4:16:51 AM   
PsyVamp


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Status: offline 		I am NOT going to be the last one out, someone else can get the flag....
;)
Oh, by the way, I am going to Master's training in the fall... See if they can teach a not so old bitch some new tricks.

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/30/2007 4:47:10 AM   
smilezz


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Status: offline 		A Dominant is a Dominant.........regardless of Gender.  I know quite a few Females that classify themselves as Master instead of Mistress.  

The only one that it bothers is the one's that get their panties in a bunch over the "title" of it all. 

Happy Wednesday!
~smilezz~

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RE: I like it here, can Dominant women be Masters? - 5/30/2007 5:05:49 AM   
MHOO314


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