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RE: Rules - 6/4/2007 10:08:05 AM

denika

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Rob knows I don't cope well with structure so we have few rules outside of those that are common sense in any relationship.
Here are the rules I do have

Honesty is a given, and a must, no lies between us
To be true to myself,to speak my thoughts and feelings
The coffee maker is my job, to have the beans ground, the maker ready to go in the morning
No one play's me without express permission from both Knight and Rob

That is pretty much it, if I were to break any of those (aside from the coffee one, that one gets broken from time to time due to my shifts but I try to set it up before I leave for work) To be honest I can't think of a reason why I would even entertain to break any of them, they are a foundation not guidlines.

The consequenses would be serious, and I have no desire to explore the level of damage it would cause in my relationship.

I did have to write lines once, a few years ago, Rob was pissed off at me for saying something negative about my body (bit of a common occurance) and made me sit in the car and write lines while he went shopping, that was actually the first time I had seen him set his foot down, I was more upset over the fact I felt I had disapointed him than anything else. He see's me as beautiful and to call myself less is to call him a lier, is how it was explained..I felt pretty crappy about it afterwords.

denika

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RE: Rules - 6/4/2007 10:42:54 AM

womanworshipper

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Not rules exactly, but here is the list of commitments I gave to Madam (omitting any proper names featuring in the original). There are no fixed punishments for breaches. Penalties are at Her discretion.

i will submit to Your will at all times and in all things;
i will consult You on all key decisions affecting my life and i will abide by Your judgement without exception;
i accept Your right to intervene in all or any aspect of my life (including financial matters) and I will abide by Your decisions in such matters.
i will focus on identifying and satisfying Your needs and desires and place them before my own;
i will devote my knowledge, skills, abilities and resources to Your happiness and well-being as You direct;
i will follow any instructions You give me and perform any service You require of me to the best of my ability;
If i feel that there is good reason why i should not do so, i will state it for Your consideration but if Your instructions are confirmed i will carry them out without attitude or argument;
I will always (while exercising an appropriate degree of tact and discretion) be honest with You, though i understand and accept that this may not enable me to avoid Your anger or punishment.
i accept any punishment You choose to impose for any wrongdoings or shortcomings with good grace (perceived wrongdoings and shortcomings are punishable as actual if perceived by You);
i will support You in all things, even if W/we disagree;
Where W/we disagree, i will proceed on the basis that You are right and I am wrong unless You decide otherwise;
i will maintain a courteous and submissive demeanour toward You at all times;
i accept that sometimes You may wish to push the boundaries of my public submission and subject me to some mild humiliation and I agree to submit to this with good grace.
i will never deny or try to hide my submissiveness to You.
i understand that no genital sex will ever take place between U/us and I will under no circumstances make any sexual advances toward You. This includes attempting to kiss You or initiate any intimate contact whatsoever without Your express permission.
My body is completely at Your disposal.
i will respect Your marriage and not do anything which might undermine Your relationship with x.
i will not exhibit any jealous, sulky or attention-seeking behaviour.
i will treat x, y, and all Your other family members and friends with an appropriate level of respect and consideration;
i will only engage in relationships with Your express approval. You will have full control over the way such relationships are conducted.
i will respect Your privacy and not divulge your personal information without your consent.
i accept that it is Your prerogative to decide who may have my personal information.
In Your absence, i will be instructed by y.
She has also made the following commitments to me:

To care for me and act in my best interests;
To do me no lasting physical, mental or emotional harm;
Not to take away my dignity in any serious or lasting sense (We/we agreed that being openly submissive to You is not in itself taking away my dignity).
To respect my family and friends and give them due consideration (We/we agreed that You have the right to limit my contact with certain friends and family members where You perceive this to be in my best interests);
To respect my family and work commitments but insist that I do the same and never use them as an excuse.
To allow me to maintain income and capital separately from You inasmuch as this remains in my best interests (You reserve the right to be consulted on financial decisions and Your judgement in such matters is final).

paul

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