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adult littles? - 5/30/2007 4:47:04 PM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		i was wondering how many other adult littles there are out there? what do you (and possibly your partner) do to encourage the little part of yourself? do you know others in real life with littles? do your littles interact with your UMs? how do you protect your littles? any funny stories your littles would kick you in the shins for telling?

i will answer my questions later...

oh and my deffinition of a little - a part of your personality or a role that you play that has traits or acts like like a child after you turn 18

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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 4:51:26 PM   
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"adult littles"?


what's this mean?


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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 4:56:56 PM   
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oh and my deffinition of a little - a part of your personality or a role that you play that has traits or acts like like a child after you turn 18


Thank you for this definition because i was indeed lost lol.  To me littles were little cartoon character people who lived in the walls of this house....but i digress...

Hope you find the answer you seek.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 5:09:38 PM   
chellekitty


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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 5:11:30 PM   
CuriousLord


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Status: offline 		I've always thought it was cute.

That, plus I'm afraid of dying.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 5:32:30 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		<makes hand signals that signifies 'ageplay' to the uninitiated>

At my first Lifestyle gathering back in the Stone Age, I met all kinds of people, including an adult baby.  Diaper, bottle, pacifier, the whole bit.  At the time, I was curious but not repulsed.  Didn't figure it was my thing.  Of course, the more you are exposed to something, the more likely your mind can change about things.

Although I don't exactly know to what extent we might 'go', I do know that there will be some ageplay in my future.  Probably not all of the time, and not necessarily 'planned'.  Possibly (or probably) not even that 'young'.  No matter, as I am getting tastes of 'Daddy'hood, and it really is rather intriguing and easy for me.

Neither my partner nor I have little ones to concern ourselves around (yet), but in the long run it will not be an issue.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 6:02:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		More than most think at first.  The DC area is great- they have birthday parties for "kids" at the clubs, they have a Kidz Kamp at Camp Crucible, they have a regular age play munch...it's very supported and accepted there.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_668543/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#668698
Age play dynamics

http://www.collarchat.com/m_580865/mpage_1/key_age%252Cplay/tm.htm#580890
Ms and age play

http://www.collarchat.com/m_546688/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#546972
Another daddy dom question

http://www.collarchat.com/m_541638/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#541832
How does a dom decide to be a daddy ?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_540044/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#540129
Daddy's Girl

http://www.collarchat.com/m_278285/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#278992
What exactly is a daddy dom?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_259176/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#259184
Are there any daddies here?

Daddy/Daughter Roleplay

Daddydoms and Babygirls

Daddy?

Daddy/little girl

Hiding Daddy's Belt

Daddy doms

Daddy's little girl

Daddy? (2)

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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 6:22:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		i would consider myself an AB or a little. i have a bottle that i sometimes drink out of. i often carry a blankie around the house with me. i wear diapers 24/7. i use a pacifier. i have a onesie and a teddy bear. Sometimes i will color in a coloring book or listen to Disney music. i use Johnsons baby products like shampoo and baby oil so that i smell like a baby. my Dom (Daddy) will sometimes feed me a bottle or change my diaper. He often hands me my pacifier or teddy bear to use at night. He calls me His babygirl and encourages me to continue exploring this side of me. i guess it's just comforting for me. It makes me feel safe and warm. my stress and worries disappear. Daddy loves me unconditionally and is protective of His babygirl. It's nice. There's nothing that feels better than being loved like that; like nothing bad in the world can touch you.

i've never met any other ABs in person but i've met a lot of them online. i have a myspace page for this side of me where i can meet other people with the same interest. i've also talked to a lot of ABs in forums specifically made for this lifestyle.

my Dom, my mom, and my two sisters are the only ones who know about my AB side. Almost everyone knows that i am in a D/s relationship and that i'm into BDSM. For some reason i am embarassed to admit that i am an AB though. i'm actually a little nervous about posting this. i guess it's because a lot of people don't understand ABs. Many connect it with pedophilia. Others think it's repulsive and squicky. It's different and strange so people get uncomfortable when they hear about it. i just don't want to be judged.

