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What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 8:38:10 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Just very recently, I posted on different boards that I'm not interested in forced femme.  It's just not My thing.  So it made Me wonder about the following.......
 
We all know what excites Us about the lifestyle, but which parts of it just don't interest you?
 
For Me, scat, non-consentual play (not meaning the play type where there is underlying consnt), anyone underage, and forced femme to name a few.  What are yours?
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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 8:40:22 AM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		AB, forced fem, female superiority, scat.

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 8:51:59 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		I have my limits which are scat, spitting, anyone under 21, permanant damage.

But for sake of this discussion, I have some things that are not necessarily a limit per se but instead just don't really do it for me.  Sounds and adult babies are among the forms of play that do nothing for me.  There are also other forms of play that on the surface I would enjoy but would not enjoy as much if the submissive was not getting something out of it.  Water sports are among those things I enjoy sometimes depending on the submissive.  Feminization is something I enjoy a lot but only if the sub is doing it and having fun to be funny or just please me or if they are really into it.  If they don't care either way, I will usually pass.

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 8:54:52 AM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		i would post what i'm not into, but everyone already knows and is pretty much tired of hearing about them.

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 8:56:47 AM   
YesMistressIrish


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Status: offline 		Forced Fem, although feminizing when it is desired is fun to teach. Underage, emasculation, scat (yuck), anything else is just dandy!

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 8:58:53 AM   
ForLoveOfWoman


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Scat sounds like a no-go for me. I'm still learning the vocabulary. I have lead a fairly vanilla life.


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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 10:14:20 AM   
MistressSassy66


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Status: offline 		I am not into anything that draws blood (needles or piercings) OR full toilet service or enemas.I also dont do age play and I'm not into strap-on play either.Not into underage people sessioning either.

Thats about it for the wont do ever.

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 10:44:34 AM   
MistressDolly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Just very recently, I posted on different boards that I'm not interested in forced femme.  It's just not My thing.  So it made Me wonder about the following.......
 
We all know what excites Us about the lifestyle, but which parts of it just don't interest you?
 
For Me, scat, non-consentual play (not meaning the play type where there is underlying consnt), anyone underage, and forced femme to name a few.  What are yours?


Underage

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 11:06:51 AM   
DrPleasure


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Status: offline 		Role-play with bad actors.  It's SOOOOOO horrible.

Also, the whole "bark like a dog" thing.  Stupid.

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 11:09:26 AM   
Politesub53


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Status: offline 		While i think it sounds edgy, from what i read on another thread breath play is a no no. It just sounds way too dangerous.

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 11:16:39 AM   
LadyDominaX


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Status: offline 		I have what I call the 3D rule, no death, dogs, or diapers.
I have no interest at all in scat, age play, necrophilia or bestiality.



Edited for typos.  Need more caffeine.



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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 11:19:26 AM   
marieToo


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Status: offline 		Cages.

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 11:51:44 AM   
Arastella


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Status: offline 		The same as yours as well as anything that breaks the skin or draws blood.  I don't like watersports and definitely not animal play.  Or having a man please me then sticking the finger he just used on my to my mouth and wanting me to lick my own stuff..... *shivers*

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 11:54:42 AM   
Arastella


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ORIGINAL: marieToo

Cages.
I love cages.  Dunno, just love the feeling of being completely enclosed, like being wrapped up in a warm embrace, completely safe and secure yet still waiting upon ur owner's command.

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 12:09:19 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear LadyPact, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I am another individual who dislikes 'forced' [insert the list, e.g. feminization, Bi and or slavery].  In my mind's eyes this is a consensual partnership and forcing is not consent.  Role play is great for an occasional scene fun but, not as the foundation to a lifestyle and or M/s relationship.
 
I also dislike body solid waste voiding, the body liquid waste play as well.  I have used other means to do the exact thing without exposing me body wise to the behavior.
 
I find displeasure in child and or baby role-play.  If I wanted to be a mother, I would have.
 
I also am not one to enjoy humiliation.  With so much of it in every day life--I do not find it enjoyable in my private life.  If I have to lean down that far to get a response, obedience--I rather not have that person and or slave/submissive.  I have a rather high bar when it comes to slave attitude and behavior.
 
I also am not impressed with brats or players, games that some make of the lifestyle.  I dislike drama and the emotional, mental, physical and or emotional vampires.  The "Do me" and those who thrive on "Attention on me" sorts are also avoided.
 
Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs
 
 

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 12:24:38 PM   
daggyrOfWolfJust


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Status: offline 		...not having my dislikes being taken seriously....feeling as if i have to defend those feelings. living as a submissive does not mean i should have to forgo my own limits for the sake of Someone elses' pleasure.
that being said....scat....needles....ageplay.....degradation....
be well Aall
daggyr

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 1:06:12 PM   
liks2plzlf


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Status: offline 		Anything that would get me into serious trouble with the law. Anything that would be considered unsafe, by most of the posters on cm. Anything that would embarrass me or expose me to my famuily.

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 1:19:03 PM   
slaveluci


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or
any type of public play/nudity.  I don't mean threesomes or moresomes, but rather before a crowd like at a "play" party.  That is the one aspect of this "lifestyle" I absolutely do not wish to participate in.  It's not a hang-up.  I'm far from being prudish.  It's just such an invasion of my privacy.  In my opinion and in our relationship, intimacy is not for public display and critique....slave luci

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 1:47:53 PM   
KaramelGoddess


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Status: offline 		Hi LadyPact!
 
My don'ts in order of yuckiness:
 
  • adult babies
  • scat/watersports/bodily wastes
  • forced femme
  • whips (I hate em, but love other methods of beating ass)
  • switches (not the sticks you grab from outside, the people who switch)
  • tickling
  • clowns (the movie IT made me hate both them AND balloons... *shudder*) 

Thanks for an interesting thread!
 
With kind regard,
~Kara

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RE: What's not your thing? - 6/1/2007 1:51:21 PM   
thetammyjo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Just very recently, I posted on different boards that I'm not interested in forced femme. It's just not My thing. So it made Me wonder about the following.......

We all know what excites Us about the lifestyle, but which parts of it just don't interest you?

For Me, scat, non-consentual play (not meaning the play type where there is underlying consnt), anyone underage, and forced femme to name a few. What are yours?


Just an aside, but things that are not consented to are not in my very strong opinion part of BDSM.

I don't do cross-dressing -- I play with both males and females and I prefer androgynous looking and acting partners.

I don't do humilation -- why would I want someone inferior or a worm or anything like that. Why would I pretend I do?

I don't do "rape scenes" -- tried it and the idea that I'm playing a rapist makes my skin crawl. If I own someone I take what I want from them when I want it -- that isn't' rape, it's exercise my ownership.

I don't do age play where the sub/slave pretends to be a child. Survived child abuse, see it as having zero erotic interest for me.

I don't do thinks that exchange body fluid unless we are so far along in the relationship we are basically in a closed group and are very safe.

Don't have intercourse with partners -- not ready or interested in being a parent and I consider any risk to be too much risk in that area.

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