sublimelysensual
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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl in high school, having big breasts meant you were easy I have found that a lot of people seem to associate large breasts with being less intelligent. It's a stereotype that I've fought all of my life. At age 28, I was awarded a $50million account. I was a size 8 with 35DD, looked like I was 18, and this was a Japanese owned company. Everyday for the first 6 months was a battle. I worked 10 - 12 hour days and went home exhausted everynight. I got called "Honey" and caught men trying to look down my suit coat. I dislike focus on my breasts. I dislike men that don't know that I have eyes. Matter fact, I don't enjoy having them touched. Playboy did a study and found that people do assume that the larger the breast, the dumber and more sleazy the woman. It's very annoying. I ended up doing a sculpture where I took molds of my breasts (I think back then I was a DDD) and I stabbed with them with the under wires from my old and broken bras. Then I mixed up red glitter with glue for the blood. My male teacher hated it, which may have been because I don't particularly excel at sculpture but I found it very therapeutic. your teacher had no true artistic taste ...i would have immediately identified with your sculpture. sometimes i felt i should have painted eyes on my chest since the guys would talk below my face rather than at my face. I'm also amply endowed, and although it took plenty of time to get to this point ( I'm very non-confrontational), when a man starts talking to my chest now, I wait for them to finish what they're saying.. then very slowly and deliberately lower my gaze to their crotch and answer. -laughs- The reaction is usually pretty priceless, and it definitely gets the point across. As to the topic at hand, (if the question is genuine, which I have reservations about), other than the erotic/sensory effects of breast play, there are no psychological effects for me, not really sure what the OP means by that, not as if when a Dom plays with the twins I start thinking, "Oh, He must love me if He's playing with my breasts".. *g* if I did think that, well..I would have stopped trying by now and have given up permanently. -a
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"To make oneself an object, to make oneself passive, is a very different thing from being a passive object." -Simone De Beauvoir -'The Second Sex'
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