When i was a kid (around 10 years old), i used to fantasize about being a baby. Those fantasies disappeared over time but they resurfaced after i met my current Dom who has a diaper fetish. It's not sexual in any way. This is true for A LOT of adult babies. i personally think that my interest in this has a lot to do with some things that happend to me as a kid. It doesn't really matter what the reasons are for liking it though. It makes me happy so why not? Like i always say, do what you like, like what you do.

BTW, what is a UM?



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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 6:33:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subsnow

BTW, what is a UM?



An unmentionable, someone (small, young) who shouldn't be mentioned here, or certainly not in sexual ways.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 6:56:13 PM   
mythi


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As Master/Daddy said, he's got a little on his hands.  (Which is great cus it makes my butt all toasty warm! )  We havent had a chance yet to discuss how far the actual ageplaying might go, as we are still 'newlycuffeds', but I have a feeling it's going to be based more on his limits and squicks than mine.  Which means it'll likely go pretty dang far! lol 

For myself, by myself, stuff I do to specifically indulge is dressing a bit young esp. nightclothes, sleeping with a teddy bear and security blanket, coloring with crayons, playing with my dog, going to the zoo, playing outside in the mud when it rains, reading children's books and watching kid movies.  Those sorta things.

So far Master's been limited in his expression by the distance that's between us, but he frequently addresses me as his girl, and tucks me in every night via chat/cam, makes sure I do stuff I might otherwise forget, and cuddles the stuffin' out of me when we're physically together.  He really is a natural!  And I'm soooo looking forward to getting to spend a whole week with him soon.  *dances about excitedly*

As to others, I work with a fairly playful bunch of people, not too serious environment most of the time.  One in particular is also very childlike and we're partners in crime...chasing each other thru the building, tussling, giggling, inventing ways to shock the boys, and there might have been a water fight out back just this one time...   *whistles innocently*

Edited to add:  I also use personal care products meant for kids, subsnow.  Kid age tho, not baby products except rarely...and only since they started making them smell like something other than baby powder which I dont personally like.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 7:15:58 PM   
subsnow


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Status: offline 		Thank you mstrjx.

Yay! **hugs mythi** i love finding others like me. my Daddy squeezes the stuffing out of me too. He also likes to tickle me and tussle with me. i wish i could find other ABs in my area to play with but i don't think that will be very easy.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 7:24:14 PM   
Lynae78


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Status: offline 		Hey what about Mommy's and their little boys and girls? I know not as common, but would like to see posts about that.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 7:35:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've noticed that.  It does seem that there is a great deal more of the Daddy/Little girl existing visibly in the world. 

Strangely, though, the AB CSI ep featured a Little Boy and his Mommy!

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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 11:09:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know I've seen a lot more Mommies than Daddies in some places.  It's just most refer to the Daddies, not sure why...

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RE: adult littles? - 5/30/2007 11:30:47 PM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		Where I lived previously, a male AB used to come regularly to Our parties. He was very well liked and accepted, though it took him a while to feel comfortable and confident enough to just wander round in his diapers and t-shirt. His teddybear was always a big hit with the ladies though! I felt very honoured that he once asked Me if I would be his "Mommy" but I gently explained that as I had never had real babies nor even babysat infants and had absolutely no idea what to do with a diaper ... I didn't think I'd be very good at it! I've just never been into babies at all, other than baby cats or dogs! However, a previous (online) "slave" used to call Me Mistress Mommy and I quite liked it, but then he was acting more as a child than a baby. Still disappointed that things didn't work out for him to come and be with Me, I think that he might have been a very good "fit". *sigh*

There was also a girl with a new older Master, and they were just starting to explore ageplay, she was very keen and just loved her pacifier! He liked it cos it kept her quiet for a while so He got a word in at the parties LOL! I've never found it "squicky" and it's obviously NOT to do with pedophilia, just helping someone explore the child within, something the transactional analysis people got into years ago. I would hope all ABs find that special someOne to share their gifts.

