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ORIGINAL: SirKenin
Funny that someone should start such a pointless thread. If the title has meaning other than "I am better than Y/you" then so what? Whatever works for them.

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I am sure that Lady Angelika is not an herb that tastes like celery.

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ORIGINAL: jamesdean

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I find it absolutely silly and immature for a Dom/top to adopt a meaningless royalty title like LORD, DUKE, COUNT or BARON whatever.

Thank you for your opinion but what do you like for your sub/slave to call you? Also remember that some ppl just want to be a little different. If everyone went by Master, Daddy, Mistress, Dame, Maam or Sir, the munch might be a little boring. I remember one Dommina dressed up in a Bee costume calling herself "Queen B." She had a submissive dressed in simmalr atire named "Worker Bee." It was different and cute as it added flavor and creativity to the event. So when attending an event do you think less of a Dom using a title?

Most Dom's want to be called something by there subs and it would be nice to think outside your box.


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As for myself, I suppose I'm fairly pedestrian about it. Padriag actually is my first name.

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ORIGINAL: junecleaver


Wow. That's pretty cool. Why did your parents name you Padriag?

My guess is because it went really well with the rest of my very Irish name... Padriag Sean O'Neal

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ORIGINAL: jamesdean

I understand the use of the social or courtesy titles Master and slave, both in the intimate context of a lifestyle realtionship and in a scene. However, I find it absolutely silly and immature for a Dom/top to adopt a meaningless royalty title like LORD, DUKE, COUNT or BARON whatever. If it is used as part of an email handle I might find it easier to understand, but when it is expected in a greeting or as salutation, I think a serious reality check long over due. Anyone else find this silly?

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On another note, my own screen name. "GoddessBellissima". Kinda full
of itself, on it's own. My intention though was descriptive rather
than a self imposed honorific. There are 5 arch-typical roles that
female dominants generally fall into. (I will not list/describe them
all, merely give you the frame of reference & you can read for
yourselves: "The Mistress Manual" by Mistress Lorelei available
through greenerypress.com - nice lil handbook during my earlier
times) My preference is the Goddess role. She who is to be
worshipped, adored, put on a pedestal, yada, yada, yada, ad
nauseum/infinitum. I in no way identify myself as a deity. That
would be foolhardy in the extreme & pompous as hell. I simply enjoy
being pampered. What woman wouldn't?? The latter part of my screen
name was taken from a nick name an old boyfriend tagged me with. He
used to call me "Mia Bellissima". Italian for "My Beautiful". Or
some other rough translation thereof. I lopped off the possessive, &
slapped the two together. Not because my vanity demands a lofty
label but because, heck, it sounds good that way, lol.

I'm getting a burning sensation around the ears.... I can almost
HEAR the clamoring over this ~softer~ side. What about my sadistic
nature known to so many? That's simple. I do flip between the
Goddess & the Amazon at will. It's just my nature. Don't try to
figure it out. I gave up ages ago, hehe.

Personally, I'm never comfortable with titles, honorifics, etc. Even
in scene. I designate the usage of the Goddess title during a scene
though because it appears to make the sub/bottom/slave more at ease.
It establishes a heirarachy in which they can relax, give over
control & find freedom in their letting go. I think a basic "Ma'am"
is a good all around term because it denotes deference without
actually having to go into all the other factors. Such as intimacy,
romance, etc.

I certainly don't feel either gender is superior to the other.
Respect should never be given, it better damn well be earned!
Courtesy on the other hand, is just good manners. All should
practice it, especially if they'd like to have it returned.

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I HATE IT I HATE IT I HATE IT. Just tell me what to freaking call you, or else I'm going to guess something like "orange painted plastic eye" and you're going to think that I disrespect you. Well, I do. My hard limits are : cutting, urethral sounds, and GUESSING GAMES.

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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

Heh. I'm invovled in the SCA, every time I see a title like that I want to ask...."so, where did you reign?"

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ORIGINAL: Lepidoptera

Oh God, titles.

So, my first Master wanted me to call him Master.

The second Dom I started to play with made me guess what to call him. So I said, tentatively, "Master?" He then replied that I was wrong, because we weren't in a relationship, that I was to call him "Sir."

The third Dom made me guess too. So I said, tentatively, "Sir?" He then replied that he hated that because he was in the military. So of course, Master.

I HATE IT I HATE IT I HATE IT. Just tell me what to freaking call you, or else I'm going to guess something like "orange painted plastic eye" and you're going to think that I disrespect you. Well, I do. My hard limits are : cutting, urethral sounds, and GUESSING GAMES.

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hard limits are : cutting, urethral sounds, and GUESSING GAMES.

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ORIGINAL: Faramir

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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

Heh. I'm invovled in the SCA, every time I see a title like that I want to ask...."so, where did you reign?"

Now that's funy :)

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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress

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hard limits are : cutting, urethral sounds, and GUESSING GAMES.

ROFLMAO.. *wipes tear from eye* I once had a sub who had learning to crochet as a hard limit and your feeling about guessing games sounds like his about crochet. That one happened after he watched me make another sub demonstrate how his learning crochet was progressing in a restaurant. I've never seen a man so horrified as that other sub. He felt that was taking humiliation far beyond any acceptable bounds. The look on his face! LMAO! To this day, crochet is in his list of hard limits.