Maam Jay

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 12:27:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		Every now and then I treat My Pet as though she was a child.  I'd have her order from the kid's menu, play Santa with me, maybe I'll teach her the different types of clouds... Anyone know a middle-school surplus store?  I could use a student desk with the attached table segment for a few things.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 1:13:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		My feeties are very ticklish and Daddy takes whicked delight and joy in holding down my feeties and tickling them, and I kick and squeal and insist stop, that tickles stop, but he knows I don't really have a problem, so daddy don't stop tickling them till I can get my feetsies out of his lap.
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He also likes to tickle me and tussle with me.


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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 1:50:23 AM   
farieanne


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i don't consider myself and adult little or an AB or my Master a Daddy Dom and Wwe really do not age play. Wwe concider Oourselves more M/s i think. He is a little Daddy Dom and Wwe are often very Parent/child like. Wwe are a lot Master/slave.

With that said, i call my Master either Master or Daddy. He always orders for me. He makes all my appointments and deals with getting meds filled. Really He deals with all business things. i rarely pay for anything. He calls me from work everyday to have me get up and to take my meds. He controls what and when i eat and what and how much i drink. Sugar He regulates a lot. i am not allowed to use profanity. If i ever have a problem with anything or anyone i am to call Him on the spot and He takes over and deals with it. He has a say in all my clothing. He loves school girl outfit, specially thigh highs and my hair either down or in ponytails.

He calls me either lil one or baby girl. i have to ask for everything and anything. i do not work or drive. i do have chores i must do everyday. i watch Disney movies and i own most of them. i color in coloring books with crayons. i am obsessed with pink, fairies, Tinker Bell, stuffed animals, and dolls. i also have three dogs, two cats, and five ferrets. i am afraid of the dark so my Master makes sure i am NEVER in the dark. i get distracted very easily and my Master says He thinks i was a fairy or a humming bird in another life.

i don't wear a diaper or have a bottle or a pacifier. He doesn't feed me or change me. Wwe do tickle and wrestle a little. He cuddles me a lot. Wwe are very touchy feely, always touching. Wwe do silly things like moon each other, OFTEN, laugh a LOT, run through stores and the mall. Wwe have wonderful conversations about anything and everything, Wwe hold nothing back from each other. Wwe Heckle movies, LOUDLY, in the theater. Wwe embarrass His UM buy making out in public. i guess that answers if i interact with His UM's. LoL!

Like many people on here, it seems, i have also had some experience with abuse in my past. i don't have a problem with it or issues with it and i have never ever had anything "trigger" bad reactions because of it. i HATE old spice and bag balm but they do not trigger anything other than i can't seem to like them or get past their smell. Wwe do not know any "littles" or "ABs" and the thought of age play does freak me out a LITTLE. At the same time i get it. my Master fills a hole in me that i always knew was there but didn't understand it. i am much more child like and feminine now with my Master than i have ever been because i feel more free to be me than i ever have before in my life. i have never felt more safe, protected, cherished, or loved. it feels like heaven.

WOW! i wrote a book. LoL! Hope someone got this far, *giggles*

edited to add i would much rather see two consenting adults age play than have someone acting out His/Her fantasies with a UM. So i say to each Hhis/Hher own and live and let live!

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 6:57:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RuheMaus
I know I've seen a lot more Mommies than Daddies in some places.  It's just most refer to the Daddies, not sure why...

Because this is a primarily heterosexual site and it's not nearly as common in the het side of things.

Here you go Lynae:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_827564/mpage_1/key_mommy/tm.htm
Where are the mommy doms

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 9:55:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		First off I have strong views on AB and littles {bites tougue}, yet, I think its funny how those on here think that colouring in a colour book, watching Disney movies, using products made for children, etc, consider those things to be part of AB or being a little. I do that stuff an I am NOT way near being an AB.

Using a colouring book is relaxing, its a way to get my creative energy out when I can't get my writing brain working. Products made for children don't [normally] irritate my skin, I have extreamly sensative skin {my seatbelt gives me an allergic reaction, so I have to be carefull}, and children's products don't usually cause my reactions to act up. Also, I am a single mother, so having children's stuff around all the time is normal. I have close guy friends that call me 'baby doll' or 'doll' or 'baby' they are endearing and very personal terms and NO way related to AB. I LOVE cuddling an I am VERY touchy feely, its who I am.

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